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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can he say I'm his girlfriend then turn around and say he's single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. I'm confused, how can he say ... (68 words)

My husband says there are 2 types of I don't want to. Can anyone shed some light on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when talking to my husband about our lack of sex, he says there are two types of don't want to?... (24 words)

Can I cope being a friend to the woman I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, let me outline the situation - i'm 28 years old and until august was in a seven year relationship with the mother of my four year old daughter. for years she had ruined my life by stopping me going out, stopping me seeing my family, stopping me having friends and ... (795 words)

A Christmas present for my boyfriend that doesn't cost anything...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so my boyfriend told me he already knew what he was getting me for christmas. So i told him that i wanted to get him something for him too, and then he said that he didnt want anything. So i told him i was gonna get him something anyway, and he said he didnt want anything ... (108 words)

Husband open with me about having sex with other men !!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age - Hello Again, I have posted before and you guys gave me very valuable and insightful information.... but I am still wondering if I am doing the right thing. I have been married for 25 years, have 3 children + 2 foster boys that are all freshmen in college, and have a wonde... (588 words)

How can I keep my teacher in my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

12 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok well first off I will refer to my teacher as Mr. Chemistry because it's less confusing for me that way. Anyway, I have had this teacher for several years now and he is also my class advisor. We have grown pretty close and I spend almost every day after school with him ... (653 words)

He says I'm overreacting to his drug use...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i seem to be at a dead end with my new relationship and suppose i need feedback and a little advice on what exactly i should do. ive been in a relationship for 5 months now and he is great he is very affectionate, wonderful lover, interacts really well and everybod... (195 words)

Christians waiting until marriage for sex, but how far should/can we go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are both Christians and are waiting to have sex until we're married. I doubt we will end up marrying each other, but we are having a great relationship. I'm just concerned with how far we should go. We've made out a few times, and he's always getting ... (162 words)

What should I do to make him say he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend does not tell me that he loves me, apparently because he believes love is a strong word and only exists for married couples. He tells me he likes me very much but I don't feel comfortable with it. We have been going out for a month now but I sometimes feel I'm just ... (67 words)

Burning questions about guys and your erections!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I really want to know all about erections; a)How does it actually exactly feel when one has an erection?! b)What can a woman do to make it feel better? c)What NOT to do...? d) Are there different types of erection? Thanks heaps x ... (67 words)

My boyfriend wants to make out with me, any tips on how to be less nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - (I'm 13) Well basically, I want to make out with my boyfriend and I he wants to make out with me. (He told my best friend because he was hoping my best friend would tell me... which she did) Then he asked me if I would mind if he wanted to make out. I told him I was a little ... (125 words)

I don't have many new friends, how can I fix this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I hope you can help. I feel really depressed. I feel like I haven't got a friend in the world and that I am surrounded by fakes. I am on a social networking site, and a lot of people I knew at school have added me. The thing is, they very rarely speak to me, never meet ... (345 words)

Fellas - what do you mean when you say you want a break in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you guys mean when you say you want a (time defined) break? You may have told her you wanted the break because of the fighting, or because you had things to figure out in your mind and needed space. I know it depends... but... on average? It would be so interesting to ... (136 words)

Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I said yes and I asked if he was ... (260 words)

Should we try councelling or is it to late will it never work again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has had an affair with a woman he has known for 5 years through work who is ten years younger. It had been going on for 7 months before I found out. Around the time it started my father had just died and he lost his business so we were in financial trouble and ... (426 words)

Emotionally Abused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with a guy that is emotionally abusive I guess. I don't feel like I can trust him at all. For some reason I just can't get myself to leave him. I love him so much, but he makes me hurt so bad. He broke up with me many times and says it is because I am fat, but then he ... (184 words)

I didn't like her until my friend started to date her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend is going out with this girl that i used to like. i didn't like her until my friend started dating her. What do i do?... (27 words)

Ready for our first kiss but not sure when or how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - ok,im 11 and i have a girlfriend and we really are into each other. But, we both know we are ready to have our first kiss. But, i dont know when to do it and how to approach her. plz help me!... (42 words)

