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writes:Oke so i am 15 neally 16 and i dont know how to snog.Girls keep asking me out and i say no then ma m8s say why did you say no she is hot so i gotta keep makin excuses. Can sum ppl give me some advice on how to snog?Would love to have a gf to send presants to and care for =) Thx!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2014): I'm really scared he is desperate to kiss so I said yes but we were with two other people and I pulled away quick we kissed again and I pulled away I don't know how to tell him I'm scared
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reader, kisser.lover +, writes (4 February 2012):
Heya xOkay my boyfriend had the same problem he had to get his twin to ask him out for me! it can me absoutly cringe worthy but say yes to a girl and if she does want to snog you'll know when the times right! I didn't know how to snog either nor did he so we started kissing and all of a sudden i knew how to snog and now it feels like i always knew! You just have to relax and be confident in yourself and remember your the one who is leading so don't be affraid to put your arms around her, peck her on the cheek or even hold her hand! she will like it believe me! P.S- hope this adivice helped you :)xx good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): i am a girl alll you need to do is work your cofidence up maybe ask ur m8 to snog his gf and then watch it and try it out on your hand then ask out the girl and then u got a role x
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reader, Keiran +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Mate.. i got same probs, Lmao, Girls asking me out, i say no, becuz i dont wanna be embarassed, and tell em iv never "snogged" iv done pecks on cheeks and lips ect, just not snogging,:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): I am a girl & I had my first a couple of months back, im 16. The guy.. I knew he had done more than just snogged before haha. He just sorta went for it, It wasn't as bad as i thought, he did most the work so i just sorta followed his lead and it was fine, there was a lot of tongue though. one thing, if i were to be pulling a guy that hadn't before i wouldn't care :) just to let you know incase you were worried they would be put off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Jason here,
I'm have the same problem, but i just go with the flow. some times watching romantic scenes from films helps.
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reader, timius +, writes (23 June 2010):
I tried it and its not that hard. all you do is put your hand on the back of ther neck gently and pull them to one side of the mouth and toutch lims. lip lock can be used or tonsle tennis is apropreate.
If you need more help serch youtube for how to kiss the first one up is the best.
Good luck!
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reader, timius +, writes (23 June 2010):
I tried it and its not that hard. all you do is put your hand on the back of ther neck gently and pull them to one side of the mouth and toutch lims. lip lock can be used or tonsle tennis is apropreate.
If you need more help serch youtube for how to kiss the first one up is the best.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Ive not snogged any1 yet but I know first go 4 the cheek then giv it a week or so wen ur ready 2 move on so u dont scare HER away then try 2 go for the lips for over 3 seconds
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): i didnt eather at first but then this girl came up 2 me as asked me out i didnt know what to say cus i new she would want to do somthing but i said yes
then it was like 2 days later she wanted to get off so i went with it i just closed my eyes put my lips just above hers and slowly (not to slow not to fast) and i was basickly licking her tounge and that it realy and carry on
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): hi, I had my first snog today and im 13. He's 15 and i thought it was great. Me and him have been going out for not even a month yetxx. we have snogged today and we wernt in private. it was quite scary. but after a few seconds you get into it. at first i didnt belive it would just happen and it would be easy but i found out today it was really really easy and you just go along with your partnerx my boyfriend didnt know what to do either so it was okai.
good luck x
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reader, Helper Lol :D +, writes (17 March 2010):
Mate,
Wot i would say is go with the flow, all you need to do is open up and do circle or any movements with the tongue and make sure you dnt move to fast or to slow that he/she is comfortable with it. the first time i did it was in front of 20 odd people then i got the confindence to do it more in front off people because it was also recorded, i know just walk around school snoggin ma gf and stuff, but wot u shud do is just go for it and just go with what you thinks right mate :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): It comes naturally
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): hello im katie and im 13 . play a game of truth or dare with one of your girl friends and like 2 or 3 boys make sure the boys havnt snogged or they just havnt done it for a long time, then ask your friend to dare you to snog one of the boys and make sure they think your like a expert once you've done it they will think that they did it bad and keep asking your friend to dare you to snog the boys and you will soon be an expert , it worked for me i hope it works for you aswell x*Edited by Moderator 7:08PM EST(2/15/2010).
