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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Since he's given up porn he's given up giving me orgasms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - the last few times i've had sex with my boyfriend (i have initiated it) i have felt objectified. one of those times we were engaged in mutual oral sex. when he came, i was close, but he stopped cunnilingus and penetrated me (even though he was going soft). afterwards i asked ... (269 words)

Ladies, would you be ok with "showing a guy the ropes" if its his first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Experience over viridity? I am a very unsure of what is expected of me, in terms of sex, by females. I was brought up with the idea that when you have sex, it should be with someone whom you love, or at the very least, like quite a lot, but am beginning to question my mora... (373 words)

We've been having an afair for 12 years and now he is gone. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) age - well here goes i am new on here. I had in affair for 12 years im married he has a live in girlfriend with the same woman for 12 years. the affair came so stressful i did everything i could to hold on to him. Well he started to make up excuses with me not seeing me as much. ... (205 words)

Help getting over a break up - he's gone back to his wife and I'm so so sad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age - My lover of 3 years went back to his wife. It has been about 8 days now since i have talked to him. I am devastated. Today is my birthday. I am trying to be happy. At least once a day I break down and ichat with him for a bit. He is sad too, but has made his decision. I just ... (107 words)

He's always there at parties and so I feel I can't go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am looking for advice on what to do with my current situation. My ex and I broke up over year ago after a 3 year relationship. I was completely heartbroken but i accepted his decision. I had to cut all contact from him in order to get over him,and this took a few ... (810 words)

Please explain to me if I experienced female ejaculation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound weird but when my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral i squirt, but i don't fully orgasm. It's like it feels so good and i just release. The other day i orgasmed and it was really amazing and when i came the same stuff was coming out of me. Can anyone explain ... (75 words)

Can anyone do our business research for us? We need advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so i have a college mate we are both pretty good mates now although not known each other over a year but we are doing the same course and classes in college and he asks me over an online messenger. "after college would you like to start a businis together?" i agreed... (136 words)

Out of control son! How can we change him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age - Dear helpers, I hope you can send me your thoughts because I'm running out of ideas here. I have a son in his twenties, since he was a baby he's always been very bad tempered, he always complains about everything: the food, the decisions we take and we've caught him steali... (266 words)

I can't go on not being listened to, but at the same time - I love her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 36 years old and have been married for a little over a year. I give my wife everything she wants, no matter how big or small no matter the cost. It seems as though what i want does not matter, and whenever i want something she makes me feel as though my request is ... (165 words)

Why does my cum numb my partner's penis??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please tell me you might know the answer to my question, I am a healthy female no medical issues, but my boyfriend states that after i get off really hard during foreplay, that when we go to have sex after a few minutes his penis goes numb. Why is that? ... (54 words)

Car problems may cause marriage problems, can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age - My car has broken down. Correction, our only car has broken down. I don't have the money to put it in the garage to have it fixed. My husband has changed engines before, renewed the gearing mechanism, etc. This time, he has charged the battery (run down by the RAC man) and... (184 words)

I love my husband, but since having our children, I've lost my sex drive. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 yr old mother of 2 awesome boys (5 and 2). Since having my kids i have lost my sex drive. This problem is ruining my life and my 8 yr relationship with my husband. I feel really bad because he thinks that i do not love him or am not attracted to him and that is far ... (96 words)

He can no longer cum through just vaginal intercourse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a boyfriend for about 6 months and he can no longer come through vaginal intercourse. When we first started having intercourse he would come every time, but now he only comes through oral sex. I'm glad I can still make him cum at least.. but sex would be more ... (68 words)

She says she feels controlled by me... do you blame me for feeling the way I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How to deal with a girlfriend that has feelings of being controlled, but upsets her boyfriend by having what appears to be flirty or inappropriate relationships with previous sexual partners or new male co-workers. Also when asked to refrain from these actions she confides in ... (59 words)

Dear Cupid I need help badly..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas, I don't know if I should... (107 words)

She told me she was falling for me too... then she changed her mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's the story! I've been in love with this girl for 3 years and until recently was too scared to tell her how I felt. Since I told her, things have been realy weird between us and last Friday she told me she was falling for me too, I was really happy for about 6 hours until ... (88 words)

Deeper then deep friendship with gay friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ok quite long story here basically I have an incredible feeling like I’m in love but I’m not sure I am? I know I love my best friend in the normal way who is male, however inside I think we both know it goes much deeper, I have always been friends with gay guys I’m very co... (482 words)