My family keeps taking - stealing - the money that I've earned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this isnt about any relationship but its about my mother. I'm really fed up with my mother wanting money from me because she wont get a job. i have a job and i get money. she owes me alot of money and my mother and father keep asking for more, they say there going to g... (128 words)

She doesn't appreciate anything I do, should I keep her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been with my girlfriend for about 1yr and 6 mon. she has been living with me for 6 mon. this whole time i have been the only one working and i pay for everything food, if we go out, cigs, everything. i mean she does housework like dishes and cleaning but i have to ... (192 words)

After everything he still acts like he loves me, what's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, For the past 4 years now this guy and i met we became best friends i told him i liked him but back then he was so busy and he was too shy and gave me a letter saying we shouldnt go out because he didnt have the time he thought i deserved and all these nice thing... (120 words)

She didn't say she missed me. Should I be alarmed by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now, we get along great. we are on our fifth date now, we have kissed quite a bit, but nothing more than that. She has been very busy studying for her exam, so I haven't seen her in about a week. Anyway, she said she was looking ... (141 words)

Any other man could give me a baby so I wonder why I'm sticking with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for just over a year. We have been trying for a baby for almost 3 years in total, but since we've been married, its been constant every month. I had a miscarriage 6 months into the marriage, and I haven't become pregnant again since. We don... (282 words)

What is with men and older women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter? Also what age gap between younger men and older women would you find uns... (57 words)

He got meningitis and it made me realize I have feelings for him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week one of my good friends got meningitis :( he was in intensive care on a ventilator and no joke i just couldnt stop cryin :( i was so worried about him an visited him in intensive care and on the ward! i sent him wee msgs everyday for him to read when he gets better hes ... (110 words)

I asked him out and now everyone is mad at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice, help, ok this really cute, nice, ect. guy in my class has a girlfriend, but i like him and he said he likes me but for some reason everyone thinks i asked him out but i didnt really. I just said if you and your girlfriend ever break up... (123 words)

I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend won't quit lying or seeing girls.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am almost 8 months pregnant with my first child. I have only been with the father for 10 months. I know it happened fast.. but I wanted to keep the baby and I couldn't be happier. It's a girl. :) Since i've been with Richie he has done nothing but lie to me about girls. He ... (969 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend's best friend... any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a relationship for 4 years now and i love my boyfriend very much and im sure he loves me but a for a very long there has been another man i like, i have liked him before i meet my boyfriend when i was in school. but lately for the past 2 years my boyfriend has ... (247 words)

Why do I have to be shallow- I want to be attracted to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy who is very charming, caring but physically less than average. I have never considered myself to be shallow and really don't want to be. I have always taken a lot of pride in my appearance and would be considered above average so in the past I have ... (118 words)

We keep having affairs - when will he stay with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age - I have been in love with a guy since i have been 16. We never dated because another guy kept us apart because he wanted to date me and was telling the guy i was in love with i moved and i wasn't interested in him. well i didn't move to another state i moved to a different city ... (251 words)

Should I teach my roommates a lesson?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with 5 other girls and they drive me insane!! They are so immature, loud and gossip non stop. They keep me up all night even when I nicely asked them to keep down. They are so interested in my personal life, since we share a wall, they listen in on my conversations and ... (238 words)

I am having confusing urges for my father.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently been getting some rather foreign urges. I am a 23 year old female, who is going to school and living at home with my father. My mother passed away years ago and my father has never really gotten over it. I love my father with all my heart and would do ... (277 words)

His libido is nonexistent and he says he doesn't know why.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) age - What is usually the right thing to think, when your husband loses his sex drive? Do men usually know, why they don't have sex drive ,or they are not? Is it possible not to know? My husband lost his sex drive years ago, and he says, he has no idea why. He says its not bec... (161 words)

He borrowed bus money, then said he loved me... does he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy I really like at school. We're quite good friends and I'm wondering how to take it alittle further. Today (this might sound a little sad) he was in my double lesson, Media Studies. We were all waiting outside for the teacher to arrive and he came and stood ... (187 words)

My loving husband has been seeing a dominator for the past 3 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28, been married to my husband for the past 4 years. I found out off a very close friend last night that he'd been seeing a dominator (I can't use the word dominatrix as it wasn't another woman he'd been seeing). She said that she was driving back from picking people f... (213 words)

