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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I pleasure him without having sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months. I wanna get him excited or pleasure but i dont wanna have sex, so is there any thing i could do?... (37 words)

He's keeping me a secret from his pregnant ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend found out his ex girlfriend was pregnant about 2 weeks ago, she is now 3 months along. It has been hard, but he wants to be with me and is going to have a baby with his ex. He won't tell her about me, he says he's afraid she will get pissed and refuse to let him ... (113 words)

Is it okay for a 13 year old to masturbate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - is it ok for a 13 year old to masturbate? ... (10 words)

What birth control makes your breasts grow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been on yasmin for about 9 months now and im still getting period pains so i friend who is a pharmacist recommended that i go on Diane, just wondering if anyone is on it does it make your breasts grow? And has Yasmin made anyones? i have had no growth on Yasmin.... (54 words)

Why is it so hard for parents to talk to their kids about sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - why is it so hard for parents to talk to us teenagers about sex? i just dont know why to some parents its so hard for them to tell us what sex is. i think that me at age 13 i should have been known this stuff from my mom but why do they insisted in not telling us?... (59 words)

Is it time I stopped going for bad boys and settle with a "perfect" guy (and do they exist)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't really a question, I just wanted to know what other people think. I'm 30 and came out of a long relationship last January. I suppose I have always been guys who have been a bit "bad" or guys that don't know what they want, commitment phobes etc. I have recently... (140 words)

Do my dreams mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello =) this is probably going to sound like a really lame problem... but i keep having dreams about this guy. its some one ive never met before, but its the same guy in every dream. the situation changes, but we're still always dating.. for example.. in one, we... (100 words)

Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have ... (281 words)

What is that maggoty smell down below!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

- Hi, I need a bit of help!! (it's a bit embarrassing though. I am very healthy, I have a shower every day but I have a maggoty smell down below any idea what it could be?? thank you in advance xx... (51 words)

Does she love me or is she just fooling me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl I love, but I don't know if she loves me. I told her I liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said no, that she was not ready to have a bf but that she would not forget me. She allows me to hold her hands, always looks at me in the eyes, smiles and ... (101 words)

When She Feels Like It

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, I am a young man and I am engaged to a woman who only wants to have sex when "she" wants to. I mean it's really frustrating and has become a burden and forcing me to consider calling off the wedding. We have had discussions about it and she has said things like "she has a ... (155 words)

Should I pursue it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of two years and I seperated in September mainly because the marriage was abusive, but also because he decided he was having a midlife crisis (at age 24!!) and couldn't decide if he wanted to be married any more. Since we have been apart, he is begging me to reconcil... (124 words)

Urgent help required..... difficult, awkward and unreasonable boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hello all - I am a 34 year old women who has had a somewhat difficult relationship with a guy who is having councelling due to his upbringing (unloving parents) and he can be most unreasonable, thinks he is never at fault, stubborn and never lets thing go. He has just moved ... (280 words)

Do you think I'm wrong in telling her not to come to the club on new years eve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if you guys can help me. I work in a busy nightclub in London's west end as a Bouncer. It's become a busy period now as christmas and new year is coming and I'll be working a lot over this period. I told my girlfriend that I can't spend new years eve with her as ... (145 words)

Long Distance Depression? Confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have a long distance Relationship. That was love at first sigh! Feelings i never had before and that on!, Now, We have 6 months of know, and 3 and a half living together, Now we are away of each other again. He loves me and is so nice with me, BUT i do... (198 words)

Should I phone him or let it go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf a few months ago and we remained good friends. The problem is that I still have feeling for him and I am finding it difficult to move on. I decided that cutting off all contact with him would be the best way to get over him and so far it seems go be ... (120 words)

Does going to the gym make sex better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Does going to the Gym help you when you want to have good sex?... (14 words)

I want to get a bikini wax, but I'm scared that I'll smell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A question for the girls, I am thinking of going for a bikini wax because I don't know what to do with it, but I think I smell, I was just wondering if you are suppose to have an odour, and I am a little worried in case I leak when they start waxing.... (54 words)

Is he interested or just friendly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the story. Met this guy at a live music venue, 5 weeks ago. I was with someone else but we managed a quick excited chat (I liked what I saw, he surely seemed like he liked what he's seen too). Had to go earlier but we exchanged a pat on the back and 'it was nice to meet ... (277 words)

Why do I feel heartbroken over a guy who I might have not even liked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused. A few weeks ago this guy told me he really liked me - like really liked me. I told him I didn't know what to say because I had just broken up with his best friend. I enjoyed flirting but I really don't know if I liked him or not. Now he likes someone, and if I ... (68 words)

