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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex the first time really hurt for me!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years (we're both 16 now) and after a party last weekend things got really hot.... he started playing with me and I played with him, it's not rare but then we started penetration and we're both virgins and we've both talked it over ... (121 words)

How do I catch the guy I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in high school, and there is this guy I have really liked for a few months which is a big deal for me because I'm just starting to get over a long term relation ship, anyway this boy that I've started to like, I dont know what to really say any more as I was with my ... (138 words)

Can someone speak from experience about quitting hard drugs?

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10 November 2008 (F) age - I would really need some serious suggestions, from anybody with some experience to deal with drug addicted person. My son is addicted to hard drugs and he is living a very self harming life. We are trying to help him, as he got himself in very bad health etc. But there ar... (254 words)

Is she just using me to get whatever she isn't getting out her relationship with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - we're both freshmen at the same college, so i've only know her for a couple months. right now i just think of us as really good friends, but sometimes she makes me wonder if she likes me a little more than that. so in no particular order: obviously hugs saying hi and g... (888 words)

I'm with someone new, but I'm not positive I'm over my ex!

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10 November 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago, it was a messy breakup, but it wouldn't work out anymore so it had to be done. We weren't in a healthy relationship, but she was my first girlfriend, and we also did our 'first times' together... We were together for a year. Now ... (364 words)

Could he still have a crush on me even though we don't talk much?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you be sure if a guy has a crush on you but doesn't really talk to you all that much?... (22 words)

Is it easy for a girl to lose her virginity?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering is it easy for a girl to lose her virginity?, just by fooling around? like if she had "oral sex"??? ... (26 words)

Is it possible to be friends with a teacher without it looking suspicious?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a bit of a situation. My chemistry teacher this year is awesome. Probably one of the coolest guys ever. While he is incredibly gorgeous, I don't want to date him ever. He's really become like an older brother to me this year. We're always teasing each other and ... (148 words)

My ex husband wants to come back, I want him to get closure and get over it.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i split up from my long term partner 8yrs and 6mths ago. During the last 3yrs of out relationship he became aggressive and depressed. He pushed me so far that in the end i no longer loved him and waited for a time to get out of the relationship. We have a 3yr old child ... (247 words)

If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?

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10 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?... (19 words)

I'm straight but girls are dominating my fantasies. Am I normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question. I have never considered myself homosexual, but all my life I have always fantasized of other girls when masturbating, not the guy I liked or had a crush on at the time. Even at a young age! I am in a wonderful relationship right now and I love my ... (178 words)

I grew two inches in two weeks. What's happening to me?

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10 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - HI! this is crazy ok, im 14 and at school they measured us last month. they measured me at 5'5 1/2. well now im 5'7 1/2 a month later. whats going on?!... (32 words)

I feel as if my mum interrogates me all the time.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's because of my mum that I can't have a relationship with this guy that I like. We both really like each other, but I can't stand it when my mum asks questions all the time, she doesn't even know about him but she anoys me so much I just don't want to go out any more unless ... (181 words)

How long will it take me to get over him and move on?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 months ago my boyfriend left me for my best friend! We were together for 2.5 years and I have a 20 month old son with him, whom he hasn't seen in about 3 months, he doesn't come to see him or call to check on him or pay child support for that matter, but I am constantly ... (134 words)

We had sex once and now he doesn't want to do it again! What gives?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, well basically i am a 22 year old girl and i've started going out with this guy who is a year older and we get along really well and i'm really happy with him. We've slept together once and this was a few weeks ago when we were a bit drunk, however, the problem is that it ... (193 words)

He doesn't want to talk about it, am I just supposed to wait?

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10 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I’m still very young, so please bear with me. I have zero experience when it comes to love. I met this guy, let’s call him John. Me and john were good friends, and we met on a kind of educational visit. He really liked me and I really liked him. He lives a fair way away, so... (466 words)

Two are in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so if you are here to call me a bitch or anything rude, you can just piss right off, i am not in the mood to be reading shit like that, i am in seek of some opinions or something... Lukasz [other guy] I kissed him and went to his place and we kissed more, and well I told ... (508 words)

She wants me to have substance, and that intimidates me.

