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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does he mean by "it wouldn't bother him if I cheated?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help me untangle this weird love thing I am in please... recently I got together with a guy and its been great... we were talking the other day about a whole trust issue thing and he mentioned to me that if I cheat he wouldn't bother chasing me or even accepting my apology... ... (122 words)

How do I react to this... I can't trust him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I need some help plllleasee... Well recently I have just got together with a guy after a long open relationship (4 months, it's been great even though we've only been together for a short space of time... when we first got together i found out that i was the other wo... (323 words)

I can't study properly for thinking about her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a relationship with a girl for about three months(not sexual). both of us are in love but the problem is that we became friends through chatting and a few days ago i saw her picture, she looks too young and although she says that she is 18 but she looks like a 12 year ... (166 words)

Boys!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lately ended with my boyfriend of a year. I'm quite a young age and have been quite serious, during our relationship we ended on various occasions for a couple of weeks, in these weeks I was meeting up with a guy and one time I met him and we got really close, but then I ... (102 words)

I love him, but he is married... should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.. well.. I have known this guy for almost 3 years now. When I first met him he became like a dad to me. but for the last year I have been having stronger feelings for him. He is married, and I am 20 and he is 43. We talk and text often and even meet up for breakfast or lunch ... (160 words)

Is it normal to get wet like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so when me and my boyfriend talk on the phone and we start talking about doing it, i start getting a little wet or when i'm with him mackin i still do. Is dis normal??... (36 words)

How do I ask my Mom for tampons without embarrassing myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is more of a female question. I'm 14 and iv had my period since 6th grade but i hate wearing pads.....i feel like i'm sitting in blood and that's nasty. i want to ask my mom if i can do tampons instead but i don't know how....iv hinted like crazy but she still doesn't ge... (73 words)

Should I confess my feelings to my ex when I have a BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should i tell my ex i still love him even though i have a boyfriend?... (15 words)

Is this how you become gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a major problem. I am 14 turning 15 and my whole life I have been sexually attracted to women, I can tell you that. And it's not like because of the society I live in I liked girls to be like others, but I really liked girls. But starting this school year, I've not... (151 words)

He asked me to dump my BF and get with him and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey x , I have a problem, well it started like this... my bf was off school for a week due to a bad cold however during this week one of his friends started txten me again sayin he likes me blah blah blah... but as i got talking to him over the week and getting to know him a ... (178 words)

How can I signal him to start talking about our relationship without getting shy and stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been very good friends with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we have only been dating for a little of that. It seems like longer, to both of us. We do the "normal" couple things, like movies and dinner. All of my family loves him. My mom trusts him with me, and that's a ... (205 words)

My Mom's drunk BF harassed me and I'm afraid to tell her the truth!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 18 and life has never been better for me up until a week ago. i was staying with my mom because she hasn't seen me in a while and wednesday she had to work so i was at her house with her husband. it was his day off and with him being an alcoholic all he does on his day ... (226 words)

I'm always thinking about what she would be like in bed, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi This is a serious question, I am a university student and there is a girl that goes there who is actually on my course, who i like alot she smiles waves and will stop and say hi, but for some reason i just think about having sex with her and what she would be like in bed, ... (82 words)

What do we call the male version of mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do we call the male version of mistress? If a girl is seeing a guy who has a partner - what is the official name for the guy?... (31 words)

I feel like he really doesn't love me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel so bad and stupid. i love my boyfriend and he loves me. i came across an email of his and found out a lil bout his past. now i can't stop reading his emails and i feel horrible. he never really told me he was in love before, but i found out otherwise. i asked him and ... (165 words)

We both live on campus and both like history. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need helping dealing with his new guy in my life. Bit of a backstory; my last couple of relationships have been awful. Really awful. I've had really bad experiences with men, but the last couple were the nails in the coffin I guess. One forgot to tell me he was married ... (347 words)

What position should I do for the first time I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my b0yfriend have been dating fer about month and 3 weeks and i think im ready for sex. We were talking about sex and about doing it last night. We were planing it where and when. His not a virgin but i am so i dont know what position is the best for a girl thats a ... (76 words)