Feeling the same? Do you think we have something here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i know this is a weird questions I went on a date with this guy ,in april and i felt we hit it off straight away, He finished with me,cus he still felt sumthing for his ex, Anyway last week we started talking again, and slept together twice, Im starting to feel the... (136 words)

I kissed a girl and I liked it. Was it cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?... (47 words)

Gay... or not gay... that is the question!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm starting to get confused about my sexuality. When I was 12, I started watching porn (straight) and I loved it, but as time went on, it stopped working for me. Now,I really enjoy watching gay porn and jerking off to it, but it scares me that I ... (182 words)

Men who lie about who they dated...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have just recently got out of a relationship with a guy in the USA. He happens to lie about who he dated. And even now it continues to mess with my head. For instance, I am a part-time model, nothing major, we happened to be browsing through another models portfolio and he ... (756 words)

Am I just being too anxious here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I have been dating this girl for a month now, we hang out a lot, and we have a great time together. We are at the point where we will greet each other with a kiss and leave with a kiss, we give each other massages and fool around a little bit, it's very nice. My concern ... (135 words)

Do I deserve payback for my past?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have married for 4 years as of this past sunday. During the first year do our relatonship I was very verbally and physically abusive and even went to jail for domestic violence. I had to take anger management courses and AA meeting (I had a drinking problem) and I also ... (361 words)

I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant but my result on boots pregnancy test came back a faint negative line. I'm not due till 4th December 08, did I do it too early, I have all the symptoms, bloated stomach, nausea, I have actually gone off cigarettes, first time ... (87 words)

How can I have a close relationship with people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! I always tend to expect too much from people i love and who might not even love me. I expect them to love me back the way i want to and it kills me when i get the feeling that they dont love me(not romantic relationship). It feels like i push them away by doing ... (82 words)

Could I go through the same problems as my mom did during pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll start by saying, I could be pregnant... Yet to find out but, any ideas or info you can give me is great. I don't like doctors much so I rarely go, I was just thinking when I was born mum and I both almost died, same with my older sister and mum's first miscarriage, all had ... (126 words)

Is this a good idea or is it a big NO NO?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - in reference to my post on http://www.dearcupid.org/question/rushed-into-bed-ont-he-first-date-and.html Well he is still kinda blunting me I don't know if he likes me giving him attention or is trying to avoid conversation with me, so I was thinking of sending him this... (100 words)

Is kissing considered cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?... (21 words)

How can he tell me he likes me then blank me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok guys, I need your help. The thing is, theres this guy I really really like. He told me he fancied me too a few weeks ago. He is this really confident guy as well. After he told me her fancied me we were really close and started talking more at school and flirting on msn and ... (130 words)

How long should I leave it before I message him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Please help im not sure what it means/am having trouble reading the signals. I went on a date on sat night with someone that i met online. The date seemed to go well, he said that he enjoyed it, walked me to the car and the end of the night and then grabbed me... (300 words)

Should I ask him out, enjoy it and most likley ruin the friendship...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a boy I like and I think he likes me but I'm not too sure whether to ask him out or not. I mean, my friend used to like him, so I told her how I felt, she was fine and then a couple of months later she went off him. He is also one of my friends ex's and I know that's ... (193 words)

What do call clean sex & dirty sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - In sex,what do call a clean sex and dirty sex?? Does blowjob/licking a girl's vagina important in sex? ... (27 words)

I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I don't trust him at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I dont trust him at all. I always feel like he his cheating on me. Is this just paranoia because he lied or is this my womans intuition.... (44 words)

What should my boyfriend be doing to help me here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, when we first started going out his friends would call me fat which I don't think I am not being big headed, it stopped after about three months and didn't start up again for ages except the odd little dig which everyone gets off ... (296 words)

How to control my jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year but for the last while I've been off with him like he does mess and I take it seriously, I take what he says when messing seriously and I now get jealous Very easily, stuff like that. He doesn't deserve it and I don't want to be ... (91 words)

Too much pre-cum !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having trouble with producing lots of pre-cum when I get really horny! I'm not ejaculating just getting really wet (my boxers look like snails have been racing around in them) Is this a medical problem? Is there anything I can do to stop it? Any help would be greatly... (60 words)

Is my ex upset that I got into another relationship so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We were very very much in love. None of us had ever been this in love before. There was a lot of physical attraction there. He was very romantic and did lots for me and vice versa. I thought we were going to get married. However we use... (347 words)

Going backwards.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I have always been a jealous person, and a person who doesn't trust easily. My boyfriend has always been someone who didn't want to go out and liked to stay indoors, but it seems now we are going backwards in our ... (143 words)

