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male
age
36-40,
*crwUp21
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together almost 4 years (in April). When we were in high school she would right me love notes an she always had said she and I would be together forever, now it's down the line I have made my screw ups and have regretted them and aplogize, see I love her and she is my soulmate. I've never cheated but told I was cuz this girl found my girl's myspace and talked to her saying we did stuff, my friend was with me and tied us both to her bed with rope an thongs (don't ask), no the girl showed her the video and my girlfriend and I had some hell of arguements not, that was around year ago.I'm a real great guy and I bend over backwards for her every day, I do anything she asked so say I'm whipped I don't care cuz really love makes you do crazy things and I will do anything for love, now I have talked to girls throught the relationship though about cheating but I can never do it but they would tell her I tried getting with them, I know she don't trust me and she's been asking for my myspace password so I gave her it yesterday cuz I want her to trust me and see I'm not cheating or there's another girl in my life. Will this help her start to trust me? What else can I do to get her trust more? We lived together at her mom's house, now we are not living together, I'm in a seperate house and she is too, she said we do this to make are relationship stronger before we move to Florida so that way we can live together when we move.Last night we talked and she said she never wanted to see me again, but then I had kinda pleaded out everything she has told me she wants a man not a boy. How can I become more of a man then act like a kid? Last night also she said I was hanging by a really really thin thread and if it snaps we're over officially! I told her starting in the morning I'm going to change, be a man and improve myself and I told her that I would never do a wrong thing or make a wrong turn again as in cheating I didn't say cheating cuz she wouldn't believe me. Can you please give me advice on what I can do to improve myself on being a man not a boy and also how I can get her to trust me and I think of cheating but I can never do it. Please help, I can't lose her.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Well you say yourself that you want to cheat but know she'd find out.
So it's no wonder that she doesn't trust you!
I honestly think that your relationship needs to end.
You've been together since you were kids and you seem to have just grown apart.
If you were really in love then you wouldn't want to cheat. Be honest with yourself and find a girl who will be your one and only.
Good Luck!! xx
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