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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. It began at the wedding, ... (425 words)

I really want to have a threesome, but I'm dubious that it will ruin our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! So i really love sex. I have a boyfriend,now for almost 1 year, and things are going really well. We are friends and lovers. Everything seem to be great when we are together, even with no money... When we have sex, I feel really turned on,because the man is really s... (178 words)

He never sends me e-mails... how do I get him to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i get a boy to like me. i'm 13. i have sent him to e-mails in the 11 years that i have known him and he has never e-mailed back. What do i do to get him to like me?... (43 words)

How do I get over this teacher of mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just transfered to a new school, because my school closed down. I am still very upset about it, and there's not a day that goes by when I am dressing in my uniform thinking about what school I am going to, and how the uniform I'm wearing isn't MY uniform. Do you know what ... (688 words)

He keeps referencing being single and a bachelor while at the same time he wants to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello ladies and gents both of your answers are very appreciated. Heres my story. I met a man back in 2001 I was 19 he was 21. Our relationship then was strictly sexual. I liked him alot and if I could choose who I wanted to be with/marry/have children with it would be him. ... (668 words)

My F-I-L harrassed me, and said he won't stop until he gets what he wants.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old and married my husband 5 months ago. My husband's father had been very close to me, really helping me be accepted in the family. Its a big family with 5 kids, all of whom are married, my husband being the youngest of the children. Soon after we got married, my ... (345 words)

Someone gave me oral herpes on purpose - will karma provide a consequence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if someone has given me oral herpes on purpose what does that make them and what should i do about it? should i just let god handle it? because anything that happens is for a reason right? so does that mean that if something happens to me on purpose was it still god's will? and ... (130 words)

Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because someone's penis entered through ... (182 words)

I love him and want kids, but after a rocky 1st year should I move with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello there Please help. I have had a very rocky relationship for the past 14 months, but love each other much. He had unloved upbringing and can get very angry and finds it difficult to deal with situation. After many arguments, usually over his unreasonable behaviour h... (225 words)

I've never had a date or a boyfriend, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 25 year old female and I've never been on a date or Had a boyfriend. I feel like there's something wrong with me, is there?? Help would be good, as I feel alone in this problem.... (40 words)

Does the fact my girlfriend sleeps over a lot bad for our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now and we both love each other but she lives about 30 mins away and until a couple of months ago she didn't drive so she usually just spends the night about 3-4 nights a week. I'm 20 and she is 18, I live in my parent's ... (332 words)

She's said she's in love with me but it's not working... she's terrified of committing here. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - Just had the most amazing time ... (164 words)

My husband has been cheating on me all along with his ex wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age - My husband of 12 years has been cheating on me, the other woman called to tell me, he in turn confessed. They have in fact never stopped sleeping together she is his ex wife. This was a year ago and I cannot get over it, it is on my mind most of the time. He has stopped ... (92 words)

She always able to steal my guys because she has big boobs!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has really big boobs and all of the guys like her. Any guy that she asks out says yes, and any guy that I ever like she has to get with him. It really frustrates me and I hate her for having big boobs sometimes. What should I do?... (52 words)

I feel he's never gotten over his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I first started dating my boyfriend he kept from me that his best friend and business partner was actually his ex, I found that out around our third month dating and made him confess, he said he didn't want to worry me for nothing. She was his first love and they had a tw... (329 words)

Is my "friend" just stuck up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went to the mall with my so friend, well she kind of treats me different sometimes so I don't know if she is my friend but I went with her and when we were at a restaurant eating our food and talking she started talking about herself. When I shared my opinion I was ... (149 words)

I'm in love... and I HATE it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate feeling this way, I'm in love and I HATE it... I think it's because my parents split up after 30 years together so it's drilled it into my head that nothing lasts and eventually everything will crash and burn. I hate to let my guard down and find it so difficult to expre... (89 words)

I hired a private investigator to see where he was going and was shocked at the report!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and my husband is 28. We've got a four-year-old son who is so adorable, and my husband is a great father. For the past month and a half his behaviour has been suspicious. He's been going out late at night claiming to have extra work - yet we've never had any extra ... (303 words)

My husband is very selfish in bed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex and having his orgasm and it ... (205 words)