The day before I begin my period I have brown discharge... is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - the day before i begin my period i have brown discharge... is this normal?... (14 words)

Is it better to wait for pre-cum to appear before putting on the condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it better to wait for pre-cum to appear before putting on the condom? It takes me a long time to cum. Is this normal at my age?... (31 words)

My best friend likes the same boy as me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago half of our class went on a school trip to Germany. I got very close to one boy who I will call "bob" and I think I fancy him and I think he fancies me, we were flirting like crazy!. But my best friend fancys him as well, but she doesn't know I like him ... (134 words)

Why doesn't his ex leave me alone? You think he would go out with her again if we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well my question is.... me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 2 months now and his ex well shes always txting me saying i heard u and s****n broke up and well we havent!!she claims she doesnt lyke him nomore but she always bringin him up and i kno my boyfriend doesnt l... (210 words)

A little frustrated started thinking of others, does this mean I don't love my wife anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Not quite sure where to start. I'm a married man of just over a year. I love my wife but gradually I am finding we have sex less and less. Even when we do it is mostly planned and always unadventurous (spelling?) I find myself making up fantasies about other women (who... (94 words)

I feel like he is always playing this push away and then pull back game with me, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I am really confused and I am not sure if I should be hurt or not, move on or keep sticking it out. All this started about 7 months ago when I meet what I have to say is the perfect guy for me and everything I ever wanted. Problem from the being was he was 4 months out of ... (1081 words)

Should I date her? She is as shy as I am and have the worse friends in history, still I like her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Um, hey there. Recently there's this girl that I've developed a crush on. Well crush isn't really the best way to describe it. She's on my thoughts all of the time and I even dream about her. Unfortunately we have no classes together, and the only time we have is during l... (264 words)

Since the abortion everything is falling apart! What can I do to get us back to happiness again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, really need advice! please help me, especially females!! Me and my girlfriend were together for 3 years and she was the most amazing person i have ever met. the first 2years of our relationship were the best 2 years of my life. Then she got pregnant and wanted t... (278 words)

I feel like we are together for the past rather than for the future but can't bring me to break up, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14months.. and for the past few months it has been pretty rocky due to our exams.. for one we spend alot less time together and for two he gets really tempermental during. after the exams i thought we'd get time to fix ... (367 words)

Internet cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend of three and a half years has cheated on me over the internet before. Several times. I have asked that he absolutely not use Instant Messenger for that very reason. He promised that he wasn't using IM at all. Recently, I found out that he has a hidden profile on ... (91 words)

Does my fantasy seem normal? Anyone else fantasise about this or similar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22-year old male, and I often fantasize about having unprotected sex. I find the thought that there's a possibility of of fertilizing a woman with my seed and creating a new life inside her extremely arousing. Often when my ex-girlfriend and I had sex I'd secretly ... (155 words)

My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop, neither me or her want to stop and it's not like we have sex like crazy, it's just like once a week. Should we follow them? or continue to do it behind their backs? We both love our sex life.... (56 words)

Are secret phone calls from exes okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I just wondered what people's opinion was on a minor issue that has been bothering me. This is nothing big or dramatic, but it's the kind of thing that I know affects a lot of couples and I would value anyone's opinions or insight. I have a great relationsh... (1084 words)

Realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months, we try our best to be responsible and use condoms but occasionally in the heat of the moment we don't use one (but I always pull out and she's been fine).. Well the other night we wanted to have sex but we had used our last ... (203 words)

How often should I talk to her...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - We broke off because of her family problems but this girl wants to be my close friend. She wanted me to maintain close levels of contacts with her perhaps was insecure about losing that charm after the breakup. We have had a hard time over accepting each other as friends and ... (412 words)

Do I need to shave??????

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have a bit of a personal question.. I'm concerned about whether or not I'm supposed to shave my vaginal area? My bf and I have been getting close, and he's tried several times to put his hand down/take off my pants and I haven't let him because I'm worried that he'll ... (246 words)

Is it possible something more happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a month and I know that isn't long but I really love her. She kissed her ex and on another day he showed himself to her (down below) now I'm wary that more happened, I mean I do have trust issues anyway through past relationships but I ... (106 words)

I feel rejected even although we live in the same house...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age - I have a loving husband but whenever we get into an argument he raises his voice, verbally abuses me and then it's the silent treatment but he acts as if nothing has happened. I feel very rejected as we live in the same house and we just pass each other without a glimpse. I ... (73 words)

Is it just sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Ok I am 18 years old and I am at college right now. I stay in the dorms. Before I went to college, I wasn't a virgin. The only person I ever had sex with was my ex-boyfriend of 2 and a half years. He and I waited 2 years before we had sex. Anyways, I get to college and I... (628 words)

