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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is being "off" with me... any ideas why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and recently, he's been acting a little off. First off, his last relationship, which lasted 5 years, ended because his ex cheated on him with his best friend. So when I first hooked up with him, he vowed he'd never hurt anyone ... (120 words)

Any ideas for something sexy in the bedroom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'd love to dress up in something sexy for Vincent.....but I'm not quite sure in what. We been together for 7 months now, and I'm really wanting to give him something special..... Something sexy for the bedroom.... You know what mean? Anyone have any ideas? Thanx, J2L... (51 words)

I need some make up tips!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have my year 12 formal/prom coming up this week and I need help....I have freckles and imperfect skin but I want to look like I have perfect skin without putting too much makeup on and without my makeup coming off...can someone give me some makeup tips? Thankyou... (49 words)

I need your opinion, did this player like her more or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little upset and wondering what is so wrong with me. Did he like her more than me? This girl who my guy friend dated briefly is smart, average looking and nice. They dated for 2 months before she moved back to school and he cheated on her a week after she left. I gues... (219 words)

Is it possible to rediscover love once it's gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with someone and married to someone else whom I care about deeply. I'm not in love with my husband but we have spent months working on our relationship and are trying to rebuild what we had - he says that he is desperate to make things work. The man I am in love ... (129 words)

I certainly don't want to make a mistake and I don't want to lose him completely either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 35 year old single female. I grew up in an abusive family that I just wanted escape. I ended "escaping" by moving in with a guy 9 years older than me right out of college. He was only about the fifth guy I ever dated and I was convinced no one else would want me. So ... (459 words)

Any interesting ideas that we could do to celebrate our 4th anniversary together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of something special or interesting I can do with my boyfriend tomorrow night! It's our 4 month anniversary and we always seem to do the same things such as going to a pub for a meal, going to the cinema or going bowling so w... (77 words)

Does my girlfriend still like me or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I started hanging out with my friend from college and his friends over the past several months. I was still new, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. It was like we were the same person, at the time she had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. The 2nd time met her we had ... (166 words)

I'm falling in love with my 16 years old first cousin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 years old and I'm falling in love with my 16 years old first cousin. Ever since she was a little girl I used to watch over her and baby sit for her. I treated her as my younger sister and she loves me as her older brother. we're so close to each other I tell her a lo... (607 words)

Where do I stand with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused..... I broke up with my bf around 6 months ago but we have remained best friends. Our relationship has always been complicated due to him being forced into marriage by his family. As I said before we have remained friends and if I am totally honest I am still ... (365 words)

I don't think if I ever have an affair again I would let it last that long.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is my story. I've been married for 24 years since the age of 17. My husband is a wonderful man, we have a beatiful 22 year old daughter who lives away. Sex life is almost non-existent. No one initiates it anymore, but when it happens it's good comfortable sex. We both sex... (789 words)

I love my wife... but I am having this battle of wanting to be with men.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age - I love my wife. I really do! But I am having this battle of wanting to be with men. I am so natural with men, whether it be sex or just sitting in a room with them. I don't know what to do. My wife knows I have been with men. I think I am Gay and I don't know what to do any ... (97 words)

I keep trying to move on, but I feel sabotaged.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up weeks ago. I keep trying to move on, but I feel sabotaged. I mean when I talk to another man, the man will not call or he acts as if he does not know me. The other night, I dreamt of my ex and it felt so real. The dream was that he came to me! I w... (92 words)

Second date ideas seriously needed here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) age 30-35 - hi people at dearcupid, I'm 19 at uni 70 miles away from Manchester (uk) where my actual home is and I've been on a date with a girl who lives in the same area. Last Monday the 3rd November, (I tend to come home every 2/3weeks). I did not know her at all except she went to my ... (204 words)

I know there's no future with him but I still can't stop thinking about him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need serious help!! About 2 years ago I really liked this guy called chris and I ended up telling him I had feelings for him which was a big mistake as he said he didn't feel the same way.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was one of the reasons why nothing ... (311 words)

I don't trust my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. and he has not given me any reason not to trust him. however, his ex is still in the picture. she still calls and texts him. he will tell me that she calls and texts but he always does it in a way where he looks annoyed. ... (224 words)

Does he just find me rather weird or is he actually interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi There, I hope you one of you guys can help me out. You see I've been working and I met someone new at a job that I've been working at - anyways We've started to talk to one another and this guy that I like seems to be looking at me quite often espeically when I'm not eve... (97 words)