I found some more forwarded emails from her to my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend secretly kept in touch with a girl he once worked with about a year ago. They exchanged emails, chatted, and text and he hid it from me very well. He wanted to date her sometime ago, but he was rejected. They however stayed friends. She stays in another country but ... (240 words)

Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus? If so, why do some say they do and some say they dont? Are they scared we think they're gay? I only met two men who asked me to touch them there. However, I don't really know how to do it properly. Should I... (167 words)

Thought she wasn't interested so kissed and had sex with someone else, now she's jealous! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl and was unsure whether she liked me or not. We had kissed on a couple of occasions, but it didn't necessarily mean she liked me as we were both drunk and as most will know these things happen. Anyway, on Saturday I was at a party and she was there, I tried ... (227 words)

I need opinions on what to do and why I feel so sad all the time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and just feel so sad all the time. I know what's causing it - a group of girls, my 'friends'. My situation is a difficult, one but every day I come home crying at something that's happened. Usually something pathetic that's been escalated hugely and I honestly hate ... (146 words)

Find myself obsessed with my female ex-teacher...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so. I have this infatuation with my woman ex-teacher. I am a bisexual, and I'm only in middle school. I'm in 8th grade, and I had her in 6th grade. She's amazing to me, she isn't very good looking, but I think she's beautiful. Anyway, I always am looking for her. I look ... (552 words)

Dating an older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and I'm dating a man who is 25 years old than me. I always ask him if he has a problem with our age difference. He says he doesn't. So am I the one with the problem? Sometimes I feel like our relationship is only sexual and I feel like that's all he wants from ... (103 words)

I'm too sexually active for my liking, how can I calm down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really sexually active, last night I slept with a friend of mine and tonight, where my friends and I are going, there's this guy who wants to sleep with me and of course, I'm sexually active and I said ok. What's wrong with me? So far in my life Ii slept with total of 5 ... (87 words)

Worries about pregnancy and the contraceptive pill.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm having some worries about pregnancy and the contraceptive pill. I had me period then forgot to take the first active pill. had unprotected sex then forgot to take the pill again until almost 2 days later. I've been feeling a little sick. Not sure whether it's bec... (105 words)

Break up with my boyfriend and give this friend a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's wrong but I force myself not to believe it. I slept with a guy that I really like and he really likes me also. We talk every day for hours on end, we always hangout and we both love spending time with each other. He even calls me on his 10 minute breaks at work that ... (228 words)

Am I a lesbian, bisexual or just perverted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!I have a question for you.Well,I am 25 years old,and over this last months I think...I ve changed. Since I was 7 years old, I masturbate, and think about sex at all times. I also remember thinking about sex before that age. So, since then,I explore my fantasies,and I find m... (174 words)

He's got a GF and resisting my offers to meet up. Is he just messing with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What is up? Ok - I'm a good looking older woman with a good figure and personality! - I have recently got involved with a younger guy who I would do ANYTHING for and he knows I really like him (but unfortunately he has a girlfriend who he says doesn't get on with him)! - ... (112 words)

Ladies: What is up with people thinking masturbating is just for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick query about female masturbation. Ladies/girls is it just me or do you think it's a bit sexist to presume that girls don't masturbate and that wanking is a guy's thing? If you are a girl and you masturbate, do you feel really annoyed because guys can just talk op... (128 words)

He cheated - should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - basically my bf cheated on me for a couple of weeks just kissing nothing like sex or anything then when one of his friends told me he broke up with me but then just a couple hours later was begging me to forgive him and give him another chance. after alot of crying from both of ... (310 words)

Are we doomed to be an oral free couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesnt give me oral and i love it. He will finger me before we have sex, and sometimes if im lucky during, but he doesnt go down and its my fave thing ever. He has said he doesnt like it but he will do it if he wants me to, but by then, im not in the mood. he ... (104 words)

Is this cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - After I ejaculate theres a clear sticky liquid? is this cum?... (11 words)

BF wants to try again with his ex, but says in time we'll be back together...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted this as an answer to someone else with a similar situation, but ended up asking a question instead. My BF was madly in love with me. He'd been separated from his wife for over two years. She'd been living with a guy. He was working on filing the divorce papers. ... (317 words)

