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writes: I'm really confused by the behavior of a girl I am interested in. We have hung out a few times during the week but the last few weekends I've called her she never answered or called back. Last week she asked if I wanted to hang out with her but she never called me. Today she asked me to go out coffee and we went. We're suppose to watch a movie in my dorm room in a few days and I'm really nervous. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): hmmm she sounds like if shes playing hard to get you should just do the same but not as much as for your alone night with her get the condoms ready :]
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (18 November 2008):
She was probably just really busy, she might mean to call you back but she forgets or is too busy. It sounds like that's the case if she called you and wanted to hang out then wanted to go out for coffee today, and you've already made plans to hang out again. I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, Mattastic +, writes (18 November 2008):
Funny thing, I've had exactly this problem with a certain young lady in my life. It's quite likely though that, as with my experience, the girl you're after is just really absent-minded, or very busy, or both. I suggest you just mention that you'd been trying to get in touch with her unsuccessfully, but don't make it sound like you're complaining. She'll probably just say why she hasn't been able to call back or anything.
However, if she keeps on doing this and you find you only end up seeing her when SHE wants to meet up, give up.
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (18 November 2008):
She just sounds flighty to me.
Good luck on your night alone with her!
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