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is from a well-educated family, and is well-versed in culture, politics, literature, movies, pretty much everything a person could be interested in. I'm not at all like that. I'm from a low-income-recently-turned-middle-class background, I dropped out of college once ... (241 words)

He wants to meet for sex, but I want a relationship.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. You see there is this guy who i have known for years. We were very close in school. But when I went off to college, we kind of grew apart, We didn't speak as much or see each other. I've always had a thing for him. Recently we started chatting on MSN messenger ... (149 words)

I'm a little worried that I could be pregnant...

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well I am worried about if I could get pregnant or not.. u see on Saturday my boyfriend was fingering me in my vagina like for 30 minutes.. and before that I got sperm a bit on my hand.. I'm a lil worried and not comfortable..could something happen??... (49 words)

I want to tell his gf everything so that I can hurt him, but not her/

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10 November 2008 (F)

- my ex has put me through sheer hell, yet as soon as he clicks his fingers I run to him. Even tho he has a gf, I slept with him at the weekend. He was nasty to me and even admitted cheating on her with someone else. He asked me not to tell her and deny it if she found out about ... (313 words)

He's not mine - but I want him!!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He's not mine - but I want him!! I don't know what to do - I got on really well with this man who I thought liked me! I gave him my number but he said he had a partner! Nevertheless he does call me from time to time but not very regularly due to having a partner! The th... (114 words)

I left him but now he wants me back... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my x and i were together for nearly 5 yrs, he then became violent an began to use drugs. i gave him the boot and went on holiday with the girls to get him off my mind, i met a lovely lad but he lives far away so can only see once a month, we get on so well tho. my x had been... (122 words)

My family will only accept him if he converts and he won't.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a muslim girl from a rich prominent muslim family, who are moderately religious not hectic muslism but nevertheless practicing muslims. I've been in a relationship with a white christian guy for 4 years ( we've tried to break up but can't and to be honest we are really ... (99 words)

Torn between two fellas... who sounds better for me?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm, i need help. Im torn between two guys. let me explain both guys to you . Guy 1, He's sweet, kind, funny, nice, cool, outgoing, and generally an amazing guy. He's really nice to me, and always tells me about how much he cares about me, and how he could not live without m... (666 words)

I'm completely torn and the feeling is torturing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19yrs old and about 2 years ago I really liked this guy called Chris and I ended up telling him as I thought he felt the same way which was a big mistake.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was one of the reasons why nothing happened in between us and he had ... (407 words)

My wife wants to go back to her gay, ex husband.

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I've been marriage to this wonderful lady for 2 years. Her prior marriage, her husband ended up being gay. From that marriage, she had 3 handsome boys. Now the father has had multiple boyfriends including a relationship that lasted 2 years. He is also in the boys lives. ... (189 words)

How do I let my girlfriend know I appreciate her gifts?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an amazing girlfriend who looks attractive and can hold interesting conversations. And she loves to spoil me! I'm 19 and she is a self titled "older broad." (I'm guessing 42-44 but I've never asked her.) I don't know if she's feeling self concious or not but she buys... (195 words)

I want to marry him, but I don't want to end up stuck away from my family.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - After I graduated high school, I left all of my friends and family and moved 1000 miles away for school. While here, I met a great man and we've discussed getting married when we graduate next year. Everything between us is perfect, except that I don't want to live here after ... (151 words)

I want more attention, but is it because of me or is it him?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi their just a small relationship problem. ok me and my partner have be going out for about 5 months we new each other before as friends for another 5 - 7 months.. things were great in the beginning we had a few tiffs nothing special, then we ran into a problem. one of ... (425 words)

My wife wants a boob job... why does she think I don't find her attractive

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10 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My wife wants a boob job because she doesn't think I don't find her attractive not sure where she got that idea. I told she doesn't need one and being a drama queen. I admit do look at other women and I do flirt with other women at work (she caught me a few times). Why does she ... (64 words)

I'm shy, how do I show my feelings?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a shy person. Haven't kissed a boy with tongues yet and I don't go out with many people. I really like a boy but. So how do I let him know I really like him? How do I overcome my shyness with boys. ... (45 words)

I woke up hating him for what he'd done and threw him out...

