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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a great guy, and we have not really hit problems until these past few weeks. We have had a rough fall and I am going through some issues with school. We are an hour apart, but we see each other about every week and a half. The distance is not really an issue.I tend to worry a lot, which makes me second guess my insecurities about the relationship. Lately, I find myself wondering if we are really in love or stay together for comfort. When I'm with him, I feel so in love. He does everything right and makes me really happy, and has always been there for me. Our relationship is definitely changing, and this has been something we both want and we talk about. However, lately I'm comparing our relationship to other relationships, I wonder if we are outgrowing eachother, and I simply just do not know what to do. I'm having trouble dealing with changes at school, and I feel like I blame my problems on our relationship.He is so patient, but I can't stop worrying the relationship. I second guess whether I am really happy, whether we are in love, and whether we should stay together- no matter how happy he makes me one night, the next morning I feel the same way. This has been going on for a few weeks and we have talked about it, but I feel so guilty about taking a long time to be positive again. He is my first love and I don't want to lose him. He's my best friend. I'm scared to make changes at school because I don't want to lose our relationship. I was wondering if it's possible to lose this negative pattern of thinking, because I want to give this a good and honest chance- not a chance where I am consistently negative.
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