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reader, babe97 +, writes (11 February 2010):
ok, people say that it just happens naturally and you must do what feels right. theyre wrong. i believed that and i ended up biting his lip, and not in the sexy way! the first rule is fresh breath, always have gum with you. remember and close your eyes. she will probobaly want you to lean to oe side so that she knows what side to go to. be gentle but then be aggressive, put your hands on her waist or in her hair. your tongue will know what to do, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Look just go with it, keep your mouth a little open and moist lips. And maybe play with your partners tounge :) Good luck
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reader, ben27894 +, writes (10 November 2009):
hey m8 im 15 to and I dont no how to snog but this helps get the idea French KissingThis is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss. Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): mate don't worry its simple there is no right or wrong way, just do a normal peck then open your mouth put tongue in and out but not to fast or too slow just slow but not too slow u get me? but if u want to do it without tongue just open and close your mouth over hers and most girls go for tongue (heads up) trust me my first time i was shaking like mad but when i don't it it was fine u get most of it as you go and sooner or later you think your a professional so good luck mate and all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): just go with the flow
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): well just get close to her and then see where it goes from there I know lots of people say this but it just comes natrually thats what i would like any way if i was going out with you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): Hey,
i am not saying i have had alot of snogs but you cant be afraid of it just practise and if you snog someone and they think your bad 1 in 5 changes they will tell you but you know the other 4 changes you wont xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): heey , my mate well she wanted me to ask you about
the first time , in snogging her bf , but she is short tougeed and is scared she will do it wrong and she is a bit shy and hardley speaks to him , but he is a quite one to and he has never kissed anyone before so none of them have
and she is scared it will terribley go wrong =/.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): You're neve3r goign to know unless you accept some of your invitations to go out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): right well i dont get what you do how to snog.
i no that your put ur tounge in to ur partners mouth but thaen what do u do?
i really do wanna snog him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): im 15 and i had my first snog (pull) yesterday night!!!! it was really wierd though as i had not got a clue what to do and it was at a party with a guy i had never met before!!! Which was kind of a mistake i guess, as it would have been a lot nicer with someone you have feelings for. He stuck his tongue in my mouth almost as soon as i turned around (whilst dancing with him) it was not really waht i expected, it was ok though, i was S**ting myself when i felt someone start dancing behind me. I over-worried. Seriously just let what comes naturally to you, if the girl has had experience let her lead, if not just experiment!!! :D Don't worry too much! I hope this helps! x
I still don't really know what to do so if any guys out there have some advice that would be great!? Also i go to a girls sch (unfortunately - but not for long i hope) and so how am i supposed to meet some guys outside of sch, i live quite far away from sch (i board) and advice?
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reader, babi-girl +, writes (28 May 2009):
 dont worry about it, it actually comes very natrually, dont get nervous when the time is gunna happen and it just flows. your be fine i was 16 when i had my 1st snog and i was petrified but it was easy and you get better with practice :) x
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reader, well-help +, writes (27 May 2009):
 im 15 and tbh i guess im just like you but im a girl and there not many lads like you id love one
dont worry if there bad with it (the girl that is) there not worth it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): I'm 14, almost 15, and I've kissed a few girls I've gone out with. If it's the first time kissing them then I would suggest no tongues, but remember to keep it interesting. Remember to try and keep your lips soft, not too firm, and not dry before you kiss, also avoid the 'toothy kiss'. Breath spray before hand if you get a moment to yourself does help, if not then just make sure your breath is fresh.When you're more confident with kissing your partner then's the time to start experimenting with tongues. Start off as you would with your basic kiss and open your mouth, again avoid the 'toothy kiss' and touch their tongue with the tip of yours. It can be a good idea to circle their tongue (whilst still touching) with the tip of yours. Remember as before to have good breath and not to shove your tongue into their mouth. I would suggest every now and then try to swallow so you don't build up too much saliva, it can be covered by sucking on their top or bottom lip at the time, just be careful you don't bite their tongue lol. Anyway I hope this helps but remember, if it's their first time as well then they'll be just as nervous as you are, if they have had experience then try to keep up with what they're doing. It does sort of come naturally when you first do it but it's a good idea to know what you should and shouldn't do. You gain confidence and get better with experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): I'm 14, almost 15, and I've kissed a few girls I've gone out with. If it's the first time kissing them then I would suggest no tongues, but remember to keep it interesting. Remember to try and keep your lips soft, not too firm, and not dry before you kiss, also avoid the 'toothy kiss'. Breath spray before hand if you get a moment to yourself does help, if not then just make sure your breath is fresh.