My boyfriend cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some helps. Me and my boyfriend have recently been back in a relationship together. First time we were together for about a year and a half (first 3 months he cheated on me). We broke up for 5 months and in that time he had sex with a girl who goes to college with me and ... (317 words)

It drives me crazy that my girlfriend tells her dad everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend tells her dad everything. I feel like it is because she just doesn't want to disappoint him. (she really has issues with wanting not to disappoint people) I know she is great with what we have done such as, making out and kissing... that's it... we talk about ... (107 words)

Does the fact I can't stop thinking about my "anal experience" mean I'm gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) age - Dear Cupid I am a man in my fifties and I had sex with a few women which I enjoyed a lot but I would love to receive anal. Sex with a male friend of mine we tried it before but it was not a sucess but I can't stop thinking about it does this mean I am gay?... (63 words)

My husband slept with my friend's wife after our big argument and I've just found out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is the first time I've been on a forum and I would appreciate advice on my problem. I'm sorry this is quite long. I have been married for 13 months and was with my husband for two years before we married and gave birth to twins a few months ago. Me and my husband h... (461 words)

I have two problems and I just neeed to be helped out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months nearly and I love him with all my heart but I still love the attention I get off other males, like when I go downtown other people flirt with me and I get a kick I haven't cheated on him before and I never will. I just feel so bad ... (247 words)

How do I handle his ex ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 26 female and I meet my boyfriend who is 46 2 months ago when I went to visit my grandfather in Florida. I am currently visiting my boyfriend for the second time since I meet him. He has 3 children and an ex wife who he has not been told about me. However his ex ... (108 words)

Why can't I just swallow my pride and say I'm sorry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. Once in awhile, we'll get into these little arguments. Nothing serious. But, I have a lot of pride, which I know is a bad thing. But then, with him, I've learned to just swallow my pride and apologize, since most of the time - ... (119 words)

I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT KISS A GIRL BEFORE, NOW IM GOING TO DO ORAL FOR THE FIRST TIME, I NEED ADVICE!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im scared is because i don't have ... (60 words)

Is it possible for texts to "get lost"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for texts to get lost because my boyfriend and a male friend of mine claimed to have sent me texts this week yet I haven't got either of them, even though I am receiving texts from other people? My boyfriend and I have been having an extremely difficult time a... (765 words)

Is he trying to turn my head or is he serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HI! I work with a man, we have a bond no doubt between each other and an attraction. Our flirting, innuendo, and his telling me I'm gorgeus over the nearing year has finally reeled me in. There is an old song, "You made me love you, I didn't want to do it" ..anyway, that is ... (608 words)

"Things would be different if you weren't my mate's girlfriend..."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey real quick, I was at my friend's house last night and my other friends boyfriend turned up a bit later with his mate.. we were messing about and they were taking the piss coz I'm blonde and his mate said to me "I like you, what's your name?" ......... Then he said ar... (115 words)

What does it mean when he says "we've connected!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean when I guy says " we've connected?" I was getting on really well with this guy who I ended up giving my number to! We ended up meeting up and he said "I knew when you gave me your number we'd connected".. However, he promised to meet up again with me an... (88 words)

How do I make things more natural around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently living in another country, and am staying with a family. My home mother keeps trying to set me up with one of her friend's sons. First of all, I am shy, and I am also proud and was somewhat offended. But, now I'm starting to kind of like him. He is a few years ... (141 words)

Someone Pleeeeease help me, I'm lost and confused on 2 BIG topics. Thanks =]

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I just want to start off by thanking everyone for their time on reading my questions. I've been thinking a lot about what's been going on between my boyfriend and I. My boyfriend and and I have been dating for about 7 months now, and already i know e... (388 words)

He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly non-physical. He was the first boy I ... (214 words)

My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ... (22 words)

I cheated but we got married anyway, how can I convince my wife that I am sorry and love only her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question for the women out there. I was wondering'if your man asked you to marry him and you said yes. Then 2 weeks later he came to you crying because he had a confession to make. He cheated just last night. How bad would this effect you knowing that he just asked ... (453 words)

Do you think he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone there. Well, my bf says he loves me a lot. and I do believe him for he has done a lot for me. But whenever he is tense he dont even talk to me. once I called him (when he already had said not to call him )he talked too rudly. He never picks my call, never reply... (119 words)

