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41-50,
*elina
writes:Hi there! So i really love sex. I have a boyfriend,now for almost 1 year, and things are going really well. We are friends and lovers. Everything seem to be great when we are together, even with no money...When we have sex, I feel really turned on,because the man is really sexy,and really hot. He stimulates my body and my mind. We usually talk about fantasies we have.Well, recently I think a lot about having sex with a woman. I´ve told him all about it, and we had a really good time talking and imagining it. I imagine us both having sex with a woman at the same time, and it really makes me horny.However, I´m afraid if we do it,it may ruin our relationship. Or will it improve even more our intimacy? Will it be good or bad for us? I really love him, and want to explore our fantasies together, with much pleasure and love, but is it possible? What should I do? Try it or not? Can anyone help?
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reader, Felina +, writes (20 November 2008):
Felina is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi!Thank s so much for the help.I think,as long as we both want this to happen,and as long as we see this as a fun adventure,and be able to just enjoy the pleasure,it will be okay.We only live once,I believe...So we must realy have fun.I shure do love him,and trust him.So,hell yes I find the idea of seing him with another woman such a trill.It makes me really horny.Also a bit scared...I just dont want this to damage our realtionship...Anyway,thanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Look, threesomes are a great fantasy.
But almost all the time, in relity they turn out to be more awkward then a Family Guy/Simpsons mixer.
If you both decide to do it, and both realise the risks and are prepared to take them... I would avise getting a professional sex worker to be the third party.
This willensure thet no sexually transmitted diseases are any more of a risk then normal, and she will be trained not become emotionally involved in any way to either of you.
Once the sex is done, she leaves and there are no awkward emotional situations arising later (as would be the case if it were a friend).
That doesn't mean the risks aren't there. Who knows how it's gonna affect the noth of you until it happens.
Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Flynn 24
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reader, SinVA  +, writes (19 November 2008):
holy shit. Tell your boyfriend, he will be amazed. Hell you could use this as a birthday gift. I say go for it
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