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30-35,
*iethuni228
writes:I know it's wrong but I force myself not to believe it. I slept with a guy that I really like and he really likes me also. We talk every day for hours on end, we always hangout and we both love spending time with each other. He even calls me on his 10 minute breaks at work that is not normal for him. The downfall is that he has a girlfriend of 13 months. He complains to me every day that he hates her and he can't stand her but he only stays with her because she is suicidal so she won't let him go. He tells me that he really cares about me and he wants me to give him a chance even though he has a girlfriend. I think about this boy all the time and even though I have a boyfriend at the moment it seems like me and him are kind of going downhill as well. I really want to give him a chance but it wouldn't be right. I need help?!?! Is it the right thing if I were to give him a chance? What should I do break up with the guy I have now? I love him and care for him but I don't think our love is that strong if I can't get my mind off of someone else.
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reader, Conslw +, writes (18 November 2008):
Um well it sounds like you both need to figure out how to get rid of your significant others. I have been in this situation and it never works out with the one you are in the relationship and most of the time the guy you cheat with too. Because no matter if you two were friends he is still a cheater who can't get out of a relationship and because he is miserable he is looking for refuge with you and you with him. You are new and exciting and doing stuff secretly makes the hotness between the both of you even more but what happens when you are guys are together and the excitement and hotness dies out and he runs to another? either way you will be going through some form of a heart ache. If the partner is a good guy you have now make sure you bow out gracefully and try not to hurt him.
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