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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We've been going out for 8.5 months but he still hasn't said these 3 little words to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months in about 2 weeks. I care for him incredibly but we still haven't said those 3 words yet. I'm not one for rushing things and I enjoy taking things slow, but it does worry me and makes me wonder if he does or ever will. He was in a... (116 words)

Any thoughts on how to end a friendship?

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4 November 2008 (F)

- Hoping people can give me a hand here. Some good answers on this site. I have a 'friend' who is great much of the time... but not always. Every now and then she can get kind of belittling and mean to me and it is usually in front of others. I was talking about a rift I had with ... (193 words)

I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that. It tears me apart knowing that she is with someone else, and she has a daughter with him but she is not happy. What do I do?... (41 words)

Online Dating Makes Me Feel Sleazy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently joined a site called fling.com. I am a very busy person with tons of responsibilities and of course like most women I have complex about my looks. Sometimes I feel unattractive and other times I feel good. Anyways, my sex life hasn't been all that much of lat... (306 words)

I'm in a secret relationship with this guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my name is Isabella. I'm between 16 and 19 and the guy I have a secret relationship with is between 20 and 23. So, we were good friends for a couple of years, having long conversations and enjoying each other's company. Then, we started meeting up late at night just ... (355 words)

Do I have a real mental problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, this is going to be long, so bear with me. Its not a relationship question, more of a mental state question. I have never given much thought to this, but recently due to the change in my lifestyle the problem has become apparent. I have got some unjustified ne... (653 words)

I have insecurities and I wish they would go away they hinder my happiness and my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age - I have insecurities and I wish they would go away they hinder my happiness and my life! I have a wonderful husband who is just great to me he is a little younger about 13 years younger and never have I had someone treat me so good and yet my insecurties are driving him and ... (252 words)

A rock and a hard place, need some advice PLEASE!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently wrote about being miserable in my relationship and wanting to be with another woman... well my girlfriend just had a death in the family and her brother just got 130yrs in prison so.... I feel like she really needs me in her life right now... sometimes our ... (340 words)

I lost my boyfriend to another guy!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I'm really really confusedd at the moment, my boyfriend and I were together for 18 months, he was my second boyfriend, he was quite experienced with girls, I lost my virginity to him although he wasn't a virgin, we were in love and I thought everything was great in... (143 words)

What to think if a married guy say he´s very good with his family and yet flirts and talk softly to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know a guy who is very polite with me.We get in contact by phone due business. The other after 6 months of no communications I had to talked to him. He´s married and the other day asked me if I everything was OK with me and my family, and so I say yes, we are OK. The guy ... (151 words)

I love my best friend's little brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with my best friend's little brother. I am 23 and he is two and half years younger. I'm almost certain he feels the same way. This past weekend I went to a party with him. We acted like a couple and ended up making out. I have grown up with his family, and ... (176 words)

Should I quickly reveal that I lied about my appearance and let him see the real me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently met a guy over the internet, who I've developed feelings for and he's also developed them for me. We've only known each other for about a month, but we are having a long distance relationship. The problem is, I was worried about sexual predators, so I didn't use ... (157 words)

Would this be termed as cheating???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Question:- A man (who is in a relationship) secretly stays in touch with another woman who he knows loves him and is forever showering him with gifts (but doesn't ask her for anything more - ie sex). So would you say this man is cheating on his partner?... (51 words)

What shall I do? Does he like me... or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right how confusing is this, i really dont understand advice would be great. i went to this birthday party about a month back and i ended up kissing my crush Lewis. So the next day as it was a drunken kiss i was all oh okay so we didnt really mention it but i defintly knew the... (280 words)

Help Me! Need Advice on Boyfriends!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help me!!! I have been going out with my boyfriend for a month and I really like him but a part of me doesn't like him. I don't know what to do, we don't have much in common but we have a great laugh when we are together, but I think we are more just friends.... what should I ... (88 words)

