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writes:My Boyfriend has told me he wants to break up because he is tired but is hoping we can be together after some time alone to pick himself up and recharge his mind body and soul..... I miss him terribly and all this happened so suddenly that I didn't know what hit me, one moment it's all lovey dovey stuff next the bomb is dropped.... What's going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe constantly falls asleep!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo add more, he is not one for playing with feelings and prides himself on loyalty....... I've slowly watched him become more and more tired within half hour of him sitting down he is pretty much asleep and can't keep his eyes open.
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 two answers(not too much info in your question):
-he might be playing with your feelings,just having fun,and he knows that you will be waiting for him because you have strong feelings for you,so he won't have that fear of losing you,in that case don't even try to think of getting back again with him,because he did it once hell he will do it again...
-he might be going through a lot of stress that is why he needs a break,in this case,give him space and don't contact him for some time,if he loves you enough he'll be back:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Hi,
I had the same thing with a woman I thought I knew well. All of a sudden, she decided she wanted a break. Turns out she was seeing someone else to "expand her horizons"!
I would ask him clearly what this is about. Is he seeing someone else or just plain tired. If it's the latter, give him some space to think and get back together. If it's the former, then move on. Bottom line, you must ask him to be very specific about this.
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