When you're more confident with kissing your partner then's the time to start experimenting with tongues. Start off as you would with your basic kiss and open your mouth, again avoid the 'toothy kiss' and touch their tongue with the tip of yours. It can be a good idea to circle their tongue (whilst still touching) with the tip of yours. Remember as before to have good breath and not to shove your tongue into their mouth. I would suggest every now and then try to swallow so you don't build up too much saliva, it can be covered by sucking on their top or bottom lip at the time, just be careful you don't bite their tongue lol. Anyway I hope this helps but remember, if it's their first time as well then they'll be just as nervous as you are, if they have had experience then try to keep up with what they're doing. It does sort of come naturally when you first do it but it's a good idea to know what you should and shouldn't do. You gain confidence and get better with experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): I'm going to this over 12's club in febuary, im 13 and i really like this guy, and he wants to add so do i, only i dont know how to snog.. ive done it once, but it was a couple of years ago, and if its in a club, there will b my mates watching, and im scared it iwll go wrong and he'll never talk to me again.. help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): hiya guys,
right well let me tell you before i first snogged i had been searching how to do it for months and months im not even joking! i was asking my freinds how to do it and everything haha. but let me just say its so easy when it comes to it. make sure you like the guy because it makes it so much easier and relaxed. i did it the first time after id had a whole night with my bf after the cinemas and he walked me home and well just happened. it really does come natural, i know you will be scared bcos i was but it just comes so easy and he said it was really good. im still with him now 5 mounths on so i cant be that bad a kisser haha. well i hope ive helped just remember to keep relaxed and go with the flow!! dont worry guys xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): Hey
Seriuosly just go in for he kiss then the rest it comes naturally i swear i did it for my first time in a dark cupboard with a girl who i didnt even know she liked me but it was my first time and i couldnt see at all but aafter she said it was amazing so dont worry
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reader, ImBringingRandomBack +, writes (16 January 2009):
Its Ok, a Couple of days ago was in your possition. But i got off with a boy [Snogged] and today he told me, " That was really good, your the best kisser ever," When i told him it was my first time he nearly fainted, i was laughing my head off. If you just go with the flow. Just follow him, it will be ok, i promise, Just don think about it, and just do it, ok?? it will be ok! :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): I am only 13 and I have never snogged either but I really want to heres some tips I have picked up from different websites: Kissing Explained
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): look up videos on youtube first time snoging is the best time you just go with what the girl is doing dont let that stop you from making out
go for it. i didnt no what to do for the first time just be confident, girls like guys being manly trust me i know
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Okk Matee Snogging Comes SImplyy Its Likee When I First Did Saay Yeahh Look Into Eatchothers Eyes And Tilt Your Head And Go For It Just Open Your Mouth!!
And I Mean Open !! Hehe & Just Stick Your Tongue Naturlly And Just Go Fot It It Will Come Naturally Nothing To Worrie About Mateee :D.
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reader, John098 +, writes (8 September 2008):
John098 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOke thx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (8 September 2008):
 It does kind of come naturally once you start but its hard to describe really!! I would advice no tongues at your age not everyone likes it, a quick flit across their lips might be okay occasionally but dont stick it down her throat. Keep it natural and relaxed and remember she has to breathe so stop for air!!!
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