I don't know what to do? Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've like this guy forever. But I've always been too shy to talk to him. here's the deal. I think i'm in love with him. yeah it might sound crazy. but have you ever heard the phrase don't find love let it find you, i think it found me. when i started liking him i wasn't even ... (124 words)

It's been over a week and he hasn't called!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a boy a few weeks ago who is a friend of my friend's bf. I'v seen him a handful of times and we get on really well, have bare things in common and have even spent some time alone. My friend told him I liked him and then told me that he said he liked someone else, which ... (190 words)

I feel the distance is getting worse between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, All this has happened since I started seeing my girlfriend, and have been seeing her for 10 months now. Basically suspicion started when she'd text her ex girlfriend say kath about kath's son whom she calls her own as well. At first i could cope because i understood the ... (526 words)

She wants me to stick my finger in her and I need female advice on how to do it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf recently shoved a finger up her anus as she approached her climax. Now she'd like me to do it and I'm embarrassed to say I'm not too sure what to do. I blushed when she asked me and we didn't talk about it. I wouldn't want a finger up my anus. Doesn't it hurt? How ... (115 words)

How can I gain more confidence around men and my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old female who doesn't have any friends and my work colleagues don't really like me, I am just someone who is there. I have never had a boyfriend and I feel awkward around the opposite sex, I have tried to come out of my shell by going on work night outs but ... (120 words)

I really don't understand my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't understand my friend. She and her husband have been married for 9 years and barely do anything together. He was always going out alone, calling to say he wouldn't be home and now HE has filed for divorce saying he hasn't been happy. She stays home and watches ... (233 words)

He blew me off the first time... should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit long, but here goes, A guy at my work arranged to go out with me but he blew me out at the last minute, I have never asked why, I just pretended that it never happened because I thought it was easy, my mother thinks I should have had more respect for myself. ... (114 words)

Do you think she will be faithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm talking to my ex again. We aren't going out because we both just got out of relationships but we are bascially together.. we had a great night one day and the next day I asked her a few things and she tells me to stop questioning her, because she's not doing anything and ... (126 words)

I think I only love my boyfriend as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused! I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and we've said we love each other but thing is i think i only love him as a friend! we were good friends before we got together but i don't want to hurt him. i don't know if i really want to break ... (264 words)

I really don't want anyone else I just want him and I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I met this guy in May. We kinda dated till the end of June then we drifted apart. While we were dating he asked me out 3 times and I said no. The reason I gave to him was that we should wait til we know each other a little better, but the real reason was because I felt ... (364 words)

How do I know he loves me? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I know if my boyfriend that I have been living with for 3 years is still in love with me. he spends a lot of money on his ex and takes care of the house she lives in and is still filing taxes with her but has spent every night with me and is on a lease with me and has me ... (476 words)

Did he mean to kiss her or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, today my mate D told me that my boyfriend went to kiss her, but she backed away because she had a boyfriend too. ( me and my boyfriend's realationship is secret till we no wether it will work ). When she told me i was just shocked, i didn't know what to think, because i ... (171 words)

When will puberty end??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Just wondering for people possibly older than me but if not feel free to give advice, when will my development be complete, like puberty and when will I fully grow up as a 'man'. Just wondering, thank you!... (41 words)

How can I tell my girlfriend in a good way that her facial hair bothers me a lot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and love her very much, but she kind of has a lot of facial hair and it really bothers me. I haven't said anything over the years because I don't want to hurt her feelings and ultimately it doesn't keep me from her because I love her for ... (264 words)

If your boyfriend thinks you are cheating while you're not, how do you make him believe you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you tell your boyfriend that your not cheating on him,when he thinks you are?... (16 words)

Do I dare telling him again that I really like him? Last time he didn't speak to me for a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. 1st of all i'm 14 and their is this guy who i've liked for a few years now and he is 15. Last year he found out i liked him and he stopped talking to me and things were really difficult for a while. In September my year and his went to see Romeo and Juliet with the ... (173 words)