What is causing my husband's weird behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age - Hi there, I would be grateful if any of the Aunts and Uncles could let me know what they think about this kind of behaviour. I have been married for 15 years and about 12 years into the marriage my husband started doing things which I can only class as weird. Here are some ... (231 words)

Seems he prefers his friends instead of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We were engaged, but I broke it off when he started another job and started to drink with the people from work till all hours of the morning. We got back together three weeks later, after he promised that he is not going ou... (120 words)

Why does he never bring his kids round to our house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Question; I have recently moved in with my boyfriend, we have been together for 10 months prior to this. I have one child who is 3 and he has two children, one is seven and one is 3 (2 weeks younger than my little one.) We have his children at weekends and he visits his twice... (293 words)

Does anyone believe in the magic of true love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really good friend who I have been friends with for three years. We have hooked up a few times and hang out with the same people. He has told me he cares about me and loves being around me. He is also playing the hot and cold game with me. But when I am working on ... (138 words)

I don't want to make a mistake by leaving my fiance, but I have feelings for another man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years. We have been engaged now for 6 months and wedding is 3 months away. Just a couple of weeks ago I started getting feelings about the wedding and about another man. I can't get this other guy out of my head. Now I don't know if my ... (103 words)

Dating someone... but falling for someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!!! (Extremely long) I've gotten myself between a rock n a hard place here ppls. I've been with my g/f for over 9mts now. it has been graet except for the past 7 weeks or so. it's like just lately she gets on my nerves constantly. i honestly do not kno why. i do love h... (712 words)

Does having sex in a car mean the couple is desperate for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is having oral sex/having sex/making out in a car seems that the couple is desperate for sex?? how many times per week (having sex) is healthy for a relationship?... (29 words)

Is there any reason to refuse sex with the one you love? Does this mean she is cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, How would you know if a girl is cheating on you?? What are the signs?? Do girls have times where they are not in the mood for sex?? I would say there's no reason for you to say no to sex when you do it with loved one?? am i right? correct me if im wrong..... (63 words)

Why won't he respond to any of my voicemails or text messages?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Thanks for taking time to read my situation. My boy-friend and I have been dating for 7 months. He hates all my friends, except for about 1 or 2. I was at one of my friends' house earlier today and my boy-friend had called me from work. He asked me what I ... (433 words)

I have so many problems. What should I think? Is this happening for a reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) age 41-50 - What are the most serious problems you got? I feel I have way too many problems, and I wonder if it s normal, to have so many problems, and pain. I wonder what are your, most painful events, in your life? My problems are , lost my house, my parents abused me, my marriage... (106 words)

How can I handle my feelings and save my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) age - I have a big problem doing the right thing. I really want to stay in my marriage, but I don't have good hope in this moment. I get so angry at my husband, that I feel like running away,but I know it would be bad, and nothing would get resolved. I'm not trying to be irrespo... (126 words)

Why does he avoid me?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the same guy who obviously likes me is avoiding me!I seen him sitting with his friends and we spoke.but later when I saw him he purposely went in the opposite direction of me.the thing is I no he likes me but keeps avoiding.like one day he'll walk me to class and then I ... (88 words)

Will I ever get friends like that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't have the friends i want to have. my brother has had friends for over ten years or longer. he is so tight with them! i was wondering why i don't have friends like that? will i ever get friends like that?... (43 words)

Is he trying to get back at me by abstaining from sex?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this may be a little long but I want you to understand where I'm coming from. My boyfriend's birthday is in 2 weeks. It will be the second birthday I've been with him and I want to do something nice. Last year I bought a nice panty set as a little treat for him as well ... (384 words)

I climax too fast, even in case of a slow intercourse, what can I do to change this?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Me and my husband have been married for four months. I've always/usually have came faster than him, but I was on Lexapro for a time, and it took me longer times to cum, compared to what it used to take me. Now when we have sex, I cum really fast. He wasn't even all the way ... (194 words)

I want to stand up for him but I'm worried I might get bullied too.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

26 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My friends and other classmates pick on this (cute) new boy. He has trouble making friends and he is very shy so that makes him a easy target. Almost everyone in my grade say hes a loser. The girls once put a note with (she knows that he has a crush on her) my friend's name... (146 words)

My boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and I can't even be mad at him!

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and then he comes to me like nothing is wrong and i try to be mad at him but i can't and i want to break up with him but i cant i love him way too much to do that i need help ... (53 words)

I like her a lot, but so does my best friend...