I want to be involved here too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I've been with my boyfriend who I love dearly 4 about a years now. Before we lived together he got a girl pregnant. I knew about this and he said we would deal with this when the baby is born. Well the baby came and he told me they were going for dinner. I've ... (198 words)

I just wish she would be a part of our family again and work with us rather than against us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is she so selfish? One of my family members keeps going on about how old she is and it's not cool to spend time with her brother, all she does is cause arguments between my family and her boyfriend. She is so selfish she orders people about and she has this new found ... (159 words)

Help - my older step brother wants to have sex with me!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15, umm last night I was looking after my little brother and my younger sister who were both upstairs sleeping. I came downstairs to wait until my dad and step mum got home and my older brother (17) was watching tv so I decided to watch it with him and then he came ... (257 words)

What do I do and how do stop behaving like some clinging, needy female.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. I have met a man I have fallen for in a big way. It started as an affair, yes he's married. I don't think I'm a fling, my gut feeling tells me that. He tells me he is deeply unhappy, they don't sleep together, she has no interest in him in that way, I know that ... (256 words)

I'm terrified he won't like me once I get my braces fitted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf for about 9 months and I'm getting braces soon, I wonder if they will make him fall out of love with me after I get my braces on? He is in a different grade level he will be going to college in a year. I fear that he will go behind my back once his in c... (95 words)

I think about having anal sex all the time, should I try it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) age - Dear Cupid, I think about having anal sex all the time do you think I SHOULD go ahead and have it off with someone? I would like to experence what it's like. ... (34 words)

Can a Straight guy have interest in kissing/making out with other guys??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a little question that im interested in peoples' opinions on - ESPECIALLY MEN. Okay, can a straight guy be interested in kissing/making out with another guy? I personally think that no straight guy can have interest in doing that, but then I've met men who supposedly... (75 words)

I don't know what I can get her for her birthday - since she lives thousands of miles away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question - slightly irrelevant to the norm on this site - but I have an internet penpal with someone from America, and I have no idea what to get her for her birthday. Shes 14; I don't really know what I can do for her birthday or anything like that. Sending an... (87 words)

I feel like I have no friends since I moved schools.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I just moved schools. I thought I hade some good mates at my old school but no one really has got in touch with me since I moved schools (3 months ago)and I can't get in touch with them as it would be out the blue and awkward. Can't explain why, it just would. A lot o... (141 words)

Any advice on what I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this guy for two months and then we broke up. He said it was because it was hard staying together when he was in one town and Ii was in another.(He lived in the same town as me when we first got together then 3 weeks later he moved 2 a neighbouring town). Now ... (149 words)

It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came right down and she wasn't ... (89 words)

Any males out there, who can tell me what this man is about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in the beginning of September and we exchanged numbers. We kind of texted each other a little back and forth throughout the month. He mentioned to me that he wasn't looking for a relationship. In October I went over to his house twice. The first time we spent the ... (273 words)

My boyfriend and I are having some sex problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are having sex problems. When we have sex he tends not to get a "boner" and when he sticks it in it just falls out and its both frustrating for me and him because it just happens over and over till i get tired of it and we stop. Neither him or i get please, ... (116 words)

I want to make this guy fall for me, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i make this guy i have a very little crush on fall for me??? he always teases me but those days he pushed the limit. he makes so much fun of me. i attract alot of guys but he takes the worst thing about my looks and uses it to make fun. i dont know if he likes me or n... (116 words)

How can I make this girl, who turned my friends against me jealous, in a positive way? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - this girl i know made all my friends agaisnt me. well she was my bestfriend. we got into a fight and now she went to everyone one of my friends and told them things that she said about them bu insteas acused it all on me. i know im innocent but what kills me is that she is the ... (110 words)

How do I stop calling my girlfriend by my ex's name, they sound similiar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I called my girlfriend (for a year) my exes name (they name sound very alike) while making love a few times. She gets upset every time when this happen cause she thinks im still thinking about her sexually (which I don't). We manage to patch things after I give her 2 or 3 days ... (85 words)

A guy in my class has a crush on me, but is very shy, how do I make him comfortable enough to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a cute boy in my grade , and he has a crush on me. But, he blushes whenever he sees me. How do I get him to atleast say hi?????? ... (32 words)

