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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I like this girl and was unsure whether she liked me or not. We had kissed on a couple of occasions, but it didn't necessarily mean she liked me as we were both drunk and as most will know these things happen. Anyway, on Saturday I was at a party and she was there, I tried talking to her but I got the impression she wasn't interested, but I was really quite drunk and so was she, so maybe I just read her signals wrong. As a result of this I thought well fair enough, it won't matter if I kiss someone else, and by the end of the night I had kissed three girls and slept with one of them, slutty I know. However, she found out, and was apparently jealous and annoyed about who I slept with because she really doesn't like her (I didn't know this at the time). Anyway, in the morning she seemed quite annoyed with me and we didn't really speak much and we aven't spoken since. Technically I didn't do anything wrong as we aren't going out, but I still feel really terrible because I might have screwed up my chances with her as a result of that. I definitely wouldn't have got with anyone else if I had known she was interested. What should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Well first of all you were both under influence. It isn't your fault that you thought she wasn't interested (unless she was making it VERY clear!) The first thing I think you need to do is apologise. The second thing I think you need to do is limit your drinking a bit - as something like this could happen again and ruin a relationship you are in.
If she really wasn't making it very clear, and it wasn't your fault, then she could be the jealous type. Would you want to be with someone who was paranoid all the time?
I think you need to find out from someone else who was there just how obvious she was being, to know whether it was your mistake or hers. Then you can act appropriately - if it was your fault, then apologise, limit your drinking and ask to start again, if it was hers, then to be honest, I'd look for someone new.
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