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26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well i really like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me.The problem is that my best friend has liked her since the beginning of this year and i dont know what to do. I need tips on how to get her to notice me so we can get together. P.S i dont have a phone so... (67 words)

I accidently dropped my towel and she took a picture with her phone!

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26 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi aunty,I am a 30 year old guy,stay alone now.. earlier my parents used to stay with me, but now they are gone on vacation and will return after 3-4 months.. recently I was having a bath, at that time my door bell rang, so I went to check, as I forgot my house door was open ... (196 words)

Is our relationship healthy?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well I'm 14 turning 15 on January 3rd...my bf is 15 turning 16 on December 2nd...we have been going out for about a year and three months now since August 28,2007 but i want to know if I'm in a healthy relationship...i mean he loves me for who i am and everything. he is li... (156 words)

If I meant so much to him, why did he leave?

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26 November 2008 (F) - I am feeling terrible right now, possibly the worst I have ever felt. I am 27. I was going out with an amazing guy and he planned to go travelling before we got it together.I guess we were together about 6 mths but it was the best relationship I have had even tho not the... (349 words)

If he liked me enough, he would've called right?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for about 3 years now but we're not great friends or anything (we used to stay in the same apartment block and our friends know each other). If anything i have a small crush on him but he always plays coy and we have never been able to meet up alone as one ... (186 words)

We were BFF's in 4th grade and now 4 years later I miss his friendship.

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i know im supposed to be too young for this (im 13) but im in love! hes this guy i used to be best friends with, in grade 4 (i didn't like him then) because i was popular then and so was he but i didn't like being popular so i stopped and the only thing i've ever missed was ... (183 words)

Where do I start with finding a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i haven't been with a women for about 5 years and want to get back in the dating scene. with my ex-girlfriends, i met them through friends. but how do i find a female these days without going to find them in nightclubs? for me, it's hard to find a female who is a straight ... (84 words)

How do you know what you've ruined a friendship?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you "know" when you have ruined a friendship? I have a best friend that I care about so much that he means the sun and moon to be, but recently I said some things to him that were rash, impulsive, and selfish, and I know that I hurt him. I regret it so much. He say... (156 words)

He didn't show respect or consideration for me, what can I do?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age - my partner lied to my about going to his stepsons birthday dinner. I found out and his reason was that he didnt know what to do so he chose to lie to me. Now he lives with me and my dauta, and we both agreed that as they'll be times when we both have to have contact with our ... (199 words)

How can I find out if he loves me too?

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i really love one of my best friends and i told him i like him but i didn't tell him i love him. I am at the stage where i can't stand to be away from him for more than a few days. I really want to date him but i am not good enough for him. i get really jealous of my friends ... (207 words)

Porn and texting girls while I'm pregnant... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just recently found out that my boyfriend of 2 n a half yrs with 2 kids has been downloading porn videos n texting girl 78888 etc numbers. I was pregnant at the time. Its constantly on my mind n upsets me. what shall i do? Please help.x... (49 words)

He gets mad very easily and makes up all these 'rules'!

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26 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys im 16 years old. i been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now. Like every other couple we fight all the time over stupid things. Hes some one who needs attention 24/7. I am also not PDA and he gets mad about that. He basically gets mad very easily. anyways i need ... (96 words)

I feel awful for having retaliated at my violent girlfriend!

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26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Ok here goes my girl is violent she attacks me and pushes me and even pullled a knife on me once this has been going on for at least 8 months and tonight she attacked me. she slapped me at least 4 times and started pushing me and throwing things at me and for the f... (198 words)

Why did he react this way when I asked about his children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I guy I´ve emailing quite long time now after we met in person 2 years back, I called him to say Hi since we are long distance and holidays are coming. I always knew he has 3 kids but I never knew much about them, or how old they are. So, I asked him how many kids he has... (253 words)

I'm feeling isolated and useless! I'm in the army, far from my very pregnant partner!

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26 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone sorry for any spelling that may occor in this. first of all i think i need to explain my postision. i am a young man in the british army based in england and have a 8 mounth 3 weeks pregnant partner back home living with my parents as she fosters (big house ... (209 words)

I love this girl... she says she loves me also, but she has a boyfriend who she has been with for nearly 2 years and won't decide immediately who she wants to be with. What should I do?

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26 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this girl after I met her about 4 months ago. I got her number and we started texting. She said that she had just split up with her boyfriend of 1 and a half years and was really down in the dumps. I asked if she wanted to meet up to have a laugh and get her ... (732 words)

Am I overreacting for feeling violated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

26 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - All right so I'm really upset, so please take into account that I can't really think straight right now. here goes... My ex and I recently got back together after a 3 month split. We decided we would keep it between us for a while until we can work things out so none of our f... (870 words)