My boyfriend left me for his ex but now they seem to just be playing games on each others, what is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya everyone Im finding it really hard to understand my ex bf at the moment, he left me to get bk to his ex gf the mother of his child, anyway one miniute he says he can see what everyone else sees in her not a very nice person, then he goes running after her doing whatever... (247 words)

Crazy abusive girlfriend, but I still want her back. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story, but worth the read. I dated a girl for three years. At times things were amazing. I loved her and wanted to marry her. Were were compatible in ever way and we loved being together. Had so many great times together, but she became insecure and controlling. Did... (880 words)

She is lying to her parents about my age! Should I tell them and if so, when would be a good time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i like this girl and she really likes me, but she is lying about my age to her parents. what can i do? i am 18 and she is 15. do i have to know her parents first and tell them later? ... (43 words)

Is it weird to have sex for the first time when on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is coming round tomorrow, and seeing as this is the only day we have my house to ourselves, we were planning to sleep together. this would have been my first time, but I was happy with this, and we've had it planned ever since i knew that we would have some privacy ... (122 words)

Would he love me even if we wanted different things, or is he only looking for any homely girl to settle down with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys just wondering something and was wanted some help coming to a conclusion... ive been with my guy for about a year now and we always talk about what we want in the future and where we want to be in 5years time... we both want similar things in life and its really nice ... (123 words)

What can I do to change her mind about him for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i like has a bf. and i dont think he is right for her. we have almost everything in commen, but she still wont break up with him. is there anything i can do to change her mind about him for me?... (44 words)

I'm sure he will soon meet someone better than me, should I leave already now before everything goes wrong?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a pre-school teacher. my boyf has just started a job with a top company. im sure he will meet someone more attractive, much more intelligent and basically better than me. what should i do? i'm not sure i want to stick around and wait for things to go wrong.... (51 words)

Should I send him an e-mail letting him understand I'm interested, or do you have other suggestions on how to approach him further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age - I like this guy at work and it seems he likes me as well b/c he uses alot of non-verbal techniques for flirting with me, e.g. he winks at me every time he sees me alot and touches my arm also (I wink back at him and touch his arm as well). Lately I've been saying "hi, sexy" ... (131 words)

Since we moved in together he is never "in the mood" anymore, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hopefully somebody has an original answer!! I've been with my boyfriend for about 19 months now. We moved in together 2 months ago, and since that time our sex life has decreased pretty drastically. I find myself wanting sex fairly regularly, but whenever I express this to ... (150 words)

I'm afraid he will cheat on me like he did on his ex gf with me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need some help... rite this weekend i organised a romantic weekend away for me and my boyfriend ... i decorated the room with candles and petals and i know he really apprieciated the gesture... when we did get back to the hotel for this awaited suprise he said lets ... (309 words)

16 and pregnant ! Can I keep the baby and continue my education ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old, in year 11 at high school. Im expecting A grades in my subjects and want to further my education and go to university. But I might be pregnant. It's with my boyfriend, who would be there for me but i doubt could provide money to support it. I want to kn... (112 words)

What's the difference in between making love and just plain sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a difference between making love and just plain sex? if so what is the difference?... (18 words)

Any other problems in our relationship we've had, we've always been able to talk about. But our sex life is a taboo subject. Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiance for over 2 years now. early in the relationship we had a great sex life, we were averaging twice a day. over the last six months there has hardly been anything. We have had sex once in the last three months. That's not even the problem. She kisses ... (494 words)

She says she loves me only after one week ! Is this just a ploy ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - okay my girl friend said see loves me and it only been two week we've been together this is my first girl girl relationship and she already want to have sex but her baby moms still in the picture but said they don't do anything what should i do i am so confused does she really ... (89 words)

I'm on the pill, but I still got pregnant ! We really can't afford another child, but I refuse to abort/adopt. How do we over come this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I have a major problem. After our 3rd child I put my self on birth control so I wouldn't end up pregnant again. I've been on it for 9 months now and last month, on October 25th, I was suppose to recieve my period and didn't. On November 1st I took a pregnancy test and found ... (233 words)