I am interested in on-line dating, but as charming as I try to be, they always disappear, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a single man who is kind, has a good sense of humour, good hygiene, takes care of himself and his dates and generally behave in the presence of women and give them all the attention and respect they need. For some to me unknown reason, it doesn't work! My dates keep en... (135 words)

I have helped this guy with his homework, but he is verbally abusive, why is he this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy in my class; I don't know why he hates me ; I'm the only one in class he's mean to. I help him alot in homework even the subjects that I don't have with him. I help him even I'm really busy with my own homework. Nevertheless, when I ask him for him, he shows he's ... (223 words)

He's creative and good hearted but slow, should I endure or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a simple and sweet guy with a beautiful heart. We've been dating a few months and up 'til now have had a great time together and shown each other a lot of love. We're goofy together and laugh a lot -- in some ways he's got a child-like and innocent outlook ... (229 words)

I gave in to his advances while I was under the influence and now I feel really bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I did something really awful the other night. And I know as people are going to be reading this they are going to be thinking I made my own bed so I should lie in it and that I've done a really bad thing, but trust me I know. I know what I've done is wrong and I'm angry ... (776 words)

I'm falling hard for her!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well, I met this girl 3 years ago as we worked together and we got on like a house on fire, flirted all the time but neither of us brought our selves to ask the other one out. but 5 weeks ago through a friend we met up for drinks and had a right laugh but as soon as our frie... (381 words)

He NEVER has his cell phone out of his hands and I'm getting fed up with it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend now for about 1.5 years, and things were very rocky in the beginning. He is always texting on his phone. He becomes very annoyed if I always ask him who is talking to. It started off when I learned he was getting nude photos off some girl he was... (324 words)

I don't want to labeled as some 'sex freak.' Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is a bit um... interesting. Here we go: I dated this girl for a very short time (I think it was about two weeks). We broke up because a. We weren't really meshing, and b. She was pressuring me to go too far too fast. The problem was, she dumped me. I had given ... (283 words)

AmIi weird and silly being too available for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

Best aftershaves and perfumes???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, quick question. Girls, which (if any) (fairly cheap) colognes do you like the best? Guys, what do you think is best? I know it's not going to suddenly make all the girls in my school attracted to me, but I like to smell good. It creates a good subconscious reaction to me ... (67 words)

Whats going on here?

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16 November 2008 (M)

age - My marriage is failing, my wife has caused some serious issues with cheating many times. I tried to help her. I changed my behavior, things she said were causes for her infidelity. I stopped drinking, smoking and was here for her all the time. It didn't seem to help her ... (267 words)

Did I ruin it for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am extremely confused.. My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dating for over 3 years and are both in our third years of college, but go to different colleges miles away. I visit her almost every 2 weeks, but while I'm ... (1472 words)

Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a guy that would make you feel good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I like this girl, blah blah blah, you've heard it before. I'm hanging out w/her as much as I can without seeming too clingy, but the problem is, is that most of our time is silent. Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a guy (they could be normal, or ... (114 words)

He's going to jail for 3 months. Should I wait for him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we care about each other a lot. But he is going to go to jail for about 3 months and he wants me to wait for him. I want to wait for him but I'm afraid I might get over him just like I got over my ex that went off... (131 words)

I'm happy without a boyfriend, so why is it always on my mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, basically, I'm EXTREMELY confused with myself. Honestly, I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend. Usually I am happy with this, I really don't care whether I have a boyfriend, and can be happy without one. I have my GCSEs coming up, and would rather focu... (438 words)

What makes a guy attractive?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I was just wondering what ... (56 words)

Could I have caught something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I asked a similiar question last week but am still confused. I had anal sex a few weeks ago and the morning after I had normal sex with my guy, both times we didn't use a condom. Could I have caught something still despite ass to pussy sex being a few hours apart? Thanx for ... (60 words)

I want to dress up sexy for my boyfriend... WHERE to get the clothes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a big girl and my boyfriend loves my curves and has asked me to dress up sexy in stockings and a basque and I'm worried as soon as I walk into a shop that sells them, people are thinking ew look at her trying to be sexy, and I get this feeling every time that I walk into ... (169 words)

How to break the attraction with my boss friend at work cautiously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - (Is he trying to turn my head or is he serious? and Is it possible to love someone when you are married? Is the background and past posts to this post. Thanks for answering! I saw him yesterday and immediately he wanted one of our 'hugs', I gave it to him shyly. Then for... (312 words)

