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I need flirting tips...anyone got any good ideas?

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Question - (8 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey everyone

im 15 and would really love some tips on the best ways to flirt with guys

i have quite a few of guy friends

just would like a boyfriend

like, at parties or like bowling or something

please give me some hints, im quite shy about this sort of thing, although i have no problem striking up a conversation with a guy friend i would love some help in flirting im not sure what to do

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A female reader, Bubblegum-Pink United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2008):

Bubblegum-Pink agony auntSitting on his knee :) And if you're at a party and have been drinking you could probably get away with resting your head on his shoulder or nuzzling into him. If you both seem to be OK with this, try moving your face closer to him. Everyone loves a nice cuddle!

Also Spin the Bottle is a good way of getting to know people quickly ;) And the more booze, the better!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008):

just smile and pretend to take in everything he's saying basically! And if you want a guy to come and hit on you that you don't know then look at him, then when he turns to look at you quickly look away and smile like your embarrassed he saw you. If he comes over then he's into you, if not, he might my shy so go over to him and start to chat. But if he still isn't giving you vibes leave it and walk away.

And if you wanna hook up at a party, just cling to the guy as much as possible (without looking clingy)then strike up a convo, then suggest they go somewhere quieter. Go somewhere a little more private and tell him your cold. If you wanna kiss him just stare at his lips, and if he still doesn't get the hint offer him a mint, and if he STILL doesn't get it then walk away, he's just not that into you.

Trust me, I'm an expert at it ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008):

Aww babe the best advice I can give you on this one is to just be yourself. I'm only 20 but when I was 15 I felt pretty much the same as you but you've just got to give yourself some time to become more confident around boys and the flirting will come easily!! If you're confident then it shows in your personality, if you can already talk to guy friends ok then just imagine someone you fancy is the same, if you end up together they'll become your friend anyway!

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