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writes:There's this guy that I'm currently talking to, let's just call him M.M and I randomly met some time ago - I actually can't remember how I know him, but I have him on MSN and every few months or so, we chat, flirt and make light conversation.Well, now things have changed a bit because he's given me his phone number and we've been up texting each other until 2,3 am!He's a very sweet guy and I enjoy talking to him, because even though we flirt a little it never gets raunchy or becomes Text Sex.But here's the thing. I'm 16. He's 25.He knows how old I am, I made sure he did and I told him I would understand if he didn't want to speak with me anymore because of it. But he seems okay with it and we still communicate regularly.But my question is, does it seem like he actually likes me? Or am I just setting myself up for a fall because I've been screwed up a lot by the guys who've come in and out of my life and I don't want to get myself into that kind of drama again...
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reader, cheesy-adeey  +, writes (12 September 2008):
hiia
sorry , but i dont think you should be doing this , this is extremely dangerouse he could be a pervert or a really dangerouse man change your number msn account and plz be care full good luck sweetiie xx
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 You have been screwed up by jerks before, so you know by first hand how these people act before and after you're with them.
Think of your past relationships and the guys you've been with. Think of their actions before they met you, as in, how they treated you and how they behaved around you.
Make sure you write all of this in paper so you don't forget and get confused.
Then, think about the things that these guys made that made them into jerks. Think about tone of voice, attitude, way the treated the relationship, the way they treated you and write them down.
Try to make connections and then compare them to this guy.
Another thing you could do is to tell him that if he's with you for just any sexual thing or if he will become a jerk after being in a relationship with you, then that you won't hesitate on dumping his ass and never see him away. You've lived this too many times and you won't allow anybody else do it to you again.
It might be a little bit too forward, but he has to understand this. If he comes to you for sex he might likely back off. If he isn't, he will try his best to prove you wrong.
You have lived through this and you don't need it again. Look out for all the signs and try to prevent any feelings if you see one come out. Just watch your back. If you fall for him and he becomes another senseless jerk, don't hesitate on dumping him. You know that you'll waste your time being with him.
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