Infidelity and physical abuse... is this fixable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well Cupidians, I am 2 months out of a 3 year relationship. I encountered forms of infidelity throughout it from her, 5 guys entered the relationship through her. The last was a full fledged infidelity after 2 weeks of being broken up yet she was spending time with him du... (458 words)

After sports showering shows guys with bigger packages than me, am I normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll just cut to the chase.. I have a small penis erect i think its roughly 3-4 inches. Is the small or around average. Im 16 so im still growing but i'm a bit concerned. This is gonna sound really perverted but I play rugby so we shower together from my point of view everyone ... (65 words)

A woman giving birth turned me on... am I a pervert?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is an odd thing. A few weeks ago i was flicking through the tv channels and there was a documentary on about women giving birth...normally this sort of thing chrns my stomach but on this occasion i decided to watch the programme and got really turned on by all the nois... (122 words)

Can a guy just be shy or is he avoiding being questioned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when a guy doesn't answer a question? - I really like this guy who stays in touch by phone with me as we live apart! - The thing is - he rarely shows any emotion and sometimes when I ask him something outright he just doesn't answer or doesn't seem to ... (92 words)

Did I do something wrong to the potential love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together. He is her first boyfriend... (296 words)

Let's try again... do you think my marriage is worthy saving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help with this, however I do not need any harsh comment so please, please, restrain: I married my first guy 14 years ago, we had a girl and when she was 6 my husband started to be different with me, I think it was also my fault, 'cause, we lived at his mom and she was ... (848 words)

I want to go out with him to get over my ex, but is it not fair because my heart is elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I have a dilemma. I have a date this week with someone who seems really keen on me, but I am getting cold feet and don't know if it is fair of me to go and meet this guy cos I'm not over my ex. My ex and I split up over a year ago amidst a lot of nastiness and ... (158 words)

Does his e-wink ; ) mean anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I sent a message to someone i like on a social networking site, and told him i thought he was attractive and funny, and he replied saying thanks, kiddo and put a wink symbol like this - ; ). what do you think his response means ?.... (52 words)

Hard, soft, hard, soft... why are my erections doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was hugging up to a girl this past weekend and a friends get together kind of thing and I kept getting an erection but a couple minutes later it would go flaccid, I wasnt really interested in having sex with her but it was kinda frustration. Is this normal?... (56 words)

How do I come across as the saucy temptress he thinks I am?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here goes...i am going out with my good friend in a few weeks time and i know that a guy i know - through her will probably come and meet up for a drink later on in the night. We've been talking over text and phoning and recently the texts have gotten a bit saucy. i'm ... (208 words)

Men: why do you ask about a woman's past if you're just going to judge her for it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Men: Why do you ask about a woman's sexual past if you are going to (intentionally or otherwise) judge her for it and hold it against her? ...even when she has never been unfaithful, she has always been honest with you, she is with you and doesn't want to be with anyone else? ... (54 words)

Is this a sign of him flirting and that he likes me again? Any advice on flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all at dear cupid, Im not really good with this dating part but how can u tell if a guy is flirting with u? Theres this guy i really like, we where in a kind of relationship which only lasted a few days but that was last yr well recently ive become close to my mate and her ... (133 words)

Am I pressuring him into sex when he's not ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend and I have been going out for two months now. We are both 19 years old. After about a month of going out he started trying to initiate sex and at first I was unsure so we held back and waited. A couple of weeks ago I felt ready so we tried but he couldn't keep ... (236 words)

My ex sometimes acts like we're together, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, im real confused at the moment im still in contact with my ex and we are really good mates, but he sometimes acts like we're together las nite he was touching my leg like hitting it, then on the phone earlier he said he was going to ask his boss if he could get a ... (102 words)

Her sexual past haunts me daily, I didn't even ask, she volunteered the information!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for about six months now. I purposely never asked about her sexual past. However she has offered up more than enough information on her own.I cannot seem to get over her past as much as I try. I know I can't change it, I do like her a lot and she totally ... (70 words)

I think she sees me as nothing more than a sex toy... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and i have recently moved homes and she has not been able to join me as she works near to where she currently lives. Since i moved home our relationship has deteriorated into arguments all the time and i have no idea why. Shes ... (266 words)