His best friend is a girl! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a guy to have a best friend who is a girl? My boyfriend's best friend is this girl he has been friends with for 5 years, and any time he tries to tell me about how he can be he always says "just ask (friend's name) she'll tell you how I am". He's been friends ... (147 words)

How can I get a guy who's my type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm mixed race but I'm quite light to say I am. I don't mind being mixed race but people always think I'm some urban/chav/fesity rude girl and I'm nothing like that I'm really nice, christian, I love rock music, I'm bit of a punk too :P Most of my clothes are topshop and ... (203 words)

What am I going to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What am I going to do? I would be so grateful for some advice..? I have been with my current boyfriend for a year now and I'm happier than ever.. only about 3 weeks ago an ex who moved away a year ago came back to the city, we bumped into each other then we chatted and I told ... (356 words)

My BF went through a "gay stage" in the past and I'm freaked out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my boyfriend went through a "gay stage" in the past. He didn't tell me about it, I happened to come upon one of his old emails. When I confronted him about it, he said he went through a stage but didn't want to talk about it and I freaked out. I said... (134 words)

My BF says if we do it while I'm on my period and he pulls out, I won't get pregnant. Is this true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I always have sex using condoms. But he often tries to put it in without one. He's usually on top of me and starts to rub the tip of his penis on the outside of my vagina, but doesn't put it in without a condom. He has been wanting recently to do this ... (160 words)

Is he TOO nice or just looking out for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love tony*. he is so amazing! An when we had sex, it hurt so i said "tony that really hurts!!" and he replied oh im sorry Ellie*, i didn't mean to hurt you. I bled a little. he keep saying sorry. i said it's okay. is he TOO nice or is he just looking out for his girl? and is ... (82 words)

My left nipple is itchy and sore... is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, this is a bit embarrassing but lately i've noticed that the nipple on my left breast is really sore. It's very irritating and is quite itchy. Is this normal as i am in the middle of puberty?... (38 words)

What should I do to ask him and get him to tell me the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. His best friend is always around us and me and his friend have always gotten along. Over the past couple of months the best friend and i have gotten close and i have developed feeling about him. Recently we were all at a... (153 words)

Does anyone have a good cure for getting rid of spots?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well does anyone have a good cure for getting rid of spots. I tried alot from freederm to clearisal, its like sometimes my skin its really clear and I barely have any spots. Then like a week later i have loads and just can't get rid of them. I was just wondering if anyo... (75 words)

How should I ask him if he still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy this summer and when he asked me if I liked him, I told him I liked him as a friend. The problem is that I find myself really missing him and wishing that I had told him that I really liked him. How should I ask him if he still likes me? ... (58 words)

A little blood and slight pinching after masturbation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I was just looking for some advice/ information. My boyfriend and I live together and have been dating for sometime. He left for work and school today, its my day off. Anyways I was missing him and was a bit horny so i masturbated, shortly after I went to the bathroom ... (128 words)

We aren't allowed to see each other, and my heart is broken.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - myself and my girlfriend split 2 weeks ago under strange a very strange situation. neither of us decided to call it a day but because of problems with the neighbours and a fight we had i was not allowed to contact her or go near the address. for the first 4/5 days after a moved ... (174 words)

Has my online man lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy through an online dating site. I responded to his profile and He immediately responded back. after a couple of messages we sent back and fourth I ended the conversation given him my email address. He sent me an email message the next day telling me he is serious ... (186 words)

He stripped down to a candy g-string and I burst out laughing. Now he's not talking to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend come home last night stripped down to a candy g-string, I was so shocked I burst out laughing, now he isn't talking to me. What are you suppose to do? HELP !!!!... (37 words)

Will sex hurt and will I bleed again after I bled when he fingered me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, me and my boyfriend were messing around and he got on top of me while kissing me and then started to finger me, he did this for a while and he then noticed that i had bled quite alot while he was doing it, but i didnt feel any pain but was still bleeding. we are both ... (141 words)

The ex wife, is there anything to worry about there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,Really hope you can give me some advice please! I met this really nice man about five months ago after chatting online, He has been separated from his wife for a couple of years and his divorce has just come through. We spend every weekend together if he is not out of th... (446 words)

