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writes:I have been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and i have recently moved homes and she has not been able to join me as she works near to where she currently lives. Since i moved home our relationship has deteriorated into arguments all the time and i have no idea why. Shes the only person i can speak with because all of my friends i used to know dont bother to email me and i tell her everything about my days, and she thinks i take out my stress on her and im just telling her about my day. She is a veterinary nurse and she loves her job, sometimes more than me as when i am talking about my day she interrupts me and talks about animals. I do get to see her when she is not at work usually on a tuesday evening and all weekend so we do see each other. Sex between us used to be great we both enjoyed it and now she has her fun and i just get left to sort myself out (excuse the expression). Its driving me insane and i cannot go on like this. I love her more than anything in the world but she seems to have lost interest in me and i think she sees me only as a sex toy and thats it. I have mentioned this to her and she does not want to know and denies it all. I just dont know what to do about this do you have any advice?thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 November 2008):
You say she interrupts your tales of your day to talk about animals.
That's called a conversation!
You are both talking about your days and relating incidents to each other.
If you friends no longer email you then call them, find new ones. Your girlfriend shouldn't just be someone who you ring to rant at.
As for the sex, perhaps she is getting a little selfish in bed if she thinks you are being selfish with your phone calls.
Get some friends so your whole world doesn't revolve around her and things might improve.
Good Luck!! xx
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