He has talked to her for 6 months, could it be true he is not dating her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this guy for 5 years off and on. I decided to end it because I was not happy at the time. We still continued to call each other and spend time with each other as well. A few months ago I found out that he is talking to another girl but they are ... (103 words)

I truly want a child and am willing to try anything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For two months now my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant. Everytime I think I'm pregnant I find out I'm not. For some reason my menstraul cycles are much longer than the normal 28 days. I went from having my period start on the 30th of August and end September 5th, ... (106 words)

Is it possible a guy could change his mind about whether he likes you or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it true that if a boy doesn't like you, he will never like you no matter how hard you try? ... (24 words)

How do you break up with with girls without having them really hurt??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just started dating this girl 2weeks ago and i feel i kinda rushed into things. If you know how to break up with a girl without having them really hurt tell me! p.s. were in high school so high school answers please... (45 words)

I can't get over the past, even now we're back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So i asked a question similar to this before. I had trouble with my boyfriend and his ex having conversations that they shouldn't have been whislt i was with him. In the end we had to finish our relationship as i was so paranoid and he was frustrated and kept saying 'it was ... (359 words)

I just with the other babymomma would go away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me please Iam in a difficult sitaution i let my babydad move in with me after he just broke up with his other babymom.They been brokenup for two 6 months they have two kids together and i have one bye him to.I know him first i met this man 11 years ago .The point ... (160 words)

He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads more than he thought he would... (411 words)

I am 18, she is 15. Can I date her in Nevada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, im am 18 years old guy and i like is 15 year old girl. is it right to have a girl this age? is it legal to be with her in nevada?... (34 words)

I don't feel anything when my boyfriend kisses me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend (arron) and i have been getting closer and closer lately and i thaught everything was great till last night when i relized that when we kiss i dont feel anything and that its really hard for him to turn me on. we have gone as far as me giving him hand jobs, hi... (145 words)

Was I right to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im in love with a man five yrs my junior. It started out as a fling, then we realized we had more in common than we thaught. we became good friends and he invited me to church. its been six months and recently asked him where he sees this going. he says he loves me, all the ... (208 words)

Can my gay friend reallly be straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my absolute best friend is gay...is it possible that a gay guy can turn straight? I mean he has told me he is in love with me and that he would be able to have sex with me if he had to. I can get him excited, if you get what I mean. Most people think we're dating and when ... (185 words)

Please Help Me With My Autistic Niece!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

- Do any one knows how i can get help for my 10 yr old niece who is believed to have autism or PDD? She is suffering very bad because her parents really dont know how to care for her. They often just try to shunt her out of their life and never take her anywhere. She is in a ... (114 words)

Can we get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay man in a 10 year relationship. I've known my partner since we were 13 and 14 and began dating at 18 and 19. Almost exactly ten years later, he tells me that he's lost passion, and doesn't know if he can get it back. We have an appointment to see a therapist, but ... (94 words)

I kept letting him down, now he doesn't want to know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I wonder if you could help please. I was in a relationship for 2 yrs before we split up in february. A few months after that i met another man. then after 2 weeks of seein him my ex came and asked for me bk. I was so inlove with my ex at the time that I kept turning my ... (166 words)

Is this legal in the state of Florida?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age - Alright, I know a guy who is 18. He is dating a 14 year old girl. The mom knows his age and knows where they are at all times, they are only allowed to see each other in a public setting and have never been alone! They are both Christian and have no sexual intentions in... (148 words)

Recently married and attracted to someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started a new job this year. Instantly when I met my new boss I was attracted to him but I was engaged and he was my boss. He also was new to the job. No one ever knew of my attraction to him. A few months ago he quit and I got married. Well a week ago he sent a email saying ... (388 words)

Feeling low after ending my affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all- I am a married mom of 4 and recently broke off a 2 year affair. I have been reading through alot of the post and it seems alot of people are having the same issues. I am just feeling really down in the dumps today. I know its going to be a hard road. Im so angry with ... (100 words)