How do I figure out if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there is this guy and I really like him, but my friend had asked him if he liked me and he said he does not like me the way I like. But he is always poking me and smiling every time we talk. How do I figure out if he really likes me?... (54 words)

Am I just another student or am I special to her? Do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I really love my teacher. Have always but i am very shy and never spoke to her really. I was always her favourite student. Recently we have been IM each other and i've even visited her. Im leaving school now and i'm gonna miss her. She said she loves all her students. Am i ... (71 words)

Me, my boyfriend, and my ex-best friend / his ex-girlfriend have history, and he's still friends with her. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, there is a long story behind this question, so please bare with me while I try to summarize it: Basically, my current boyfriend is friends with his ex-girlfriend/my ex-best friend. Me and my boyfriend (I'll call him Eugene), have done a lot of stupid stuff to each ot... (539 words)

I'm engaged to be married but can't get this other guy out of my head! Am I making a mistake here? Should I call the wedding off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm engaged to be married next year but haven't set a date yet, however, my fiance and I broke up in Febuary and I went on a date with a work colleague. When my fiance and I got back together my colleague moved to another branch and I haven't spoken to him si... (100 words)

Everybody says I'm cute! But why don't guys ever hit on me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why dont guys hit on me?!! I need advise!!? People always tell me i am one of the nicest and kindest people they know. Girls also constantly tell me on how pretty i am and how they wish they were as pretty as me. I constantly get stares or looks from girls at the mall. But guys... (111 words)

I feel so strange! I cant explain what I'm feeling, I don't know what I'm thinking, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - just cannot deal with anything right now.. Basically, I went out with this guy for a few months, he cheated on me.. I still like him. Well, I actually don't know if i do, I don't like the person he's become, but I miss what we had sometimes. In school, hes in my lesson... (167 words)

How do I know if I'm ready for sex?? And why is he acting like this??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 13 and i have a boy friend who is 13 to. i dont no wat to do we have been going out sence we were ten and havent broke up once our relation ship has been the best thing that has ever happend to me in the world. well my boyfriend asked me one night when we were in his room ... (191 words)

He wants me to dress up sexy in the bedroom, but I feel very uncomfortable with that! Should I try doing it anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner is 10 years older than me (I am still a college student). I have been with him for 5 months and we are really happy together. However, when it comes to the bedroom, he really wants me to dress up in sexy underwear and stuff for him, but I really don't feel ... (195 words)

I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got with him in a time of pain, ... (207 words)

I met the love of my life, but he isn't ready to commit yet! How long do you think I will have to wait for him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I desperately need guidance. My married of 17 years broke up a few years ago and one year later I met this wonderful man whom I believed was the love of my life....he was also part of my past growing up. We clicked instantly, fell in love, healed each other, completed each ... (222 words)

Age differences and kids, can this relationship still work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i started dating this guy recently. hes amazing so far. i just want to know im nor crazy? we go to the same college, he for audio and me interior design. he is 19 and has 15 month old daughter. im 21 and have no hildren have tried it just hasnt happened. we are both taurus' ... (96 words)

What do you GUYS find sexy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! when i first had sex with tony* i pulled his tie to bring him closer to me and kissed him. was that that sexy? i thought i could make it sexy. FROM A GUYS PONIT OF VIEW! what do you think? and what are some tips on gow to turn him on and be really sexy and intameit wit ... (79 words)

When he found out I liked him he stopped talking to me, now he seems to like me again but I'm afraid to talk to him again, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Kinda long sorry 1st of all i'm 14 and there is this guy who i've liked for about 3 years and he is 15. I've known him since early primary school and we were friends for most of primary and for the 1st year of me being in high school. Last year he found out that i liked ... (348 words)

Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion? Even if one of the partners isn't into that kinda thing? I've been with my boyfriend for a while and in order to get things up again, he wants a threesome. I'm not into that and of course, he found some chick that is more than wil... (66 words)

He says I'm not fun anymore and started hanging out with another girl, how can I win him back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, you guys probably hear this quite often, but I've been with my boyfriend for some time now (2 yrs) and he's recently met another girl whom he really likes hanging out with. He told me likes her and the only reason there isn't potential for them is that she only wants casual ... (205 words)