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he was an ex drug user. he lived in Puerto Rico at the time. i tried living out there for a while but it did not go anywere so i decided to come back to new york with him we found an apartment with him then he got this real good ... (138 words)

My parents don't want us getting married because he doesn't make enough money!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I are wanting to get married and he wants to propose to me very soon but my parents are not too happy. They believe that he does not have the earning power/finances to properly support me. They are not objecting to anything other than the financial side of ... (207 words)

What's up with this guy in my group at uni?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats up with this guy? Hey, not sure if this fits in with this category, but anyway at uni we had to be in groups to do a task and I asked to join a group and everyone was fine with it except this one guy. He didn't even look at me and didn't speak to me but was speaking... (165 words)

What differences should I feel if I am pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex once or more a day for almost 4 months, trying to have a baby together. I'm 3 days past the day I got my last period, I'm usually late, but this time I don't feel any cramps, like I usually do before my period. What ... (69 words)

Sex with a fat burd?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex with a fat burd? Ok I exaggerated there. I am not fat fat, I weigh about just under 9 stone but I feel huge. It has been just recently I have put a lot of weight on and it lowers my self-confidence. I am paranoid that when my time comes to break my virginity that t... (85 words)

He's giving me mixed signals, does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Look I am really confused just now. There is this guy who I like a lot. I have for about a year now and he is the nicest guy I have ever met. He is amazing, he is gorgeous and such a nice person.Everytime I am near him I can't help but smile. Just thinking about him cheers me ... (244 words)

She wants to spend time with him when I'm not around, what should I do?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and our relationship is solid and very loving. we both understand and support each other. recently i've noticed that one of his friends in college seems to be very interested in spending time with him when i'm not around. whenever ... (146 words)

After 20 years together, he has changed into a different man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together 20 years. We have 2 kids. He wanted to take a job 3 yrs ago that would require him to travel away from home alot. I begged him not to. He did it anyway. Now, of course, he's become a different man. He criticizes strangers and makes fun ... (481 words)

Is he just having fun with me when she's in one of her moods?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a guy for six month, but he has a girlfriend, he doesn't live with her, says that he wants to be with me, but he feels sorry for her and cant end it just yet. we do get on very well, both of us have told each other we love each other, he tells me that they ... (110 words)

I don't feel the same about him anymore and I don't want to feel that way.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. All of a sudden one day I didn't feel the same for him. I thought when it happened that it would go away after a week because I have felt like this before and it has gone away. Now I have been keeping it the back of my head, telling ... (112 words)

We're both virgins and I can't seem to penetrate her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if anyone has had a similar problem... my gf and I are virgins and well we are now ready to have sex, however for some reason when we try to have sex, i seem unable to penetrate her... She seems sooo tight and i dont know what to try. We do loads of fore... (131 words)

She's secretly staring at her ex on facebook, but she says she hates him!

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner has been lying about going on facebook to me and has kept many secrets about it from me. She deleted her ex's off 6 mths ago when we got engaged. We have since been married and I found out yesterday that she physically types the most recent ex's name at least once a ... (94 words)

Can I, or should I date my students dad?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so here is the deal.... I am a teacher... and I have a HUGE crush on one of my student's dads!! I am a single parent, as is he.... and we have spent a lot of time talking. He is great. I will only be his son's teacher for another month or so, as I am covering a mater... (99 words)

Is he acting this way because of the drugs or because he's just changed?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a friend , and recently i heard from our group of friends that he takes cocaine, to chill out, I told him what the hell,that stuff can mess ur head up,and he said i know it can, But all i want to know is can taking cocaine, i dnt know if he takes it regul... (108 words)

How can I reassure him that I'm not going to hurt him?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he has fallen in love with me, but because he has been hurt in the past he's scared. He has asked for some space to get his head together and decide what he wants to do. This was a week ago. I haven't called him at all since, but have sent just a couple of ... (172 words)

Two friends with two probelms, will you help them both?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - -- this is two people -- so im sophie, this is long, ok so I used to like a boy in year 11 (15) my mates brother and i liked him for months but i could never get close to him so i decided his friends where awesome and i should get to know them better. but along the way i met ... (280 words)

I had sex with her too quickly - how do I make her into my girlfriend?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really scared that I f*cked this whole thing up. I met a girl in the club last night, and we hit off pretty well. I took her home and we had sex, and then in the morning she left pretty quickly. I tried calling her, and she never answers. I'm scared now, wondering if I a... (135 words)

I held his hand... does that mean our friendship is over?!?

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10 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - help! i held my guy friends hand. I didn't even realise i was. i texted him after but he didn't reply. Does this mean its the end of our friendship or what could it mean?... (38 words)

Over the last couple of years she seems to have completely lost her appetite for sex!