I flashed another guy and my BF dumped me. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, i have been talking to this guy called "Dann" for over a year and my boyf is really jealous. We go on cams a lot and last Saturday my boyf asked me if id flashed him and i said no and then he went on to say that it is something id do. Which really hurt me, and we rowed ... (164 words)

Is it too much to ask for pleasure after he's done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for 3 years are 16 now and have been having sex for past 2 months, we do use protection just to be safe (condoms, the pill) but lately im not that into it even though he is. he can never seem to get me to orgasm. its only happened once and when ... (104 words)

She accepted me back after I doubted my commitment, how do I make the best of it this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other etc. Now I am 2... (204 words)

Are condoms still necessary even if I'm on birth control pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering if I was on birth control should my boyfriend still need to wear a comdon so we don't get pregnant? Thanks for all the help.... (29 words)

Now I'm reticent to express my feelings to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know there is a social idea that people who are inexperienced with relationships get attached too quickly and think what they are feeling is love. I haven't had many relationships and I know that I definitely fell into this category for my first relationship. I've had ... (128 words)

My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures and it upsets me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there, My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures on his email. I talked to him about how it makes me feel but he is still looking at these and tells me "he's just a guy" how do I make him stop? ... (45 words)

The father doesn't want to step up now that I'm pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I'm 30 weeks pregnant and I'm not with the father any more. We were together for about two and a half years then in Feb I moved away but he still came to see me, we ended up breaking up the day after I got pregnant. I was 14 when I got pregnant, I told him and my ... (137 words)

Am I REALLY ready to get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have lived together for 4 years and I asked her to marry me about 3 years ago. Lately our relationship fell apart where we don't talk about things. My fiance is 6 years older than I am and I love her very very much. We had some serious talk about our ... (352 words)

I don't stand out or look special on my wedding pictures and I'm upset about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Would appreciate views and advice. I have come back from honeymoon and have been looking at my wedding photos. My wedding day was a bit mixed and not easy going at times due to family pressures and nasty comments. However I have become upset mostly due to the fact my mother ... (198 words)

The past is the past... why does he want to know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating someone for almost 8 months. I have never been unfaithful to him, nor in any of my other relationships. I do not carry myself in a classless manner, and I have respect for myself. However, he has been asking how many men I have had intercourse with... (382 words)

I need to find proof she's cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been told by people my girlfriend is cheating but I have no idea! How can I tell and what should I do?... (24 words)

I won't be used... but I still want him and love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Three weeks ago my partner of four years left me. He went back to his ex wife. They have no kids but his mother always wanted them to get back together and his ex never gave up on contacting him. He was very torn as he loves me and loves my company and said it would be me he ... (185 words)

How am I to prevent past traumas from turning me into an evil, manipulative temptress???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this has taken me almost a half hour to write and still doesn't explain it right, but anyway here goes. My question is this:- How am I to prevent past traumas from turning me into an evil, manipulative temptress??? If I'm not already halfway there!!! A short history to ... (504 words)

Improving is needed... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together almost 4 years (in April). When we were in high school she would right me love notes an she always had said she and I would be together forever, now it's down the line I have made my screw ups and have regretted them and aplogize, see I ... (467 words)

Does he love me? Will he ever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now. before I entered this relationship I was dealing with rejection from another guy and was kind of depressed so I was trying to focus on school and stuff. So this guy I am with came along and he liked me and I fell ... (291 words)

I don't get how he's gone totally different it's like he's had a personality change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would never dream of cheating on my boyfriend! We've been together for a long time! At the start of the relationship things were PERFECT and I'm really not kidding, he was the most amazing boyfriend I could ever dream of but just within 7 months, he started to change, ... (276 words)

Nothing I do helps... My boyfriend is addicted to games!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - To put it simply my boyfriend is addicted to games =,= and I love sex but usually after he's done going out with his buddies he's on his games UGHH! and he's so hot I can't resist.. and I've tried a lot of things, teasing him showing up naked even though he does do me quite a ... (85 words)

Why has my boyfriend changed so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, within about 8 months he changed A LOT! sometimes he treats me as a mate more than a girlfriend, he will come to see me but just sit downstairs have a cuppa tea and then leave, I'm not saying that's wrong but it's ... (309 words)

I had begun to put this all behind me but now am forced to try and talk it out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to recover from an always unrequited love. They were my good friend beforehand and they know that I like them. I just never told them that I love them, to spare us both the humiliation. I told her that I liked her almost a month ago now. I told her that I know ... (562 words)

Lost... one minute all lovey dovey, next minute the bomb is dropped!