She had condom-less sex before, but won't with me! What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been dating my GF for over a year. we are madly in love and she says she has never loved anyone as much as she loves me, and i know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. we have never had sex without a condom. she is on birth control and takes it properl... (470 words)

I'm in love with a guy but don't know how to tell if he likes me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a boy more than my life...I think of him every second...He is my classmate...We both are friends but we are not too close..He always makes fun when I m with him.He talks only with three girls of our class and I m one among them...There was an exam...My friend(with whom ... (115 words)

I found out my friend's girlfriend used to work in the sex industry! Now I don't know how to react? Tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What a small world we live in. Here is the story. I have a friend, single guy who recently about 4 months ago met this woman, that he obviously likes. Everytime he talks about her he portrayies her as this little angel with so many talents in crafts and arts, very domistic... (439 words)

I think he is cheating on me! What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my partner for 3 yrs we got a little girl togerther know and i also have one from a previous relationship 2 yrs ago i found out that he took some girl back to his dads house and they stayed in the same bed my partner and the girl say nothing happend deep down i ... (228 words)

I don't know if I'm pregnant, I got a positive and a negative result! Which one is correct??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE READ I NEED HELP well im 18 and ive missed my period by nearly a week.. i did a pregnancy test today and one of them was positive and the other one i did was negative so which one is it can i tell i havent had unprotected sex but im not on birth control or anythin... (91 words)

My husband had an affair and now she and her sister won't leave me and my family alone! What can I do to stop them bothering us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Heres my problem my husband had a brief affair with neighbor we lost our home his Job we are doing better we went to counseling and keeping our family together. She is also back with her husband well i keep getting messeges from her and her sister and here latly her sister h... (88 words)

My GF likes to be dominated, I could use some advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey all - so my girlfriend likes to be dominated. i've been tying her up and blind folding her for some time now. every once in a while we talk about our sex life and see if things are good for both of us, and during our last talk i got the impression she could use a litt... (264 words)

Is my online date just playing around with me, or what is going on? Should I agree to meet with him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem starts when i met this guy in a chat room which i frequent often,however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change,and we started to connect,of course he told me these feelings will get more serious ,which it did.Everything was going well,and he ... (405 words)

We've struggled so hard and now she seems to be giving up, what can I do to bring her back to my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyboby,I've got a mess these days,my 4-year-long girl friend want break up with me.she used to love me so. we fall in love so deep,and we planed to study in u.s together in u.s.(we are chinese).everything had been planed. after we graduate,she got a job as a high school t... (241 words)

I'm sure he loves me but why is he with another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dated this guy for about 8 months, and we were so in love, we ended up having a big fight one day,i got so mad and just left him behind and went back home,he got so hurt because i left him there,and when he was going back home, he met an old friend,the next day i knew that ... (134 words)

Am I simply his 'odd encounter'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age - Started seeing this guy 6 months ago, and found out 2 months ago that he is married. He is in a sexless marriage - of course that is only heresay! I only get to see him about once a month as he's often away on business, and is terrified of his wife finding out. We pl... (222 words)

Can someone please help me to untangle my love life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

- Ahhhh I suck at relationships! It's pissing me off! I'm 19 and I love my ex boyfriend more than anything, and he's in love with me. But he moved away a while back, so we're not together. I don't fancy a long-distance relationship. So that's Guy #1. Guy #2 is Guy #1's friend ... (297 words)

Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... Should I keep it to myself? or ... (105 words)

I keep having vampiric sexual fantasies.. whats going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is I've discovered some strange things about myself.I think I'm bisexual and I'm completely in love with my best friend (I'm female and I'm 16), I think about her all day and all night, recently I explained to her my feelings. She told me she would always and had ... (369 words)

My fiance of 6 years lies about porn problem, then blames it on me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. We have a beautiful 13-month-old daughter together. Just yesterday he admitted to me that he was using my computer to look up internet porn. This is after months and months of lying to me about it. See, he would ... (360 words)