Why can't I just move on from the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - everyone moved on with their lives. i want to do the same. im sick of crying all those nights and listening to music all day. why am i living in my past? why cant i just move on? btw im not 10 im 15 ... (45 words)

I lied to get out of work and it's coming back to bite me in the butt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...ok this is going to sound really messed up...and most of you are going to say somthing like "you should be ashamed of yourself!" But I felt desperate. So here is goes: I didn't feel like going to work and but I really don't have a good enough excuss...I need to save my ... (236 words)

Hey guys - how would you feel about a gf who sings you to sleep?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm curious and I would like to hear from guys. How would you feel about a girlfriend who sings you to sleep every night? I've always dreamt of having a boyfriend who would love that. I wish I could sing like Mariah Carey but my choir teachers always said they loved my ... (87 words)

I don't want to have sex but he won't leave me alone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy only like 3 weeks ago. he is 15 and i am 13. he's already had sex before and wants to do it with me. he's not even my boyfriend. he keeps asking me to come to his house and tell him i don't want to. every time he asks me to come over, he insists he won't try ... (87 words)

I feel like I'm no good to a man when I'm single and wasting space.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and I've been looking for love since I was 16 and yet to find it..as I get closer to 25 I have just become numb and even more depressed. I have always been a sad woman. I am getting older and soon guys are going to start to want girls younger than me. I haven't even ... (450 words)

I hate going to school, I hate my life all because of HER.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - All my friends (who i hate now) turned against me. i had a bestfriend i met last year. none of my family liked her but for some reason i loved her (as a friend). i trusted her so much i told her everything. she did too. she backstabbed so much about almost everyone in school. ... (238 words)

I'm in love with her, but she's dating my friend... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i'm in love with this girl, but she doesn't know it. but now she is going out with my friend but i cannot tell anyone that i love her what should i do?... (34 words)

How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age - How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men? This is my deepest fantasy and will give me immense pleasure in seeing her having sex with others.... (30 words)

Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colour is actually blonde but i dy... (178 words)

Christmas is coming up and I don't know what to ask for!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really stuck...everyone keeps asking me what i want for Christmas and i really have no idea what to ask for??? any suggestions for a teenage boy welcome:) Thanks:)... (31 words)

Why do baby daddy's lie about new relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do baby dads lie about new relationships and try to keep it a secret and yet string the mother along??... (21 words)

I lied to her about my smoking and now she can't trust me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend has finished with me for smoking i gave up shortly after meeting her. but started again and was to embarrassed to tell her so lied to her. shes not finished it for smoking. its or lying. she said she cant trust me anymore. can anyone help?... (48 words)

How to I get rid of shyness to kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i asked a while ago how 2 kiss for the first time but now i know how i dont have the courage 2 do it can someone plz help me? does anyone know how to get rid of my shyness???????????? (it would really help my relationship my boyfriend is really caring about me and i dont ... (82 words)

When is he going to cut the apron strings?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been married for 2 years and im 25 with 2 children,ONE OF THEM FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. my husband lost his mum 2 years ago and his sister is an alcoholic and his father is very religious in the worst possible way (always preaching and never making my husband feel good ... (291 words)

Is it my fault that he can't be on the internet, text or call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know if its my fault or not, but im in a internet relationship with a boy who i really do love, and his mum has now disconnected his internet and blocked his phone so he cant send texts, and i think its my fault... if it is what should i do? I cant live without him, i l... (65 words)

If she doesn't like me, why does she constantly e-mail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am totally into this girl she's 20 n I'm 16 we both work in the same office we email each other all day but she is so far over on the other side of the office so we can't talk much. I can't stop thinking of her she is gorgeous n her personality is amazing. She does have ... (227 words)

Could I be pregnant? When is a good time to get checked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 5 days late past my last months period time. my bf and i have been having constant unprotected sex for the past 4 months. I just got a lil cold over night, n i feel kinda yucky.. I dont have any cramps yet, like i use to get like a week before my period.. Im wondering if ... (76 words)