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend has told me he wants to break up because he is tired but is hoping we can be together after some time alone to pick himself up and recharge his mind body and soul..... I miss him terribly and all this happened so suddenly that I didn't know what hit me, one moment ... (68 words)

I've made my life again and I'm terrified to go back with him in case he hurts me...

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship again as he's showing signs ... (155 words)

How do I seduce him without being embarassed?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend stopped in the middle of having sex last nite, complaining that im to quiet in bed, and because he doesnt know if im enjoyin it he doesnt enjoy it! he wants me to be more dominating in bed, but i cant change the way i am! Im just scared that if im not saticfying ... (63 words)

Why doesn't she just butt out?

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18 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay I am a part of this youth choir and it's a lot of fun besides the politics which is like everywhere n all. There is this guy I really like and he's like 3 years older than me and this girl who is like 2 years younger than me so 5 years younger to him hits on him like ... (136 words)

We are driving each other nut's, and I don't know why!

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I moved in together 6 months ago and since then we argue almost everyday. At this point I don't even know why we are agueing. We love each other and when we calm down its really easy to see this but we are driving ea other nuts with all the fights. Can anyone ... (99 words)

Simple question, but I need help! "How do I get a girlfriend"

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i get a girlfriend ... (8 words)

I'm so scared about leaving school... did anyone else feel like this when they left?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a graduating student and about to leave school this week. I have just got a house that me and my partner are renting... I'm just so scared about leaving school! Did anyone else feel like this when they left? Did anyone else have any really difficult time when they first ... (63 words)

What do I do? I'm out of options and I can't figure this girl out!!!

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I stumbled across this site in search of an answer... Backround, I go to University of California at Berkley, and there's this girl that lives near me in my dorm. She's a floor below me, but we have become really good friends. I would consider her my best friend, ... (725 words)

Please help, I am worried over the porn I looked at.!

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old girl, I have a boyfriend of almost a year and yesterday we got close and when we were kissing and things I told him what I would do with other girls partly to excite him but mostly because at that moment I would have and I wanted to be honest. He then ... (218 words)

Should I go to see a doctor, or has my body sorted it's self out?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm just asking this for a bit of reassurance, I know how helpful people have been on here on the past and I just want some help. Please don't judge me and only answer my question. About 4 months ago I had an abortion and my body has been a little out of sorts, I went on t... (273 words)

Does size matter?? I want to be a porn star!

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, Im a 16 year old,latino And im measuring at 7 1/4 Umm well I have a lot of questions to ask well I want to know if im "big" enough to be in porn? Also my penis has been growing rapidly I was a 5 1/2 just 6 months ago is this normal?? Around how big do you guys ... (69 words)

Please just help me put my mind at ease. Very concerned about my size!

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a teenage male and a virgin, let's just say 15-18 and I am stuck on the time old question of does size matter. I won't lie, I'm at a 4.5 to 5 inches and for someone like me, you see guys with 6 and 7 inch penises wondering if THEY are big enough and you look at yourself ... (369 words)

I don't know whether or not I should move in with my boyfriend when I am just "not feeling a spark other than friendship between us!"

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyf and I were together 4 years before i broke it off for one year. I didn't feel our relationship was going anywhere, and felt we needed a break. We got back together 4 months ago, and have recently signed up for a place together (1 year on the lease). I should be excit... (282 words)

He didn't want commitment so I will try to move on but feel to exhausted to date a new person and afraid it won't work.

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I finally decided that i should move on from the man i was dating this year and start looking for someone else. As there wasn't a normal relationship and he said to me that he didn't like a commitment between us i wasn't happy about all of this. I waited a lot of time if ... (243 words)

He never has time for me so I broke up several times, but I want him back again! I need your advice.