Do you think it is possible for someone to stop fancying someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think it is possible for someone to stop fancying someone? I have a guy mate who said he fancied me so much in the past but now he is scared to tempt our friendship.. he says he loves me too much. he has been sending me a lot of mixed messages.. before he said this he ... (144 words)

I have a weird family!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a weird family. I don't know if I should call them weird but they are getting on my nerves. The problem with them is that they spend and shop excessively. And we are from the middle class family. They just can't stop asking me for money. Sometimes, when I buy some... (448 words)

I'm 21 he's 57, is the age gap too much?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 21 year old female and I recently met a guy off a dating site and we really have hit it off big time - sexually and spiritually! He's so considerate, loveable and all-over gorgeous and I may be falling in love with him. Trouble is, he's 57 - yes, that's 36 years ... (144 words)

I just feel so used, hurt and basically broken.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a very hard time, two days ago something happened to me, which I just never imagined would happen. I had been with my boyfriend for only about six months. We got pretty serious straight away- not sexually but emotionally. He seemed to totally adore me, it was ... (511 words)

Maybe there is a double standard about a girl needing to seem pure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Stayed up all night thinking about a thing my girlfriend did in the past. My girlfriend is 17 now and we've been together for a year. We are really in love and she is my best friend. I'm away at college and I gave her a promise ring when I left. She told me in the beginning ... (513 words)

I'm married to him now but can't stop thinking am I as good as his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been bugging me for over 4 years now. I can't get it out of my head and I even break down crying sometimes 'cause of it. I need help! To start, my husband and I have been married for about a year and half now. We have a beautiful baby girl who I was told I would nev... (351 words)

Why won't my ex leave me alone and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex for about a little over 3 months. It's been well over a year since we dated. A lot of things went wrong, as he was manipulative, emotionally damaging, and incredibly selfish. Drama went on after I broke up with him. He continued to message me after he went away. ... (346 words)

Should I text his girlfriend and tell her what he said?

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4 November 2008 (F)

- Ok, I was dumped back in the summer by my ex who I loved to bits for another girl. At first, I was so bitter that I would email her telling her stuff about him, bad stuff like his worst habits and things like that. I wanted her to see him as a bastard like I did at the time, ... (226 words)

Is it common for married couples to get bored with sex after 5 or 6 years?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Sexy Auntieeeeess and Handsom Unclezzzzz. How are you doing? Your suggestions helped me a lot. 10x a ton for dat. Now one more thing to ask... plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I want to know for some reason, is it a common feeling in between Husband and wife to get bored of... (112 words)

Normal or abnormal? Can we be together?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a student to have a crush to his/her teacher? Some says yes. some says no. What is the real and true answer? I just wanted to know if I am just a normal teenager who admires her teacher so much. When I see him in the hallways, I just wanted to stop ... (175 words)

He's gone cold, and doesn't know why.

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here is the problem. I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for nearly 2 months. Just today I came back from a 4 day trip that I went on with him and his family. Without any forewarning to the unusual behaviour it seems like the day the trip started he pulle... (326 words)

Can't stop brooding, any advice?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a terrible brooder. I seem to have a mind that wont ease up and give me a break from the moment i wake up to the time i go to sleep. My brain concentrates on particular issues that are going on in my life to the point of obsession until it figures things out. The problem ... (240 words)

Any tips on sexy underware ... I want to suprise my boyfriend!