Does anyone know anything about manic depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i might be Bipolar, my moods are high and low constantly and people say it's just hormones but when im low i get really low and my sex drive is so high. i'm worried to go to the doctors about it though because in later life when i'm applying for jobs i'd have to put it ... (91 words)

Is this a case of long distance destruction? Could he really change his mind so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little less than a year now. Everything has been wonderful. He's sweet and kind, he loves doing things for me, we have tons of things in common and we have so much fun when we are together. About a two months ago, I was offered the oppo... (478 words)

Help! Best friends and boy trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have started to fall for a boy in my year. We are really good friends but one of my best friends has fancied him since the beginning of the year. Also his best friend fancies me. I kissed him for a dare and I admit I loved it (lol cringe!)but I felt so guilty, i thought ... (93 words)

He's started saying I might be a lesbian because I hardly ever come during penetrative sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nerly 3 years now and i hardly ever come during penatrive sex but do all the time on my clit hes now started saying ooohhh you mite be a lesbian i now am reading into it but dont no what to think i am open minded plzzz help ... (55 words)

Why did he fire me?!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'm completely confused here... i had been working at this job for almost a yr and we got a new (young, and very close to my age..and cute) manager. On some days he flirts with me 24/7 and some days he doesn't. It depends on his mood i guess lol. so he started saying i ... (368 words)

How to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age - Hi, this isn't a dating or love question, this is a question about how to deal with a family member who is undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer. I just want to make sure that I'm dealing with her and helping in the best possible way. I'll be there with her when ... (243 words)

Need Validation Please

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been more alone than this - but never so lonely. I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this problem. When I was 15 I was infatuated with my best friend's older brother. If you were to read my diary it still has entries of only him. I was crazy about his wit and his ... (860 words)

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!! We practically live together and when we are not working we spend all of our time together. I know he really loves me and wants to marry me, I just don't know what he is ... (85 words)

Is this teacher behaving innappropriately? Or just being friendly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story cut rather short, I have the best friendship with my ex head of year. He know alot about one another, can read read me like a book! We have a very mature and brilliant relationship, some students actually envy as he is an amazing man. As well as calling me gorge... (181 words)

My husband says he needs the chance to be free so he can explore the life he don't know...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband thinks I treat him like a child and our relationship is sour at times because he is always angry with me if I ask him any questions. He wants to go and do as he pleases without any restrictions. He has also told me on numerous occasions that he wants the ... (281 words)

Is there a possibility you can be in love with two women at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years and have two young children, I have seen an old friend recently that I have had feelings for, for a very long time, I had forgotten all about these feelings until she came back into my life. I have never talked to this girl about my feelings as I ... (124 words)

I was trying to forget him but I just can't stop loving him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for 5 months but things didn't go well and he went back to his ex (they broke up because she cheated on him). We still talk 2 each other. I tried to have him back but he just said no. He told me that he didn't stop loving his ex even when he was with me. The ... (164 words)

Should I let the age gap affect my decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (M)

age - I am 52 years old and the girl I love is 30. We have been seeing each other on and off for 4 years. The time has come where she wants to get married and have a family, this both excites me and scares, is this a natural feeling given the circumstances and should I let the age ... (62 words)

Just had sex for first time and it hurt! Will it be better second time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ AND ANSWER I just had sex a few hours ago for the first time and it hurt a lot which I was expecting I didn't bleed... I dont regret having it but I did not feel any pleasure at all and now that I think sex is all talked up and it wasn't a big dea... (99 words)

Does a low sperm count mean he can't have kids?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy is told he has low sperm count does that mean he can't have kids full stop or does it mean that there are ways that he can but not naturally?... (33 words)

I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i felt it was unfair of him. ... (312 words)

We're on a downward spiral, how do I get his feelings back for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 years and, like most relationships the physical side of it has dwindled over the years. However we have always had a very loving and close relationship and always enjoy being together. This year has been hell for us though with m... (322 words)

He works for family services but can't even help his own family. I'm at my wit's end, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age - My husband has had depression for twenty years and changed jobs got better but is slowly slipping backwards I have suggested he put in for ver but he just won't our whole married life I have had to be parent to our 4 children with little or no help from my husband he treats me ... (366 words)

My need for affection from another man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married have one child, she is 6 and has never gotten any love or affiction from my husband. When I see other people kissing I wish I could do that, anyway I met a man at a night club a year and half ago and he told me I am attractive so he gave me his number. I start ... (176 words)

What are these stomach pains every morning and how can I stop being so paranoid about them?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem. Every single morning I get up my stomach always has some kind of pain and every day I feel like I'm gonna get my period but instead it's just like a clear goo like discharge. But every day something is coming out of me "down-there" and it affects me so ... (141 words)

I would love to find a stay at home career/business.

