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I flashed another guy and my BF dumped me. How do I get him back?

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Question - (18 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *herryCupcake writes:

Right, i have been talking to this guy called "Dann" for over a year and my boyf is really jealous. We go on cams a lot and last Saturday my boyf asked me if id flashed him and i said no and then he went on to say that it is something id do. Which really hurt me, and we rowed and then made up. But sunday night we really rowed nd i did flash my boobs and pussy to him which i really regret. I felt so guilty that on Monday i told him and straight away he finished it. But at break and lunch he held me, held my hand and kissed me. Then today he did same but more. Then he tells me he doubts if he can forgive nd forget nd doesnt know if he can ever be with me again. I love him so much and i really want him back. Any suggestions on how to make it up?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

You need to ask yourself why you have been bothering with this other guy.

If you flashed the other one the moment there was a problem in your relationship it suggests he cannot trust you. Depends whether you have done this sort of thing before really.

You could ask him to give you another chance and promise not to do anything like that again, but you would have to make sure you could keep the promise.

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A male reader, Campbell United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

Campbell agony auntWhy would you do that in the first place? Do you know this guy face to face or did you meet him online? I dont understand why you would wanna flash this guy, but im sorry im with you boyfriend on this one. He obviously still really likes you but you potrayed his trust, you can try and get him back it may even work but at the end of the day you hurt this poor guy.

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