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writes:I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of pleasing him? My best friend said dry humping would work just as good, but is there anything else I could do to make him feel good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Hey there, I'm in the same boat as you with regards to not wanting to have sex before marriage. I also have a guy overseas and when we get together haha we call it our 'honeymoon'. The most I've ever done with him is heavily making out (as you said) and phone sex (fun in an imaginary/trippy kind of way). If you're not into the latter massage is an AWESOME idea, so's cuddling, I don't know how sensual you want to get. If you've fingered than maybe the next bet is a hand job. Honestly, if you want to keep it clean and fun do physical activity followed by sensual activity. My guy LOVES fishing so I suggested we go out and do so... the entire event lasted at least 6 hours and it was all inclusive from laughing our asses off to makin out for a good 30 minutes. Remember, you love eachother, so no matter what you do he'll be happy just cuz he's with you ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): You could have phone sex - or mutual masturbation (he does himself you do yourself) he could use a vibrator on you - massage - watching pornos - writing poems - playing with food - strip poker - striptease - you could go to a stripbar - good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): What do you mean by "pleasing" him? If you just want to turn him on, dry humping or massage are good ideas. If you want to satisfy him sexually, you could give him a handjob. Here's another idea that drives my bf wild.... lie on your back and press your breasts together. Let him thrust his penis between them. He'll get off in no time, especially if you use a little bit of lube. Good luck!
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Develop gentle and sensitive fingers. This is a great chance to develop your sensuality. Kissing, touching, "fingering", these are all fabulous without the need to go all the way. One day you'll go all the way and probably find that a lot of the foreplay gets cut out after that. You'll miss it. Long live foreplay!
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reader, LittleHelper16 +, writes (18 November 2008):
 well fingering is kinda sex but whatever. ummm the only thing is maybe giving him a hand job or stripping for him and letting him touch but nothing further.... but it's really up to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): oral
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): You could toss him off?
Theres not a great deal to do, that I can think of, but a massage maybe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI only intend in having sex when I'm married (personal choice) and bf is ok with that. I just wanted to clarify that, I thought I had put that in main question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, we have previously seen each other before, but only for a short period of time. We had a heavy make-out session and he fingered me, but I was wondering if there was more he & I could do. Thanks alot 3
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