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. im a size 16-18 with really big boobs. i want to surprise my boyfriend with sexy lingrey (sorry bout the spelling) x but i know not many things will be flattering on me. any suggestions??? thanks x x x x... (46 words)

Am I a bootycall?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok I met this guy on myspace his friend was my friend so we started chatting exchanged numbers then started texting a lot! I knew he had a girlfriend but he was just so cute and we have almost EVERYTHING in common we started hanging out first night we didn't do anything ... (266 words)

She's cut down on the sex - what can I do?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My female partner of nearly two years (shes 26, im 28) has gradually been cutting sexual activity out of our relationship. At first (three months or so) we would make love once, twice a day. Yeah the normal honeymoon period stuff. She was very promiscuous before we got ... (292 words)

Is he just wanting a make out buddy?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy who has hung out with our group of friends for the last 4 months or so. One night we started kissing and he asked me out on a date a few days later. He was texting me often after he asked me out and before the date. The date was fun - dinner, movie and ... (322 words)

My wife and my best friend, just as I suspected!

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have sensed for some time my wife and my best friend have been attracted to each other I think I got confirmation of that last saturday afternoon. Well last sat. morning one of my friends called said he needed help moving a hot tub Isaid sure I'll be there in about an hour. ... (343 words)

Could this be an innocent friendship or is he falling for her?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years we had some good times, but lately he has been acting very strange I feel like he has no feelings for me anymore.When we're togather it's fine the minute we don't see each other I don't here from him like I use to.theres this girl ... (151 words)

Since his wife found out about us, she made him promise he will not contact me again, I'm heartbroken!

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4 November 2008 (F)

age - first of all im married for 26 yrs with 2 children my marrage is good my husband loves me and i love him about 2 and a half years ago i met someone on line he to is married and has 4 children. we started emailing it didnt take long befor we began talking on the phone and that ... (478 words)

Should I continue my friendship with this man?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, So i have gotten myself into a pretty confusing situation where i dont even know what i feel anymore. It all started 3 years ago when i was in highschool, I was 16 at the time and thats when i met him, he wasnt just any guy, he was my teacher and right away we had ... (408 words)

My libido is missing, I suspect it's due to the pill, what can I do to bring it back, any exercises or vitamins or...?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 24yrs old and I have been on Birth Control pills since the age of 16 due to ovarian cysts. I have never had any issues with my "libido" until just recently. Seems like lately, when having intercourse with my bf of 3 yrs, I cannot reach my climax. I seem to ... (139 words)

Are we really not right for each other or do I have too high expectations?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here is my dilemma. I have just signed a year’s lease for apartment to rent with my boyfriend. We have been together 4 years, however had one years break, getting back together 4 months ago. We had a years break for a range of reasons, but mainly because I didn’t feel ... (469 words)

Have I made a mistake? Should I apologise?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here’s how it goes. (I am posting this because I’m frustrated and I need to vent.) To make a long story short, since I’ve been telling over five sources this already and I’m sick of typing it out, in grade 10 I was in band with a guy I’ll call Simon. October 12-13, 2007 at ... (693 words)

Obsessed with my math teacher....

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure this question's been posted many times before, but my problem concerns my calculus teacher. He's just so funny, witty, nice, and he really cares about his subject and makes me want to care about it too. As you can guess by now, I have a crush on my calculus teacher. ... (250 words)

Why are girls against polygamy but okay with being the mistress?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why girls against polygamy? You might say it cause she doesn't want to share her guy. But I don't think it's that simple. A lot of girls are okay with being the mistress. They don't mind sharing a man, as long as the other girl doesn't know about it. But if the other girl k... (77 words)

I'm not afraid of marriage, I swear! How to make her realise I just want to take things one step at a time?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (I'm 31 and shes 24). I love her but we definatley have our ups and downs. We have openly talked about getting married and I assure her I want that in our future. The thing is she will often ask why I am not ready to get ... (252 words)

The girls love me... what should I do? I need a pimp! (Joke!)

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I have a bit of a problem, I have a girlfriend but she has 2 close friends and one of them likes me and I kinda like her. Now I love my girlfriend but she is about to find out that I am kinda flirty with her friend and I know I have to make a descion if I choose one I lose ... (93 words)

My ex wants me back... again, but I fear he will leave me as he has done so many times before.