How do I get my Mother-in-law to butt out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My name is Sarah, my husband and I been married for 4 years and we have beautiful 3 year old son. my marriage is in jeopardy right now b/c I was having a sexual relationship with another man for the past few months, I felt something was wrong in my marriage and instead of ... (300 words)

Please help I'm losing my mind !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i hope i dont bore you with this i just need help... All this has happened since I started seeing my girlfriend, and have been seeing her for 10 months now. Basically suspicion started when she'd text her ex girlfriend say kath about kath's son whom she calls her own as... (579 words)

Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x... (29 words)

Do you think my ex thinks of me as "Plan B"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When talking on the phone today my ex was going on about his brother in law saying he thinks that my ex should stay single and enjoy himself, my ex is really in love with one of his old relationships and says that he knows what he wants and wishes people would stop nagging at ... (199 words)

Epilepsy Advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so depressed and annoyed. Im a very self conscious person who had epilepsy as a child. It left me as an adolescent thankfully, but in the last 3 years, my seizures have returned so I have been diagnosed with epilepsy again. Unfortunately I had one in work recently and I was ... (94 words)

Is he a player or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everone! This guy and I were "together" for a couple of months but didnt go out cause he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girfriend. We only went out for a week ... (285 words)

In love and don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on holiday and my mom dad met this couple and they became friends and when we got back off holiday andthey came round for the weekend and they brought there son who is 16 and i immediately fell in love with him. He started flirting with me and we were with each other all ... (195 words)

What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a year. last year i brought him... (97 words)

My boyfriend's grown daughter tries to spoil our relationship, should I stay with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age - My friend of 1 and 1/2 years recently allowed his daughter to put pictures of just him and his deceased wife all around an entire room of his house. The daughter (47 years old, lives with father with her husband, neither have jobs) has done everything she could in the past to ... (121 words)

Surely his memory's not that bad? He suggested going to the movies but forgot twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you make of this? There is a guy I texts and chat too on MSN, althought I have met him but I dont see him much because he goes to bording school in the week. He told one of my friends that he fancied me. I dont realy feel the same way but hes nice to chat too and you ... (242 words)

Whenever I end up liking a guy, he seems to be interested for only a few months! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never been in a relationship. I'm attractive: when I go out to classes, or restaurants, or the grocery store, or bars, guys frequently approach me. I'm intelligent: I am in law school on a full scholarship. I think I am a nice and thoughtful ... (199 words)

Sex has gone downhill, he says this is because he wants a change - sex with another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked for help a couple weeks ago week about having an issue with an unemployed boyfriend. We have been together 7 years. I have been supporting him in every way since. Now he is unemployed again because of the economy. I actually met him when he was unemployed. We are still ... (241 words)

I feel sorry about my ex's troubled relationship, how can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy i've been out with for nearly 10 months called it off with me last month, he has since gone back to one of his ex's(why do they all go back to their ex's) Anyway we've always keept in contact throught the phone, basically the girl he has gone back to has now gone back... (258 words)

My girlfriend is acting weird, it seems like I am bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two months...but i think something is not working out for me.. she is korean..and came one year ago from there...of course we have different cultures..but i really try hard to understand her.. but recently she has been... (279 words)

I'm super sad because the relationship is confusing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just super sad. This guy my brother set me up with and I dated for a little while. He told me sometime he gets into depressed moods... But i never imagined he would be so depressed that he didn't want to talk to anyone. Well, he called about 3 weeks ago and told me he ... (812 words)

I don't know whether I'm coming or going!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need your help. There's this guy at school who I am in love with, everyone else says that he does too. He recently moved 2 our school and I've only known him for 9 weeks and I am already in love with him. I have never felt this way about a guy before. Unfortunatley the ... (202 words)

Any advice for a first timer on fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend just over a couple of months now, and we've talked about doing oral sex. she wants me to finger her, but I haven't done anything with a girl apart from kiss. Has anyone got any advice on fingering a girl for the first time, and how to? ... (56 words)

What's really going on in my ex's mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I really need your help, I've been split with my guy nearly 4 weeks tomorrow, he left me for his ex the mother of his child, Anyway last night I went down the pub with some friends to watch fireworks and he was there with this girl he left me for, he totally ... (463 words)

Dating agencies in the UK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need help, I want to try out dating agencys in the UK, does anyone have any advice please? All help appreciated.... (24 words)

Anal sex question!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend, we didn't use a condom and I heard you're more likely to catch infections this way, is that true? Also I noticed I was bleeding a little bit after, is this normal? Thanx x... (46 words)