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years but over the last couple of years she seams to have almost completely lost her appetite for sex. I have quite a high sex drive so this is extremely frustrating. A reason for this is that she doesn't seem to be able to have an orgasm d... (138 words)

I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

10 November 2008 (M)

- Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack of communication, i... (345 words)

My friend is worried that she might be pregnant... is she?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There are two people that I know that were having nonpenetration sex the girl was naked and the boy was wearing clothes. The boy pre-ejaculated during sex. By any chance could the girl get pregnant? My friend is disturbed...... (40 words)

Suggestions on how to ask her out on a date?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About a month or so ago I pulled this girl on a night out, but she wasn't a complete random as I had talked to her before, and heard she was interested. Two weeks later we pulled again, and I'm really getting the feeling I like her. We had a really great conversation last night ... (167 words)

Help! Decoding guy speak?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am interested in a guy I have spoken to several times at a local bar. But I can't determine if he is interested or just being nice. Last week for the first time I think I got the hint that he is interested. Before leaving last week he even made sure I would be at the bar ... (186 words)

What do you do with a woman who still has feelings for you, but dumped you for another man?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A little over a month ago, a recent friend of mine began coming on to me and I accepted her advances. By coming on, I mean we started making out at a couple of parties and started flirting heavily through texting. After a few days, we defined our relationship as wanting to ... (553 words)

I suspect that my boyfriend is secretly taking heroin.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I suspect that my boyfriend is secretly taking heroin. He has done it before and I said if he took it again I would have to finish the relationship. He agreed and stopped but I fear it is happening again. I have asked him directly and he said No! there are a few niggling signs ... (62 words)

Very Confused!! Should I stay with this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married, but unfortunately that wasn't going too well. Then I met this man how for the first time made my heart sing. We got together and we fell madly in love, when I got a flat of my own with my kids, he moved in. My man has always had problems being brought up... (458 words)

Loving a married man with children... please Help!!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a married man. I'm in an 8 year relationship with the father of my 2 kids. We get along okay but I just don't have that passion for him any more. My son is 5 and any time me and his dad argue, my son says stop yelling, I thought we were a family. That makes me ... (152 words)

Get together with this older woman and risk breaking my ex girlfriend's heart?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I went away in May with my girlfriend and her Dad. I'm 18 and so is my girlfriend. Her Dad invited a 42 year old friend and her son and she brought along a 31 year old friend and her two kids. The friend with two kids is very attractive and talked with me often throughout the ... (345 words)

Should I come clean and tell her how old I really am?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm looking for a bit of advice here. I'm 18, and the other night I got a fake ID and went to a bar, where I met a girl there who was 23. She asked me how old I was, so I said 19 because I didn't want to look like the one underaged jackass in the bar. Anyways,... (207 words)

Why did he come back?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've met this guy through a dating site. After a week, we decided to meet up. It was a great first date. He was completely my type; honest, handsome, intelligent. I honestly thought that he was the'one'. He liked me too, thought I was funny, smart, etc... but I wasn't his type. ... (202 words)

Will she come back?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with a girl for 3 years. We had planned to move out, have kids and spend the rest of our lives together. She has just broken up with me but says she still loves me, fancy's me and needs time for herself. She says she needs to feel like she misses me. I ... (104 words)

Does she just want him for his money or does she really love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all at cupid, My ex guy broke up with me (he's 5 years older then me) to get back with the mother of his child, they split many times before and this was the longest 6 months, anyway she was always texting him it just concently got more and more, next thing I know we've ... (222 words)

I feel so low, so rejected, so scared and so lonely. I feel like I may never recover.

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I could really do with some guidance and advice. I'm 31 and have a little boy from a former relationship. He is nearly 3 and the best thing in my life. The other best thing in my life has just broken up with me, because I have a child. My partner was 23. Now I know ... (776 words)

How to help my friend escape her abusive ex...

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My Friend is looking to move because her abusive husband is being realesed from prison he was sent down for battering her and the youngest of her 3 kids now after 8 months he's coming out before christmas and she is petrified he will come after her again so she desperately ... (90 words)

Had a fling with a guy. How do I act around him now?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago I got with a guy who I didn't really know that well but all my friends do, as a fun end of exams fling. He's really hot and a genuine nice guy. Anyway, not being gross but he went down on me, and it was good, yeah, but now I see him "around" quite often, ... (148 words)

Two friends are fighting for my attentions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a group of four friends who are all male,they have been very very good friends. now two of them want a personal affair with me or want to start up a relationship which could go as far as marriage. now those two are not very good friends as before.when people are around ... (154 words)