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12 November 2008 (?) age - I have a question that I hope there is someone who can help me with...it's more of a career dilemma than a love... I met a wonderful man on a dating website last year. I live in Arizona (USA) and He lives in Maine (USA) For those of you who are not familiar with US geography, ... (322 words)

Are there any laws that state about age gap dating?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Are there any laws that state about age gap dating? person A is 16 person B is 37 can you help?... (21 words)

How can I be more organised and learn how NOT to stress out?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I am looking for some advice on learning to be organized and learning how not to stress but to relax and appreciate what I have. Which is a healthy family and a good husband that I love. Any idea's/experiences or books anyone has read that can help. I would also love ... (61 words)

Seeing recent ex with a new man and I felt my chest had exploded!

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks to anyone who reads this, cos I kinda just freaked out! I saw my ex with her a new boyfriend that I didn't know about. It caught me completely off guard and I felt like my chest exploded. She definitely saw me and we've been broken up for a couple of months, but I ju... (134 words)

Whose surname should my new baby have?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya everyone =) Ok, well I've just had a beautiful baby boy, we got home from the hospital yesterday. I'm finding things hard but he is definitely worth it... I love him so much. Me and the father are no longer together (His choice, not mine. He orignaly didn't want the ... (156 words)

I'm avoiding her advances because she lives overseas.

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12 November 2008 (M)

- I had a long distance relationship in the past where I was in Canada and she was in France. It was not something I recommend but sometimes things just happen and you can't help it. I'm falling for ANOTHER French exchange student this year and I can't believe it! Maybe I sho... (115 words)

I check my ex's facebook page several times a day. How do I stop?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- I check my ex's facebook page several times a day. How do I stop? Removing her as a friend would be unbelievably insulting and is not an option. I've stopped using facebook for a couple of weeks and then came back as it's not possible to simply ignore the world. Now, che... (74 words)

I miss my ex. Am I just lonely?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- I miss my ex. Am I just lonely? I'm spending a lot of time with my friends but no number of them could ever fill that particular void deep down inside where their love and care can't reach. So that "last inch" of void...do you eventually harden up and let that void shrive... (221 words)

You only pass through this life once right?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- I'm prudent and calculated. I don't lunge into relationships, I inch into them cautiously; really getting to know the other person. It's always been like this. Can anyone relate? Maybe I should "lunge" more and not take things so seriously. I mean not ever date has to... (124 words)

Is it common to feel discouraged that you'll never find the one?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- Is it common to feel discouraged that you'll never find the one? I finishing my seventh year of university studies this year and I expect my dating prospects to plummet once I'm working full-time meeting the same pool of office workers on a daily basis. I have some great ... (90 words)

He is witholding sex from me because I'm friends with his friend!

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this one man for 2 years and I just recently moved from a big city to a small town to be with him. He has lived in this small town his whole life and doesn't understand I need some time to adjust to the life change. I have only one friend in the town and it is ... (173 words)

I have a mad crush on my best friend's ex!

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12 November 2008 (F)

age - I have huge crush on my best friends ex-boyfriend! They are sort of on and off, and he has been flirting with me a bit lately, but I am just really attracted to him and I feel like I connect and appreciate him more than my bestie. I feel really bad for feeling like this, ... (183 words)

I am just over 13 weeks pregnant and can't seem to come to terms with the prospect of being a single mum.

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just over 13 weeks pregnant and can't seem to come to terms with the prospect of being a single mum, but at the same time have already developed a bond with my baby and know that I couldn't bring myself to have it aborted. The father is making things even harder by s... (94 words)

He went to a prostitute and didn't get an erection???