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing someone for 6 months now and he never has time for me between his 2 jobs and maintaing his bod. I have never met family of friends or been to his residence and have went out a few times. I told him because of this it was over several times and he just ends... (146 words)

Anyone dealt with infidelity? Never dealt with this... till now...

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 19 years. cheated on me with a "young" woman (probably early 20's) voice recorded in my car! He totlly denies it., told, by other's - alway's will - even my therapist said so. I am a 42 year old pretty - look (told) about 34 years. I know (from recorder) it was ... (151 words)

I want to break up and have my time of FUN, but what if it's not possible to return to my boyfriend later? Should I take the chance?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for about a year and a half and I am pretty sure that I want to end up with him. The problem is, I'm only 19 and I feel like I haven't gotten to do a lot of the things I'd like to do. I live with him, so I've never gotten to live with ... (155 words)

How can you tell if a guy likes you from reading body language?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I've heard that you can tell if a guy likes you from body language... but I don't know the signs.... so if anyone out there could tell me anything about this subject I'd really apppeciate it :) thanks ... (45 words)

Any tips for doing a good back massage?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to give my boyfriend a good back massage-the last time didnt go very well as it was my first time doing it. Any tips?... (27 words)

We broke up as I moved away, should I tell him I still like him and how?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for about 3months and I had to break up with him cause I moved to another state but I still like him I keep in touch with him what should I do?and how should I tell him that I still like him... (48 words)

My feelings for him seem to have faded, what should I do?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a relationship problem, i don't know if i even have feelings for the guy I'm with, at first everything was sooo good but when he told me that he found out he had a baby mama [he got her pregnant before he got with me] that's when things started to change, i was heart ... (154 words)

Can I give or receive oral sex without passing on my oral herpes?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if i have oral herpes and i have no outbreaks can someone give me oral sex without me giving it to them?also can i give oral to someone without passing it on if i have no outbreaks at the time?or can i never have oral or give oral ever?... (49 words)

My boyfriend has given up on trying to make me orgasm!!

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he still hasn't been able to give me an orgasm. This is nothing new, as I've never achieved an orgasm with anybody (but myself). Other than that we have a great sex life. We experiment with loads of positions, give ... (307 words)

Should I just forget this crush and focus on my boyfriend?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im with a guy at the moment, but have had a crush on another guy at work for about two years. My current boyfriend and I have been together on and off for a number of years, however recently had a 9 month break. During this break, i did some online dating... whilst... (244 words)

My new partner's ex is trying to break me and ruin my life.

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18 November 2008 (F)

age - I am really struggling. My new partner's ex is trying to break me and ruin my life. They were never married - she fell pregnant when they dated for a few weeks - so they have a child together and share the parenting. But she controls him by threatening to take him to court and ... (1112 words)

Is it wrong for me to like him, because he is my friends ex?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm in a weird dilema... Me and this girl were good friends. And she had a boyfriend. She graduated last year and me and her boyfriend and our mutual friend started hanging out a lot, since she wasn't at school, her and her boyfriend weren't always together. This was noth... (271 words)

What are some ways for me to please my BF without intercourse?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of pleasing him? My best friend ... (76 words)

It's hard for me to come onto guys and know if they feel the same...

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i want to pursue this guy that i find really attractive. But i don't know if he's attracted to me, so i'm a little hesitant. I'm a shy person, and not very outgoing. I find it hard to come on to guys. So i would like some advice on how to. I also would like extra... (168 words)

My brothers are driving me insane!

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18 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My brothers are driving me insane. I (im 27) have two older brothers. Well one of them decided to cheat on his girlfriend (call him David) she threw him out. David lived with our other brother, Jeremey (not he's real name). David slept with Jeremey's wife (he's divorcing ... (133 words)

Is there anything I can do to calm down?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I are best friends and in two weeks he's coming to see me but we both have g/b friends and he and I both want to cheat. I feel horrible but I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me. We plan on keeping it a secret between just he ... (122 words)

Must I just be patient?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My phone is temporarily off and I was talking to someone who I care about but when I asked him to come over my house he didn't show up, maybe he was busy but my phone has been off and he does work. I haven't really heard from him but I wonder if I should move on or should I ... (120 words)

I'm wondering if I should finally come clean about my feelings with her?