My husband got his school girl mistriss pregnant

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm still crying over my husbands affair. He had a six month affair with a school girl. I was pregnant they both knew that. He didn't use precautions and slept with both. I've had councilling but feel my life is tainted by them. I have three lovely children and have stayed with ... (140 words)

My friend cant get past being friends with girls

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend has the worst case of being 'stuck in the friend zone' that I've ever seen. He's a very charismatic person, and has absolutely no problem chatting to people he doesn't know. Unfortunately, he doesn't know when to stop clowning around, and so he never ge... (526 words)

Is masterbating thinking about Mother normal?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is masturbating thinking about mother normal?... (6 words)

I am finding it increasingly difficult to stay on top of things.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was made redundant nearly 8 months ago now, and despite applying for numerous jobs and attending many interviews I have been unable to find work. I had clinical depression many years ago and am worried that the constant rejection is going to tip me back into it. I am ... (444 words)

IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it? Like friday night in are local pub he was there with his new girlfriend and i was there with some mates, the pub was packed due to a party an... (207 words)

I feel so drained as I can't seem to get over him.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age - I broke with my ex of 14 months in January. He was very negative, angry and always talked about his past problems. I soon missed him and realised that I would rather be with him rather than without. He then decided that he needed space to sort his problems out. I cannot ... (238 words)

Condom broke while having sex, now I'm a day late, should this phase me?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex eleven days ago. The condom broke, but he said he didn't finish but I'm not exactly sure. Now I was supposed to get my period yesterday and I haven't gotten it yet. Should this even phase me?... (41 words)

Am I really being stupid for getting my hopes up by these phone calls?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really stupid at the moment, since splitting with my guy we used to speak every other day, then 2 weeks ago we have spoken every day on the phone, maybe in the back of my mind I was hoping it was a sign he still likes me, but then yesterday my mate mentioned ... (169 words)

My boyfriend said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, Well I had a problem with my boyfriend last night. He said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me (plus I am trying really hard in school). At that moment I felt like nothing and I felt unsuccessful because it's enough that my dad treats me like that, and ... (126 words)

How am I supposed to treat someone I used to be so close with and then suddenly was almost a stranger?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Some years ago, a guy was really into me. He helped me with everything, came to see me everyday and we shared a lot of common interests and had a lot of fun together. We were so close that people thought we were a couple. I suspected he liked me and it was proven one day when ... (428 words)

His ex is ruining my life!!!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am recently remarried to a man who treats me good. The problem is, is his ex wife. She constantly causes trouble in our household. She even shows up and waltzes on the property like she owns the place. She sends her daughter up here on weekends to "spy" on me be... (338 words)

I want to have a baby but my partner wants to wait... and wait... and wait...

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for a year and half - which isn't long, but we have also been living together for just over a year. We get on very well and love each other enormously. Recently I have been thinking about having children with him and would really like us t... (487 words)

Why am I turned on by something which I should be VERY ANGRY about?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 26 year old girl. Me and my bf have been having a serious relationship for 4 years and we intend to get married. But he fancies other girls too. He looks at photos of other girls in internet (not only porn, even very normal girls)and I know he even masturba... (214 words)

Do you get used to the taste of cum, like getting used to the taste of beer?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - A questions for the girls out there. My girlfriend was wondering if the taste of cum is something that you get used to? You know, like how you have a beer or liquor for the first time, and it just tastes absolutely horrible. But as time goes on, you have more and more, it ... (126 words)

I don't know about this relationship any more.

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10 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know about this relationship any more. Sometimes I love my boyfriend so much, somtimes I feel like I don't want to see him and if I never do I'll be fine, and sometimes its so awkward seeing him, and sometimes I love seeing him. It's so confusing. What's wro... (95 words)

Will I ever get back with her? What is going through her mind?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfreind split up with me like 2 weeks ago now, she says she still loves me and finds me attractive. We have stayed friends and talked to each other quite often after the split until we decided to have no contact about a couple of days ago. She says she doesn't want me to ... (138 words)

Why does it bother me to know that my boyfriend has had sex in public places...?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does it bother me to know that my boyfriend has had sex in public places and done kinky stuff before, more than knowing he's had sex?... (27 words)

When is the time to leave a marriage if your husband has no sexual desire?