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4 November 2008 (F)

age - I am going on 50 10 years ago I meet a wonderful man who was in a relationship with a married woman. I was not in a relationship at the time. I pursued him we got along great we talked and talked we took one step at a time and got closer and started a relationship he ended it ... (282 words)

She likes me more than she likes her boyfriend but won't leave him, how to win her over?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like this girl, and she really likes me. but she is going out with this guy and he treats her like crap. and then she gets p.o. and the next day she forgets about it. He also ditches her for weed. any advice? anything i can do? i want to win her over. how can I? [Added... (257 words)

How come she really likes me, but is dating someone else?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl and she is dating someone else, and she really likes me too. So how come she says she really likes me when she only likes him?... (32 words)

He told me he didn't like me anymore but I think it was him being shy. What now?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so there's this boy and he told my his best friend who's also my guy best friend that he liked me and at first i didnt like him at all and then i we started talking on the computer and hanging out. we hooked up whenever we saw eachother or hung out. then i asked him if we ... (348 words)

I only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say!

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am bisexual, but no one knows it yet. I hear people all the time saying that being bisexual is nasty, and I am afraid to say it. I like females and males but only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say, even tho I really want to date a female.. What shou... (59 words)

He wants to settle down soon, where as I just want to go crazy for a bit.

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my guy for almost a year. I love him very much but we argue so often, mainly due to my lifestyle. I am a student and really want to spend my time with my mates doing work or at my job. He has a full time job with sporadic hours and has never been to univ... (196 words)

Should I ask this girl out, just focus on study, or do both?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Fellows ! I hope everyone is doing great. I've come here to seek help, and which I greatly appreciate. So my story begins. I'm a 17 year old student who is doing final year of school, this year, at my new school, I've seen a sweet girl. Well, she is in my chemistry class. I... (265 words)

She yelled at me and accused me of cheating. It's only a picture!!

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this cheating? I have a picture of a female musician on my binder. It's a normal picture, not one where she's half naked or in a slutty pose. Girlfriend: Who's that woman? Me: That's a musician I like. Girlfriend: Do you think she's pretty? Me: Um...yeah kind of. Girlfriend:... (93 words)

Will he come back to me and love me, or is this the end?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been together for 2 years and 3 months, I have three children from a previous (Divorce), but he loves the girls like they are his own. He has said all along that he dosn't want children of his own. Things had been going great, then he came home one day and told me that... (118 words)

How can I learn to trust him? Can you help, please?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy i met at a concert in july. But when we first met it was kinda like love at first sight. It was like i known him all my life. Well we began talking more and more, and one day my parents read all my text messages of me and him joking around, and now they don't ... (196 words)

I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too young.. and he's willing to wait ... (73 words)

He has completely withdrawn and I feel terrible about all of this. Please help.

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4 November 2008 (F)

age - Please help me sort things out. I'm so confused I don't know what to do! I found out 4 days ago that my husband has been having an emotional affair with a woman in the building where he works. He told me that he was in love with her, she was in love with him, and that we ... (783 words)

How should I give her my gift?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have this romantic kind of way of asking a girl to be with me. I plan to draw a picture of her and writing on it "Be mine?". But I don't know how to give it to her? Any suggestions would be appreciated.... (46 words)

Are we incompatible or am I just running away?

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A few days ago me and a girl made things official, she's my first girlfriend even though i'm mid twenties, so i'm very nervous about things but we have been getting on so well and chatting everyday for the last three months. She has been through some issues recently and i've ... (406 words)

Is it normal for a man to masturbate in his 1st month of wedding?

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4 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal that the man masturbate at his 1st month of weeding? i have just get married lately and i found out that my husband musturbate alone he gets on line and watch nacked women,i dont know why he does that especially that i have never said no when he wants sex and i am... (162 words)

My family died and now my foster parents want to adopt me, but I don't want to lose my parents name or memory.

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4 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship problem or nothing like that, but it's just that i really need some help with this. About 4 years ago both of my parents, twin brother and younger sister died in a car accident. Me and 5 year older sister survived. With no direct family to look after ... (161 words)