Does he think I'm a slut now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Guys Any advice would help! I have been single now for a couple of months and have been out most wkends with friends but havent bothered really with men, Two weeks ago I bumped into a guy who I know likes me, he first asked me out about 2 years ago but I was seeing s... (566 words)

I feel really unappreciated and feel he wants to control me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for like 8 months now and it was a long distance relationship at first for a month and a half, he was in isolation and I was always there for him, emotionally since we were far apart and he told me he'll never forget the support I gave him at that time ... (342 words)

I love him so much but he just wants to be friends after 9 months together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found someone that I love so much I would die for him. I have 3 kids they are not his. We had problems with a friend of mine who tried to split us up. We have been seeing each other for 9 months. The problems started about May and he is now saying he has no feelings ... (154 words)

Do I tell him what I did in the past... or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am currently in my early 20s and just graduated, so I am looking for a job now. My boyfriend dropped the bomb yesterday. We have been dating for about 8 years odd and he popped the question. This relationship started when I was in my teens and we had many ups and... (219 words)

When, where and HOW to propose???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for the past year and a half now, we've had time to grow up, fight, cry, laugh and all the other good stuff together and I'm ready to tie the knot but the problem is, I don't know how to do it, do I do it on a holiday with all the good ones coming up ... (166 words)

Lost erection... is this ED?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been dating for some months now, mainly seeing each other weekends. Things are going well, but today when it came to sex I completely lost my erection. Neither of us have discussed it, but we both know it happened. Was quite embarrassing having her grind aw... (330 words)

I really dig this kid!

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy... Lets call him R and I think R may like me back. Some days he says my name a lot(like I mean "Hey thanks,____" "Lets go to the store,____" "You wanna come over,___?" And I just get this feeling, you know? I called him cute once when I was really intoxicat... (184 words)

My mates want me to hook them up with him... but I like him too!

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I just started my new school about 2 months ago, and I like this guy, and we're like really close friends now. But the problem is all my friends have gone up to me first saying that they really like him, and one even said he's like her first real strong crush. Plus ... (91 words)

Wife dreamed of Ex!

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for a year, recently she had a dream of her ex boyfriend. Her ex boyfriend and her lasted 4 months, she said he was a horrible boyfriend who treated her like crap, well, in the dream he came back from deployment, and told him she was married to ... (302 words)

Transexual porn.

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a situation which has left me unable to think, feel, react to much at all. I'm a very happy person and let a lot roll off my back but over the period of 4 years I keep having same problem. My husband is a Marine and has been in 15 years. In that time my ... (220 words)

I've loved him since I was a little girl...

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 years old unmarried girl. I'm severely depressed with what I am facing in life. Every moment is killing me. When I was 6 years old I came across my cousin's brother. He is 8 years elder to me. I liked him a lot and so did he. Years passed by but we never ... (525 words)

Should I be concerned about my wife and friend?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 6 years and I have been having a little bit of fun over the past 8 months or so but in my opinion it went a little to far the other night.About 8 months ago my brother told my wife and I that my best friend of 16 years who is also a friend of his told him that if my ... (494 words)

He wanted my number but never calls - I don't see why?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He told me he didnt want to be friends because I lumped him in with people in my past that hurt me but then talked to me for two and a half hours after he said that. I changed my number so a week ago I text him asking if he would like my new number and he replies IMMEDIATE... (184 words)

Early period while on the pill - why could this be?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am just wondering if anyone knows what would cause my period to come a week early while on the pill. I have two full weeks of pills left to take. Although my period was not the most regular thing in my teens, in the years since I have been on birth control it has b... (80 words)

How can I break them up?...