Father in law problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a few problems with my father-in-law. He and my mother-in-law are very rich and they offered to fly my new husband and I to vanuatu on a tropical holiday shortly after we got married earlier this year. We didn't really have much of a honey moon planned and we thought ... (443 words)

How old do you have to be to have foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfreind are so close its unreal, she says she'd have sex but I think it's a bit too soon, but I'd be up for anything else (blowjob, finger etc..). Does anyone know what the BRITISH age limit is for foreplay? Please reply. Thanks... (47 words)

Why do I always orgasm so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 27 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex I sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that I am not able to satisfy her, can anyone ... (79 words)

I just don't know how long I'm suppose to wait this out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok sooo... I have known this girl for over a year now... when we first met it was more on a flirty bases and friendly..then it got into..more hanging out about starting to like each other thing. Well we would hang out once a week at least and this went on for about 5 months? ... (503 words)

My partner is so unreliable, I can't believe a word he says.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and partner get on great a lot of the time but there is just one thing he does that really frustrates me. He's unreliable, he says he's going to do something and then when asked if he has, he has some reason or another as to why he hasn't. I don't know if this is si... (88 words)

Is the sex always great when you're having an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. Has anyone out there had an affair only to find that actually the sex they had was pretty poor and in fact they were better off having never strayed in the first place? Just curious! Everyone on this web-site who has been practising infidelity seems to have been having ... (52 words)

How to make out at age 13 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi.I am 13 and want to know how to make out. I have a little bit of knowledge, but I dont know what to do! please answer step by step! Thanks!!... (34 words)

She is 19 and I am 57. I think she wants to go out with me. Is this wrong ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age - Hi Dear Cupid; I'am a sigle man with no attachments. About 2 months ago a young lady at the job would say hi every morning in a very appealing sexy kind Away, well in the begining I didn't put to much mind to it, she continue with her sexy hello and one afternoon I receive a ... (213 words)

He needed time apart, I'm worried he won't return to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He tells me that he needs some space to try and clear his head, we have been together for 2years and 3months, he told me that he loves me and thinks the world of me, but then he goes and stays with his mate and his mates partner. He rings me every second day, I havn't seen him ... (114 words)

Why am I not being trusted ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance doesn't trusts me. he says i am not virgin after he knew i had boyfriend n we were still friends n also go to his house. to prove myself i had sex wid him n i bleede but he still wants proof n says i have soft breast n did not bleede when he fingered me don't have ... (72 words)

I'm 45 and I don't think I've ever had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age - i am a 45 year old lady and i dont think i have ever had an orgasm. it really bother me tremendously. i dont know what i am doing wrong.i dont know what to do... (35 words)

I embarrassed her. Does this mean we are thru ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " whoa padding up ur bra how sad ... (83 words)

I can't ignore that I love my best friend but... she is married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

9 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have tried to ignore this for some time now and i just cant. I have fallen in love with my best friend. She is all i think about and all i could ever want in a woman. When i talk to her, its like time stops. We never run out of things to talk about or we can just be on the ... (166 words)

I simply cannot get over that he has a past and I do not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help in order to deal with this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We live together and have for a while now. Our relationship has been phenominal from the beginning. We always get along, rarely have dragged out and unhealthy fights, and overall we l... (617 words)

My feelings have grown from those of friendship to love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

Heartbroken and wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old, and a while ago I met this guy. He seemed like a really good guy, so I went with it. We talked all the time, and I liked him soooo much. I started to realize I was falling in love with him and wanted to stop right there. He was a senior and I was a freshman. I ... (479 words)

My boyfriend told her she'll always belong to him! Wot the.....????

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 19 months now, we get alone very well and have a lot in common. I used to trust him until I found out he told a girl he used to "talk" to that she will always belong to him, when I talked to him about it, he claimed he didn't mean nothing ... (169 words)

I have never felt so strongly about a girl before and I really want to win her over.

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9 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Recently I met in person, for the first time, a girl that I have been talking to (online/phone). We clicked over the phone and always had lots to chat about. We agreed to meetup after chatting on and off for two years. She was more nervous about meeting up than ... (435 words)

I'm in love with someone who is no good for me...

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9 November 2008 (?) age 36-40 - We all fall in love. It happens . . . and when it happens there is nothing we can do about it. It's a sensation we cannot control. But what if you fall in love with somebody you're not allowed to fall in love with? What if you were secretly in love with this person for three ... (1179 words)

I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore and it's scaring me.

