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writes:My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my period, we had sex three times that night and 4 times the day after. Now when i tense my stomace or wipe my vagina it hurts, what does this mean??does it hurt a man aswell having sex that much as i like it hard and fast
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): I use to have sex with my bf a lot like everyday for at least an hour. It was rough and fast. Its just that you get sore all you need to do is stop having sex so much untill your sorness goes away. Thats all.
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reader, oliviamarie  +, writes (5 November 2010):
I'm going through the same thing, however i believe it's because I had sex while my period was ALMOST done. blood is a strange liquid and is nothing like the cervical mucus that makes sex feel good.
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reader, yoyoyodudeshi +, writes (9 September 2008):
wow, i never knew it was possible to need to lubricate because of how fast it is. i hope when im 16 i dont give my girlfreind pain
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (9 September 2008):
Yes having sex a lot will cause soreness. When my fiance and I lost our virginities to eachother we were bunny rabbits. We would have sex 8 times a day. So over all we would have sex for about 6 to 7 hours. I would get really sore. I also liked it rough and fast. My advice is if it really bothers you then limit the sex however for me it was only a little bit of discomfort so I would go at it like a rabbit and then use the couple of days I couldn't be sexual with him as a healing period.As far as his pain he can get some pain from rough sex. Him slamming his pelvis into yours can cause him slight discomfort. He can also get pain on his penis if when you two are having sex you aren't really wet or you start to dry up. It causes friction on his penis that can sometimes be uncomfortable. To fix that just try using a little lube and that should fix that and help with some of your discomfort as well.
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reader, Bubblegum-Pink +, writes (8 September 2008):
 As far as I know it only hurts a guy if he gets carpet burn from your pubes or if you're not wet enough. And 3/4 times in a day is probably enough to cause you discomfort until later in the week. I'd suggest that if the problem persists you talk to your GP.
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reader, DoodlePixie +, writes (8 September 2008):
Heh as much as you're enjoying it you may want to slow down just a little bit on the sex. The constant friction against your vagina will surely cause the skin to hurt after a while and seeing as, as you phrased it, enjoy it "hard and fast" it means that you could well be doing yourself a little damage if its three or four times a day.Try finding other ways to be loving and intimate with your boyfriend other than the "hard fast sex". Slow gentle sex is just as enjoyable.
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