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10 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - When is the time to leave a marriage if your husband has no sexual desire? And it becomes sexless marriage.. My husband does not know why. He says, he loves me. I wonder, if I can live like that for an other 20-30 years. It goes on many years ago... Really, it is destroyi... (68 words)

I like this guy at school, he likes me, problem? His girlfriend, who he has not seen for three months, he says, is he for real or a player?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy at school who i fancie like hell, and many people say that he likes me back..... the only problem is his girlfriend from his old school ........ the only reason why i think i may have a chance with him is because he says that he hasn't seen her in 3 months!, ... (92 words)

I have a lot of friends, who are boys, I like it that way, they want more, how do I let them down easy and keep them as friends?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have sooooo many guys hu are mi best mates, most of them are at my school. The problem you may ask that I have is that all my girl best mates say that they ALL like fancie me......... i found out this was true the other day........ I don't know how to reject them all because ... (107 words)

My bi-sexual boyfriend, wants to go back to his ex, can't seem to let go, how do I deal with this?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship with a bisexual older man for three years. We got a long well, but we do have arguments and usually I'm the one that started them. In the beginning, I did have a trust issue with him so that's how most of our arguments were. Last month, he told me that he ... (177 words)

We have been married for 5 or 6 years, our sex life is limited and not satisfying, what could be the problem?k

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10 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 5-6 years and he does not last when we have sex now. Why does he cum so fast and why is our sex life not that active anymore? ... (35 words)

I am attracted to another female, but I don't know what to do now, any ideas?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am female and attracted to a female coworker. I am straight, and I believe she is too (she recently broke up with a boyfriend), and she has a son from her ex-husband. We seem to have a mutual attraction, but not enough for me to figure this out. I haven't been attracted to ... (105 words)

We are in loving relationship, he moved away for a while, but will be back, do you think this will last until marriage?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend since we were 15. He moved about 1 months into the relationship and we have not seen each other much since then. I am completely in love with him as I am sure he is with me. Things are great, with the exception of the distance. ... (77 words)

I have fallen in love with a good friend's girlfriend, what do I do now?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I fell in love with a good friend's girlfriend and I don't know what to do. We had crushes on each other in high school but barely knew each other, and she ended up dating a friend of mine late in the summer this year. When I moved back 12 hours away to college I kept in ... (165 words)

We have dated, I like him, but he is leaving for a three year stint overseas, should I get involved?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, some simple questions 1. This guy has been asking me out 2-3 times for meals followed by nice long walks/talks. I've met his friends as well. Do you think he's interested in something more than friends? 2. However, he's going overseas next year for 3 years for work....I du... (60 words)

My communications with this married guy, is it wrong?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a friend almost 2 years ago when I close a deal with the army. He's GI and married. We got along pretty well. He then split to his home base and since then been keeping email contact. We are business related still b/c of the deal but we are more friends than business. ... (264 words)

Should I wait for her or just give up now?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl that I like a lot and we were flirting all the time until I finally asked her out. And everything was fine for the first few DAYS. She had broken up with her last bf a few days before that because she was planning on asking me out. Then she started acting v... (213 words)

Should we talk about it, forget about it or break up?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my gf have been going out for around five months. It started in the summer where it was all doing fine. Then school started and we go to different ones so we couldnt see each other that much which made it kind of hard but we still talked all the time keeping the ... (249 words)

I lied to my boyfriend and blamed my friend... how do I come clean a year later?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ahh! I hope someone can help, I'm going crazy! Let's see... I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and our relationship is quite good. I lied to him quite a while ago, while our relationship was still pretty new, and I know I need to tell him. The question is.... (394 words)

I think I'm becoming addicted to Dear Cupid!

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10 November 2008 (?) age - Okay...here's my question: I've been trying to give helpful advice all day on this site. I now realize I should have gone to bed an hour ago! I think I'm becoming addicted to this site! I've always been the person friends come to for advice...and this site is so fulfilling ... (70 words)

What can I do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone have any advice for things I can do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex? We dated off-and-on for about two and a half years. I was sure I wanted to marry him. There were times when I think he was definitely thinking that far in the ... (458 words)

His porn habit is making me feel bad about myself.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. We just had a baby. About 10months ago i found out he was role playing with other woman on the internet and was constantly beating off to porn when i was not around. He promised he would quit but he is still doing it and lying ... (107 words)

Can her body handle being pregnant with a partial uterus?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend had cervical cancer and we want artificial insemination and we aint sure if her uterus can support it cause she had to have some removed. Can her body handle being pregnant with a partial uterus?... (37 words)

Do I tell my parents that my sister was smoking

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10 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I caught my sister (she's 12 and I'm 15) smoking with her friends (they were smoking too). My sister begged me not to anyone. My parents would kill her if they knew and me for not telling them first. I'm going feel bad if she gets heart cancer or something. Should I tell my ... (58 words)

Why do guys enjoy it when a girl swallows?