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9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always been the type that likes to set big goals and work for them. Lately I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore. It's scaring me. I'm upset and I can't imagine what would make me unupset. Seriously, if a genie said I could have anything, ... (74 words)

Best friend room mate or undercover lovers?

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9 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - okay my question is - I am dating a woman that lives with her best friend but the kicker is this my girl waits on this waman, go everywhere together and the room mate comes home from work and ask my girl to go get her some beer. I am a little worried and don't know if I should ... (116 words)

I've kept it to myself long enough and I'm to that point of reporting him for harassment.

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice or suggestions on how to go about this. My daughter's dad have been emailing me at work regarding our daughter's medical statements in which I've given many copies per court. I've even made a folder for it. Keep in mind, I'm at work on government compu... (226 words)

How can I stop him interfering in my life?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my story my ex husband and I got divorced after his mulitples affairs , we have a four year old daughter, he is always making me feel like I cant have a life and uses our daughter against me every chance he gets. I want to move on but every chance I get to go out on a date he... (154 words)

What would REALLY put guys off a girl?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A quick question, just out of interest :) Guys, what would really put you off a girl? ... (18 words)

Am I so wrong for wanting to leave my husband and make a better life for me and my kids?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I still care about my husband but I am ready to move on and better my life and the lives of my children. I have been with my husband 9 years now but for the last 6 years my husband has not worked and I have been the one supporting our family usually working two jobs. When my ... (338 words)

My and my ex bf have feelings again for one another... but he's engaged!!!

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex have a very odd past, he dumped me to go out with an old friend but we have still remained very good friends... now the thing is, he has feelings for me again and I think I have fallen for him again, after spending some time together... to throw a spanner in the ... (75 words)

Why did my friend betray my trust?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so annoyed right now and need advice. Do you think it is ok for a so called best friend (a guy) to tell my other girl friend about the night me and him came close to sleeping together?? I am so upset about the fact he told her ALL of the personal details that happen... (99 words)

My ex has had a major serious accident and I need to see him!

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I came out of a 3 year relationship about 6 months ago. Me and the guy remained friends. Thing is, now he's gone and had a serious accident!!! I mean major! He's in a critical state and I can't go see him:-( His family never acccepted me and they won't allow me to see him. ... (133 words)

My gums hurt and I have these weird small white bumps on my tongue.

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My gums hurt and I have these weird small white bumps on my tongue. All of this happened after kissing someone. Also my skin has gotten darker. I have lower abdominal pain and a lot of discharge too! Do you think I have more than one std?... (51 words)

Am I in denial and this relationship is going nowhere?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age - Been in a relationship for six years, engaged the last three years we had talked about marriage a few times and lately seems like the subject never comes around, we live in separate houses just 25 minutes away. He had mentioned that because I had several bills from my previous... (230 words)

My mom walked in and caught us making out...

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9 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was the first time we had ... (257 words)

How can I get my mum's jewellery back?

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9 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - After my Mother past away 8 years ago, my Dad had put away all of her jewellery so I could have it when he felt I was responsible for it. At the time my Grandmother (dad's side of the family) stole that jewellery and did something else with it. She supposedly had a talk with my ... (160 words)

Are there any ways of making my feelings clearer to myself...?

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9 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago my relationship with my girlfriend ended due to her thinkin that it was "too wierd" and that we were best just being friends. I was mostly ok with this but i did still have feelings for her even though i didnt want to. To try and get rid of this i we... (325 words)

9 years together and he still hasn't proposed!

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for 9 years now and have an 18 month old son. We are financially secure and have a fairly good relationship and even though we've discussed marriage he hasn't proposed? Should I just give up on the idea or keep dropping subtle hints?... (49 words)

My boyfriend has 2 kids but doesn't want one with me.

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I read the post about hating my boyfriend's kids. I am beginning to feel the same way as all these other posters. My bf of 7 years has 2 kids and one lives with us full time the other comes every other weekend. I have been through lots of drama with the ex for years! I love ... (172 words)

Sexual confidence....help!

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It has been a very long time since I have been intimate with someone. After my relationship ended a couple of years ago, I needed some time to get things into perspective and then just lost interest. I am less than confident now with my appearance and dread the thought of u... (177 words)

Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?

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9 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my boyfriend now. We've been ... (117 words)