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writes:I am a 15 year old girl, I have a boyfriend of almost a year and yesterday we got close and when we were kissing and things I told him what I would do with other girls partly to excite him but mostly because at that moment I would have and I wanted to be honest. He then admmited that he liked the thought of it and stuff and we watched some lesbian porn and I wasnt turned on but he was I could just tell. when he went home I felt disgusting I text him telling him how I felt and he said well you dont have to do anything. Now I know that he likes that and will think about it when hes excited and I feel horrible, I know I started it so I cant shout at him but I just feel disgusted, I also looked at Lesbian porn this morning to see how I felt and I was kind of attracted but now I feel disgusted again, also im scared that my parents might see ive been looking at porn, I deleted all the browsing history but im not sure. Please leave me some answers im really confused. I love my boyfriend and cant ever see myself having an emotional relationship with a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Hello, I am the writer of the question. Thank you for all your answers, they helped and I am not worrying so much now. Sarar87 your helped alot because you have been through near enough the same thing. Thank you all.
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reader, sarar87  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Hi, I am kind of having the same problem. But first off I wouldn't visit those websites again, they say 18 and older for a reason. Second, I have watched lesbian porn before and I will admit I have gotten very turned on. However, that doesn't mean that you or me are lesbians. I have had sex with guys and love it and I don't think I ever want to be with a women, just like you wouldn't. You are still young and your hormones are always changing, I would just chalk it up to being curious.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Even if your boyfriend doesn't believe this, no one in real life has sex the way you see it in porn. It is all fake and actually stupid. Girls and women don't ever respond to men and sex the way you see it in porno.
Unfortnately I think a lot of boys see too much porn and expect real life sex to be like that and it is just not true.
Sex with love is the best! Porn cheapens the reality of sex. In the future ask your next boyfriend what he thinks about porn and if he doesn't like it much, then keep that guy.
Porn destroys the human spirit. The people making these films are sad people with no ethics and probably were molested as children. Don't let porn effect your view of love and sex. Its fake and its unrealistic and it never shows people about love.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 November 2008):
This is the reason why porn is certified as being unsuitable for under 18s. It's not just because they don't think you should know about it, it's because you are not emotionally experienced to cope with all the feelings that go with it.
Porn is dirty and wrong, that is what is so attractive about it. But you have to be comfortable with your own sexuality to be able to enjoy that feeling of being naughty and then to go to work and forget about it. At 15 it's just information overload.
And yes girls are hot and at your age, it is perfectly normal to be curious about these things. That doesn't mean you are going to go off and marry a woman, it just means you are full of hormones and curious about sex in all its forms.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you think you went too far with him and want him to know you are not comfortable with it and only really brought it up to turn him on.
I am pretty sure that when he's with you he's thinking of YOU and possibly him and you.
Relax and get your mind off it. Go out with your girl mates and don't think about sex for a day or two.
Good Luck!! xx
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