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writes:Hi I hope someone can help me on this....Ive been with my boyfriend for some time and have been off the pill for around a year and a half. I have never managed to concieve....i have been to the doctors and have been for a scan and bloodtests. they told me i am fine..my bf's had his sperm tested, were both fine, but the more the months go by, the more depressed and worried i get. I can honestly wait until were married etc... if i knew i could get pregnant, id go on the pill again. im thinking of going on the pill anyway, just for an excuse for myself to say, this is why im not conceiving..has anybody ever been in a simular situation,thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): some women who have been on the pill for a long time (eg. years)and then go off it will take years for a menstral cycle to kick in again. im not sure of the science behind it but i no someone in the same position as you, who also had scans ect. and all came back clear. good luck love hannah xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 I also believe you need to go back to your doctor. These cases do happen even if the two parties are fine. I think your case needs a special focus.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 September 2008):
I think you need to go back to the doctor.
If you have had all the usual tests and it's all fine then there must be something else wrong with one of you.
You could try using one of those little kits at Boots that tell you when you are at your most fertile - they have a huge success rate according to them selves.
Also try all the usual things like getting him to wear loose pants, eat well and stop drinking. You should also ask the doc about taking folic acid as I have been told I need to take that if I want to come off the pill and have a baby.
If you are getting married then it may just be good to stop thinking about the baby for a while or your dress will no longer fit!
Plus it's sods law that once you plan to stop trying, you'll get pregnany immidiately!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, southernbaby  +, writes (8 September 2008):
your bodies are doing things at their own pace. many women have trouble conceiving. it took my mother about 2 years to become pregnant with me. its aggrivating when you're ready to expand your family, but take your time. there are plenty of things you can do to help as well. ask your obgyn for advice etc. and i'm sure there are a million books out there with suggestions. there is nothing wrong with you. things just don't always happen when you think they should.
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