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend went to a prostitute for the first time at the age of 19 but he did not feel any thing during the foreplay and also did not get an erection, could you please tell why? and is this an indication of physical problems in future?... (47 words)

I don't think I will ever be able to have a proper relationship again...

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I first dated this girl in high school.. kind of fell head over heals for her then she broke up with me which sucked.. a lot. Now I have been intimate with many women and not wanting a relationship even though I know they want one... I just cant bring myself to commit to any... (104 words)

I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was or not.he stuck bothh ofhis ... (170 words)

How can I let him know that I like him?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with the most beautiful eyes, I ... (345 words)

Boyfriend - baby mama drama how can I end it and still have a man?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 24 years old and I just moved to Atl from Cali, my boyfriend is going overseas and he wanted me to be close to his family while his is away. I am starting school in Jan and I just started a really good job. My boyfriend has a little boy who's 3 years old and he ... (284 words)

How can I remove my stretch marks?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right im a lil embarassed about this but here goes. i am a lil over weight tbh and i have stretch marks and im a male. i wont go swimming because of this or take my top off cos i am scared of what others will think. my last girlfriend thought i was a self harmer cos of this and ... (92 words)

Do I risk wrecking our friendship by telling her how I feel?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - there’s this girl that I really like. we’ve been friends for 5 years. we worked together and I have always had a little thing for her but I was married at the time and never would have cheated. I think she felt the same way we always were very flirty with each other and she use ... (232 words)

What do I say to him? I'm inexperienced.

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12 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - my online (ex) boyfriend brokeup with me 4 months ago. i now have a new online bf of ? months and he started getting a bit sexual. i wasnt sure how to reply. im not allowed to date so i dont really have much experince with guys... what do i say if he starts up again?... (56 words)

Is Cognitive Behaviour Therapy just sticking your head in the clouds?

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12 November 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Isn't Cognitive Behaviour Therapy just sticking your head in the clouds cos life is too hard? Can someone help me with this please. I would love to think positively all day; recognise my negative thoughts and make them positive. But the first 'negative' thought to ar... (274 words)

Weird orgasm!

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - It's crazy, I've never felt like this during an orgasm with any girl.. but with my girlfriend it's different when I cum, it seems like everything goes completly numb or starts to tingle and I can't move at all!! Is that normal or what??... (44 words)

Can girls have wet dreams?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age - Is it possible for a girl to have sort of a wet dream? A couple of nights ago I had an erotic dream, and when I woke up I had heaps of discharge in my panties. thanks for your help... (40 words)

If I don't contact her, will she change her mind about our break up?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out over 4 years, she is in her 2nd year at university studying psychologly, it's been 2 weeks since she split up with me, I called her last night 2 see how she is doing, she says she still thinks this is a permamnent thing but she's not ... (133 words)

I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women.

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12 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women. Sometimes when I'm making love to my wife start thinking of other women. It's not helping having so many (hot) co-workers flirting with me. Me and my wife went to the mall together and I started checking... (120 words)

I've recently started having sex with my boyfriend, but we don't really talk about it.

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started having sex with my boyfriend, but we don't really talk about it. I've tried talking about it with him but he's not giving me any information so I don't really know if he's enjoying it, if maybe he doesn't want to, I don't know what to do or say... please ... (54 words)

Do you think my teacher has feelings for me?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to keep this as short as I can because I know, a lot of agony aunts or uncles must be fed up of the classic "does my teacher fancy me?". Well, basically I'm 16, from 13-14, i had a crush on her, but i got over it,I hadn't accepted that I was bi, and the idea of fanc... (500 words)

How much does it cost to be tested for std's?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a sexually active young woman, and I haven't been tested for STD's in over a year. I haven't been back, because I didn't feel like there was a reason to, after all, everything seems fine as I don't have any unusual symptoms. But the last guy I had sex with has suddenly ... (160 words)

Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction?