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10 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I read a lot of these questions.... and i'm actually wondering... why do guys enjoy it when a girl swallows his cum?... (22 words)

Was he playing with me, or does he think that we should take our time?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm actually thinking about starting a relationship with someone. but i don't know if he really cares or not. when i was talking to him as a friend for a while he really didn't show any interest. my phone was turned off for five days. when he found out it was on, he texted me ... (250 words)

Why wouldn't I be able to leave someone who is verbally abusive, lazy, and reclusive?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age - Hi! I have been married 29 years, but unhappily most of the last 15. I have seriously tried to leave him twice, but once I let him talk me out of it, and the last time, for some reason, I talked myself out of it. I don't hate my husband, but have so many issues with liv... (680 words)

Choosing between two of my exes...

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so this is about two of my exes. i feel like i'm in love with both of them. alright so yesterday i broke up with my boyfriend and i've been talking to one of my exes -we'll call him mike- and i've felt so much feelings for him, i mean we were on and off for a while and ... (168 words)

I need good tips on how to get your ex back.

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone:) i am here to ask you if anyone has any good tips on how to get your ex back... i know he loves me, but now he's with some other girl,does anyone have any idea on how to get him back :S ? i swear it will help me alot :)... (53 words)

Do I need to do something to help mend whats been broken?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. We are currently in two different cities, in two different states for school. We have broken up and gotten back together 3 times. It sounds crazy but we were very much in love... well recently we have gone through a ... (179 words)

I can't sleep until I know... did he like her more than me?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some clarification so I can sleep. Did he like her more than me? A guy I've known for a while and had a brief 'relationship' with is a player. He recently was dating this girl, however who sent her some presents, texted all the time, planned to spend time at Christma... (184 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend is still a virgin?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy that I am currently dating is 22 years old and is a virgin. I asked him why but he just said that he doesn't know. He told me that he has three girls before. I am wondering if he lied to me about that. Is it normal for him to still be a virgin? Even tho it is not ... (97 words)

I love going down on her, but she has a serious smell.

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is asking me to go down on her and while I love going down, the problem is my current girlfriend has some serious odor issues going on. She showers twice a day and says she has been to a gyn about any possible infection. She tells me the gyn says that its all ... (87 words)

I told my mom we were in a relationship when we weren't. Now she wants to talk to him. Help!!!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I made the mistake of saying that this guy and I were in a relationship when we're really just friends (with benefits, but my mom doesn't know that), and now my mom wants to talk to him! He was really sweet about the whole thing and agreed to talk to her. But he thinks th... (191 words)

Do you have any input on what I should do, or if you think she likes me?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl I really like, and I think she likes me back, and one of her best friends thinks she does, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, by making things awkward. We talk a lot, and when I see there, or she looks at me it looks like her face lights up, and s... (141 words)

How can I move some of the workload onto myself during sex?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So this boy and I have recently started having sex. Now, previously we were both virgins, and therefore are ultimately inexperienced. What we've found out so far is the best way for us is missionary - however, this results in me lying there and him doing all the work. I HATE ... (113 words)

What in the world does this mean?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age - Can you explain this to me? What does this mean, " I do really love you but I don't like you "? Please reply and thank you !!!... (29 words)

I'm fat, right?

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10 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16 years old. I'm 6 ft tall and weigh 98 kilograms. I'm F A T, right?... (22 words)

Is he gay? Or is it something else? I'm ready to give up!!!!!

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Everytime we shedule a date something happens and we have to cancel. I'm beginning to think that maybe he's gay and he's just going through the motions of dating me but doesn't really want to do it. The first time, we planned... (328 words)

I had a miscarriage and my boyfriend is devestated. How can I make it up to him?

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really love my boy-friend, and this situation is killing me. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year. One night, about a month ago, it was our eleven month anniversary, we ended up getting really drunk, and did the nasty =]. When this happened, he forgot to put on a ... (470 words)

I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate

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10 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate who is also one of my good friends and need help :( I started at uni about 3 mothns ago and was lucky to find myself in a flat with some lovely people. We all get on really well and theres a real bond betwee... (669 words)