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a best friend thats a boy and he has a gf. does anyone know how i can break them up? i dont care if i hurt her feelings because she already has a big ego. he thinks its just she's so happy she's not on a bad path in her life. ive told him how concerned i was for him ... (98 words)

So ladies, hairy chest or not?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks.... (31 words)

I need to locate an ex, any suggestions

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Please help... 2 years ago I was basically date raped and ended up pregnant. I was 15 at the time and he was 25( I didn't know that until I told him I was pregnant and it slipped). I'm in a relationship now and I really am happy but I can't help but to think ab... (128 words)

He wants an open relationship and threesomes! Should I give up on him?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now. He's 18, I'm 19. About a month ago, he met another girl (17) whom he really enjoys hanging out with. At first, it didn't bother me, but then he started hanging out with her a lot more than me and going to lunch with her and ... (176 words)

He's 24, I'm 17. Is this wrong?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - He is 24 and I'm 17. I know he's not a sleaze because when we met, he thougt I was at least 21 and I thought he was 20 ish. We became really good friends, and after 3 months of just friendship we found out the actual ages. About a month after that we started fooling around and ... (88 words)

Is there a future here for us?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy almost 2 years ago, he's military and was making a duty in my state (NJ) we just met for 2 times and it was business. But, we kinda made a click, we made eye contact, he laughed at anything I'd said, he stared at me, well he made me feel he liked me. The thing... (234 words)

He doesn't know that I'm a virgin..should I tell him?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here's my problem. I'm 17 and a virgin and I'm ready to have sex. I don't want to do it just to say that i have, but i'm just ready to have sexual relationships. For the past couple of months I've been "friends with benefits" with a guy. We had the "talk" and neither ... (160 words)

Daughter's boyfriend comes over late at night. Do we trust them together?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My 18 yr. old daughter's boyfriend likes to come over to visit, which we do allow but he comes over late when he works. We don't allow him to be here late when we have to go to sleep because we don't think it's appropriate for them to be left alone since we do also have a 13 yr ... (114 words)

Turned down having sex with her and now ..she thinks I am gay!

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This weekend I had my girlfriend over and we fell asleep on the couch after a quiet evening and a movie. We are quite affectionate with each other but this was the first time we had slept together, we were fully clothed and have been dating for a month now. After a while she ... (193 words)

The love is gone, can I find it again? Or should I move on?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for about four years. My wife and I knew each other for a long time before we were married. We dated for about a year before tying the knot. After we moved in together things started to go downhill. I am at a point where I am not sure if I should spend ... (167 words)

I think I am ready, but he isn't...what do I do???

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is almost 15. I got to thinking about sex and thought i might be ready, but my boyfriend has already told me he just isn't ready yet, that he wants it to be special and when it's right. So, what do I do if I think I am ready and he isn't?... (58 words)

What are the chances of her being pregnant?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, yesterday me and my girlfriend had sex.. we didnt use condoms. i did not cum. but there was a liquid kind of thing.. she said she felt something wet, but im 100% sure i did not cum. is she going to be pregnant? what are the chances? do we have to go to a medical test?... (81 words)

How do I deal with her coldness and aloof manner?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age - Hi, Thanks in advance for your comments. My problem is that my fiancee seems to swing from being all over me to chastising me for 'not doing enough' or 'not appreciating what she does'. I find her claims incredible, not only because they are inaccurate but beacuse they ... (397 words)

Women: Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that saving sex for marriage?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that was saving himself for marriage? Please be honest.... (19 words)

Jiggly thighs!! What can I do to tone them up?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know what I can to tighten my jiggly thighs. Besides excercise, is there anything that i can do or use to tone them. I hate the fact that my inner thighs rub together it is so annoying and uncomfortable i can't stand it. Any advice, remedy, cure anything, please help ... (54 words)

Should I ignore her and her calls or talk to her about it?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i started talkin to my ex girlfriend again.. hungout wit her on her bday she told me she loved me n all that.. than she goes out that night and hangouts wit another guy.. didnt kno she'd do that.. but i had to find pictures on a website wit them together.. we have been thru so ... (90 words)

Does anyone know a good remedy for hair growth?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know a good remedy for hair growth. Pls let me know.... (13 words)

Do I have side effects from my period, or am I just sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everryone I'm not very sure if I'm just sick or this has somethign to do with my time of the month but here it goes I feel really quesy and dizzzy when I'm sitting still, or stand up,I feel like I'm going to throw up, I have a huge headache and I'm on my period. I... (131 words)

Should I just break this off before I get a broken heart?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok well Ive been dating this girl for about a month now, we get along really well:) She is great and I do have strong feelings for her. I have mentioned a relationship a few times and she told me that she didnt want to rush things, so I said that is fine. When we hang out we ... (177 words)