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12 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction? Do you know what made them quit? Do you know how did they got into it? Do you think drug addiction a disease or a choice? My child is very sick, but I can't do anything, all attempt failed. Drug rehabs, group m, tough love, Is ... (69 words)

How do I approach this woman, I am female as well?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am female and attracted to a female coworker. I am straight, and I believe she is too (she recently broke up with a boyfriend), and she has a son from her ex-husband. We seem to have a mutual attraction, but not enough for me to figure this out. I haven't been attracted to ... (99 words)

I am a young, married woman and love having sex, my husband wants it once a month, how do I change this?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young wife, just 22 and am married to my husband, 29 for over a year and a half. My husband and I have a good marriage except for one little detail: we only have sex just once a month if that. I am a nympho and my husband knew that when we first got together. Now i'd be ... (158 words)

I have a very good friend, who is a girl, and we parted ways, how do I get her back as a friend?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am desperate for help my best friend is a girl and I are really close and have helped each other through a lot of stuff. She recently broke up with her boy friend and I supported her through it. Recently they got back togehter which I felt was stupid because of how badly he ... (221 words)

I had sex with her, she is due to give birth soon, don't know if it is my child, what to do?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - o, i slept with my brothers girlfriends sister and she is due to have her baby next month, however has not mentioned it could be mine as she now has a boyfriend who has admitted he doesnt think it is his? Do I approach her? What do i say?... (55 words)

We are engaged, getting married and have much sex, is this a problem?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong for a me and my bf have sex like 2 times a day? we just got engaged and are getting married after uni we were meant to be together and lately our sex life is out of control we do it inbetween classes and after are there any consiquences for having sex this much? ... (57 words)

Is it normal for me to be scared about my first time?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have decided that we are ready to take it to the next level and i love and trust him 100% but i'm really nervous and scared. he has been with two other girls and this will make my first time. Is it normal for me to be scared?... (52 words)

I'm not sure who the father is... what do I do in this sticky situation?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a little boy by c section...my problem is im not sure who his father is. I slept with two guys around the time he was conceived and they both know this. Now one of them is staying with me and helping me raise the baby. He signed the birth certificate and ... (130 words)

Are me and my wife over?

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12 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - A few days ago I went exes (we're just friends now) place had a few beers and was I too wasted to drive home. I called my wife to ask her give ride home. When she got to the house (she wasn't too happy that I was drunk) my ex told her come then it happen my ex jumped on me ... (143 words)

What do you think I should do?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My first love broke up a little over a year ago. We were together for about 2 years. We broke up for many reasons. We both messed up and cheated on eachother, it was our first time being in love, our longest relationship and our first serious one. Ever since our break up ... (182 words)

We broke up, but we are still attracted to each other, what should I do?

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and i have been dating on and off for a year yes im gay...but me and him broke up and dont really tlk the other day we were going down the stairs and we stoped and were just starin at each other i left him on the stairs because i was so tempted...then that same day we ... (91 words)

Did kissing that guy make him think I am a slut?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I was dating a guy who always told me he had a lot of respect for me and always held me in high regard from other girls he dated but then we broke up cuz he couldn't committ but has been calling me anyway. I was avoiding the calls since he couldn't offer me a relationship ... (199 words)

Is it possible to actually love someone when you are married?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HI: I get along great with my co worker, and I really like him alot. We hit it off on just about every level. There are somethings, that I'm kinda eh, about, but overall, he really 'hits' me. We've gone out and had so much fun. I told him that I care for him. He told me that ... (343 words)

Other than the fact he was a lying cheater, things were perfect...

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 6 months ago I found myself in really bad situation. I had started seeing a guy and after a couple months of dating I was starting to fall for him. I don't know how I didn't see the signs or suspect anything, maybe I did and I was just too happy to notice, but I ended ... (500 words)

We are living together, he has cheated and impregnated another woman, I still love him, I am hurt, what do I do?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my daughter on and off for about 5 yrs... I moved out of our apt due to issues that we had... he has never wanted me to move on and vice versa... though not officially together we still were together... I knew that I needed my space and that he need his so ... (411 words)

I'm a normal teenage girl, but I need to get out. Should I move or runaway?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a not a normal teenaged girl....I'm on the honour roll at school, I've never had a detention, I've never done drugs or drank alcohol, I do my chores when I'm told to, I watch my three younger siblings, which includes getting them ready for school, feeding them,, bedtime, ... (227 words)

Should I keep doing this or is he getting annoyed?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for months but didnt go out cause he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his gf. We only went out for a week before he told me that his grades were too low. ... (238 words)

Does this means he doesn't care about the relationship?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a little bit of a weird situation with my 9 months boyfriend. He is a very wonderful guy, and he does everything to please me, but the fact that he is very introverted sometimes makes me think that he doesn't care about me, I know I am his first real relationship, he has ... (345 words)

She's afraid to fall in love!

