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I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

Tagged as: Age differences, Big Questions, Dating, Friends, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (8 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and every night he just smiles and walks away leaving me to think he has feelings for me, but he say he wants me, but he keeps running from me....i am 36 and he is 25...yes there is years between us, but when we get together...u can tell we love each other, but he keeps telling me he loves me, but keeps running back to his last girlfriend....i feel like i am loosing my mind..over him.....i can not sleep or get though a day without think of him or feeling him....plz say i need help...cuz i do feel like i am going crazy..

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

If you were truely soul mates then you would be together full time. He wouldn't be torn between 2 women if he was truely in love.

Just because you have a connection doesn't mean he is worth this pain.

Give him a deadline to pick one of you and then cut contact. He is never going to choose at the moment because he can have you both as long as he keeps refusing to make a decision.

You have to be tough, or this will go on forever.

If I were you though I wouldn't waste your time with him, he doesn't sound like someone worth investing time and feelings in.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntwhy aren't things working out with the other woman? i'm just worried that he only comes back to you to feel loved if the other woman breaks him down and rejects his attempts. noone deserves to be the backup!!

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