How can I send him subtle signals to let him know I like him?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having lunch with a guy I really, really like. Unfortunately, I'm not sure if he feels the same way. He does seem to flirt a lot...joking around with me and constantly smiling at me, but he's also quite shy. I don't want to come right out and tell him I want to take our ... (83 words)

I'm 14 and he's 19, is this wrong? Should I stop seeing him?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi dear cupid. so i started talking to this guy, hes 19 and im 14. we get along fine and we went out one night. The farthest we'ver gone is making out...but we're not in a relationship. My parents are most likely to find out if i start going out with him, because he's my mom's ... (90 words)

How do I tell my friend that I love her?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Now, it's not a crazy love. It's more than a crush because we've hooked up a few times (no sex, a mutual decision) but there's not much of a chance for a relationship (long-distance). i don't know at all how she feels about me . . . she, on the other hand, knows that i like ... (189 words)

I feel my husband is using me for sex and to sleep with other women...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 2 years, 6 months ago I started to have an affair with an older man - I was very good to him, and I know he was completely infatuated/in love with me. I withdrew completely from my husband for the time the affair was going on both emotionally and ... (490 words)

How many of you believe that there is something after we die?

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24 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - How many of you believes that there is something after we die? And what will happen? Reincarnation? Or became a spirit? Or nothing at all? And if nothing , does that make you depressed, that you have only this chance on earth? Life becomes very different , when we don't be... (111 words)

Why do I continue to engage in casual sex when I always feel crappy the next day?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an issue with engaging in casual sex on occasion. Protection is used and things are safe, so there isn't a problem there. However, I always feel crappy (mentally) the next day and feel I shouldn't of done it. Why do I continue to do it? Any tips on how to stop? It ... (147 words)

Can a woman who had has a hysterectomy still have orgasms?

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24 November 2008 (M)

age - Can a woman who has had a complete hysterectomy still have an orgasm??... (13 words)

I miss him and love him, but my parents don't approve...

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I so am sad all the time and miss my ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years. We've been together through out high school college and just recently broke up in march, but we still talk sometimes until it gets too hard on one of us. Our relationship was only but happy. We hardly ever ... (248 words)

Does he want me back or is he playing mind games?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend finished with me a month and a half ago. I was desolate, and did the whole begging him to get back with me thing, which I now regret, but I was in a very bad way. He was reasonable and gave me a straight answer about why he was finishing things, saying 'You are a ... (252 words)

I really like my boyfriend but he's a terrible kisser!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months, not that long I know but I really like him, and I know full well I'm not ready for sex, I'm a virgin but he's not, he slept with one girl but the thing is he cannot kiss! I hate kissing him, it's disgusting. It's like ... (135 words)

Question on marriage.

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24 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Is there a relation between how long it takes a couple to get married and how happy/unhappy they are afer they get married or how long that marriage lasts? I don't want to get married or anything, but I've noticed a strange pattern and want to ask about what you know.... (54 words)

Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl to like this kind of thing?... (62 words)

New Years party but we MUST dress up! Any ideas?

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24 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I thought maybe you people could help me, I'm going to a new years party this year and you have to be in fancy dress, it's either dressed up, or don't get in but I have NO IDEA at all what to go as! All the other girls will probably be going in referee, bunny, school ... (210 words)

How to know if your partner trusts you... or not?

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24 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - How can you know if your partner trusts you? or What are the signs that he doesn't?... (17 words)

How do you create a strong, interesting and lasting relationship?

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24 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - How do you create a strong, interesting and lasting relationship? It seems to me like all relationships around just wear off, no matter how badly this people wanted them or fought for them. I don't want that for me, but it seems that's just the way it goes. Is that so? Are... (130 words)

I came home to find my brother-in-law and my dad sitting on the couch in their underwear kissing one another!

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24 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25, been married to my wife who's 24, for about 6 months. Everything's been great, and I get on well with her family great too. My wife's brother, who's 22, is gay, and very openly gay, and I'm not homophobic at all. I get on with him well too. Earlier on in the week I ca... (292 words)