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, well the problem is that I have known this girl for a good bit and we've been the best of friends and I have been wanting to take it to the next level and have a relationship with her. The problem is she is afraid to fall in love!! It all started last month wh... (236 words)

Is this what it's going to be like when I have kids?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- My sister recently had a baby so I hear her (the baby) crying when I get back from school in the evening through out the night for various reasons. She's the cutest baby ever but it's absolutely impossible to get anything productive done when I get back home. If I'm not ... (107 words)

How can I get my Mom to talk to a counselor?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- My parents are screaming at each other everyday. Each of them tells me they can't take it anymore. I want them to go to counseling but my mom refuses. She thinks it's pointless. That this is my dad's fault. That he will never change. That talking about it won't help. ... (193 words)

Can anyone give me advice on how they got back in touch with an ex?

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12 November 2008 (M)

- Succinctly put: I broke up with my ex a month ago and I'm like to get back in touch with her so that we can remain friends but don't know how to go about it. Some more details: I don't believe that it was possible to remain friends after a break up as there are simply too... (255 words)

What is wrong with me and how can I fix it?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had problems with orgasms. I have never had an orgasm through intercourse and it's hard for me to have one through masturbation. I have had a UTI, possible yeast infection, and am on birth control. I am wondering what is wrong with me and how to fix it. It is ... (69 words)

He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk towards me. Why?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this one guy that acts strange around me. He talks to my friends and not to me. My friends add him as a friend on Facebook, and he accepts them, but when I add him, he ignores me. (he does not even know my friends). He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk ... (81 words)

Is there any good advice for my difficult situation?

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12 November 2008 (F) age - I have decided I want to move out and leave my husband. After 20 years, I can't take it anymore. This is so tragic. I never believed that I couldn't save this marriage. I worked very hard to fix things, but he is passive, I can't do it alone. I'm so afraid to do that. This are... (104 words)

Fingering and hand jobs. What's wrong and doesn't he get disgusted?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my boyfriend started fingering me about a week ago. I was just wondering: doesn't he get disgusted? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and it seems kinda gross thinking about the fact that my vaginal juices are on his fingers. How do you think he thinks about it? I, ... (159 words)

I need to know, am I wasting my time?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Recently Got A New Girlfriend, We've only been with each other for 3 weeks... My Parents Have Met Her, And I've Met Hers. The Only Problem Is, I'm Hoping To Fall For This One. Her Personailty Is Perfection and she beatiful. But today while we were on MSN talking... I... (205 words)

Was he just being friendly or does it sound like he still likes me?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If you could help me out with an ex-boyfriend of mine it would be great, my friends haven’t been very useful at helping me out with him! I went out with a guy, 4 years ago, we were out for about 8 months, but had liked each other a year or so before that. We split up when he... (469 words)

Giving the ex a second chance, but it's awkward

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend who was great, the sweetest guy alive. Until one day he broke up with me out of the blue for another girl. It was bad. We didn't talk again until after he and the girl broke up. Then we became really good friends again. We have so much in common that it wasn't ... (219 words)

He makes a promise only to break it. Is it possible to trust after so many lies?

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i have been in a pattern of conflict over an issue for quite some tiime. basically i find out he's done something hurtful, he promises t change, and i begin slowly to trust him again. then before long (usually 3-4 weeks later) i catch him again. he apologises,... (242 words)

I have 5 kids and I am cheating on my husband

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12 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - need help...now iam still in a different mood that i have slept with another man and iam married with 5 children.the problem that iam still worrying if my husband find out and i dont want my family to split...what iam goinh to do ... (43 words)

I don't want to scare her away by moving too quick

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12 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just met this girl online, I really like her, she has everything I have always wanted in a woman. We are up to the fourth date now, are dates are affectionate, but not over the top, everything still seems ok. Here is the problem, i think i am scaring her away. We spoke ... (162 words)