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a very intense yet short relationship with a women I know from work. We stopped seeing each other when her ex came crawling back claiming he had changed. (OK, I'm a little bitter about that part). Nevertheless, we both still have feelings towards each other. We ... (160 words)

The more I think about my life so far the more I think I might be gay.

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was in high school I always considered myself straight, and figured that I would eventually find a guy I liked. I have since graduated and still haven't found a guy I like (I have never had a b/f). I have always thought girls were pretty or beautiful, but I am now ... (187 words)

Help me to be mature about this, he has the right to look at other women right...?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Things between my ex and I are looking up. We have been broken up for four months now (after a two year relationship) and we couldn't stop loving each other. We moved further apart after the break-up but he still takes time to drive down and see me (2 hrs). He hasn't dated in ... (312 words)

I'm really confused by the behavior of a girl I am interested in.

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused by the behavior of a girl I am interested in. We have hung out a few times during the week but the last few weekends I've called her she never answered or called back. Last week she asked if I wanted to hang out with her but she never called me. Today she ... (86 words)

How can I tell my friend that I think her boyfriend is trying to buy her love?

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I tell my friend that I think her boyfriend is trying to buy her love? He lavishes gifts on her and I know that she is not 100% sold on this guy. She likes him and cares for him, but I'm not sure how far that extends. I think her boyfriend has a sense of this and is ... (181 words)

19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?... (32 words)

He took her before her time... it's not fair!

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18 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hello.....please explain to me. My mother had open heart surgery as well as I. She passed away.... I was a failed operation, and yet I still stand to this day. I blame myself for losing my mom, because I was the failer and she wasn't. Why did she go? Why wasn't it me!? I... (149 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant but I also have feelings for another...

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in the armed forces and left for deployment with my relationship being rocky at best. Half way through I managed to get home for a week and all seemed better. 3 weeks later I recieved the news my partner was pregnant I was overjoyed and still am. 7 weeks before returning I ... (171 words)

Do I get out and lose the trust from both of them?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a horrible pathetic person, I really am. I should really have asked this question a few months ago, before I got involved. So, I'm first of all going to ask a question as I would have a asked back then, and then I'm going to ask what to do now. Ok, for a few years, I've ... (554 words)

I can't seem to get turned on!

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there in silence! I'm really ... (76 words)

Whats your opinion on dating websites?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was just wondering if I could ask what people's opinions are on online dating websites? I recently joined one, and I'm just wondering if anyone has any success/failure stories? I'm trying to work out if its actually worth my time! I've heard many stories of weird... (70 words)

Not sure about relationship

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a great guy, and we have not really hit problems until these past few weeks. We have had a rough fall and I am going through some issues with school. We are an hour apart, but we see each other about every week and a half. The ... (331 words)

Ladies and gentlemen, my sister is naive and making excuses.

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This one pertains to my sister more than me. just as a concerned brother. My sister is 20. She is a waitress just making ends meet and working her way through a community college pre-med program. about 10 months back she met this guy. The 30 year old illegal Mexican immigrant ... (202 words)

How can I prove my feelings for her so that we never break up again?

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was studid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other etc. Now I am 21 and she is 16... (192 words)

I feel like my wife has just died and the grief is horrible!

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18 November 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I are having a big problem. Over the past 3 years I sometimes drank too much. I no longer drink at all now. (I was a fall asleep drinker)I have never been abusive, sarcastic or bad to my wife in any way. I have always supported her in everything she has done. W... (298 words)

Does she truly love me or is she just obsessed?

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years now. It is long distance, we dont see each other as often as we would like but we still have managed to stay together this long. Don't get me wrong we break up a lot because I believe it is the distance. I've never been in ... (386 words)

I'm so in love with another man...

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18 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years wif my husband for 11 and I don't love him, I have been having an affair solid for the last year with a man I was once in love with as a teenager although I have been seeing him on and off for 4 years, I am not proud of this but cannot help it, ... (168 words)

I'm basically a dumbass and I'm in love with someone who doesn't trust me. Ladies preferrably.

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18 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating this girl for a while, and she was amazing. She's fun, and outgoing, smart, and utterly gorgeous to boot. everything I could ask for but about 5 months into it I had a drunken folley, if you will, and the relationship ended with large loads of regret, tears, and ... (238 words)