Ashamed of my appearance

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help - due to a irrational fear of dentist when I was younger, I did not get the neccessary dential work I needed to correct the over crowding with my teeth which has resulted in vampire looking teeth. I am now ready to correct the problem but have been told that braces ... (247 words)

My best friend and my girlfriend are getting to close to each other..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My english is bad but i hope you can understand the thing..i have the same problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they dont have nothing right now but theyt are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think im the bad ... (138 words)

What to do about my mascara? My eyelashes seem clogged up.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello ok this is a make-up question for the girls. i apply mascara everyday and stuff, but recently my eyelashes are clogged up and my think comb mascara brush wont go through them! please help! what should i do? X... (43 words)

He broke up with me for this other girl but we have met twice for sex and I can't forget him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im having real big trouble getting over my ex, we are still friends and talk everyday, we've even met up to have sex twice(I KNOW ITS WRONG)he then goes and says to me that you have to move on, the think is hes always the one who rings me first telling me problams with his ... (122 words)

How do you have sex against a wall? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heeyy... This is an embarressin q bt any tips 4 girls about sex against the wall?? Thanx xxxx... (21 words)

I dumped my army guy for him, If I lose him I lose my music too!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I fell into being involved a year ago with a good friend / band member. We were terrifically happy with one issue - I was still attached to a guy who had been deployed. I told my friend that leaving the other guy would be the hardest decision of my life. I was depressed over it ... (477 words)

I got emontional after my best friend came out as gay! Is that normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - a few days ago one of my best friends told me he was gay witch came as a kind of half suprice to me. he played the part but you whould never knoe if he was for reel or just having you on i acted cool and told him that thats fine and what ever his choices il stand by him ... (113 words)

My ex is still calling but won't get back together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex was together for 6 years i'm still madly in love i messed over her thru those years but we only 22 we was 16 when we got together i'm changed i told her this cried and all that and she want take me back she gotta new boyfriend they wasn't having sex at first now ... (107 words)

Should I forget my first love who gave me drugs, and go the the perfect guy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so we have a friend of the family and since forever iv always had a crush on him when we meet up id get all exited and not sleep the night before. the problem was he live miles away and so i only ever saw him 2-3 times a year witch was a problem coz it whould always be... (375 words)

He says he doesn't believe in love but still kisses me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he has been hurt before and now he doesn't want a serious relationship,we kiss each other everytime we're togther,how can i make him get into a serious relationship?he says he really likes me but doesn't believe in love..is there a chance i might change him?... (45 words)

Friend Zone vs relationship coming out of 'friendship'....????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I still don't really understand the difference between the dreaded 'friend zone' and a relationship that develops from friendship into something more. What exactly makes this happen? The 'friend zone' means, to me, that if one of the two involved was to say "i have feelings... (131 words)

Does a guy get disgusted when you lose your virginity and bleed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 16 and although i really want to have sex, and i think i'm ready for it i have one problem. I'm not afraid that i'm going to bleed or that it will hurt, but i'm scared and embarassed that my boyfriend will be disgusted if i bleed. Any advice?... (54 words)

He's working too many hours - should I find someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HOw do you deal with being in a relationship where you don't see eachother very much? My boyfriend works ar night and on top of that he has other commitments. We do love andmiss eachother but there is nothing we can do now about this lack of time together.I love him but I have ... (175 words)

Teen needs help to flirt by text.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what are cute or flirty thigns to say to a guy in a text message that lets him know your interested in him but won't come on too strong ???... (30 words)

Ladies - if you fancy a guy do you talk to him loads or find yourself tongue-tied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'll keep this brief since there are far more important and interesting questions on this web-site for you to focus on, but I was just wondering that if a woman fancies a guy then generally speaking does she A) talk to him much more than 'usual' or B) come over all shy ... (79 words)

I need some peace and quiet! How can I get it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When my mom talks its like nails on a chalkboard.Her voice is irritating and sometimes shell just talk when Im trying to concentrate.I try asking her to stop talking because Im trying to think,but that doesnt work,so Ill tell her to shut up which makes it wors.Id really just ... (94 words)

He doesn't want to plan a future for us... so should I stay with him until who-knows-when, with this uncertainty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm an emotional wreck right now. I'm crying as I type this...My boyfriend of 4 years is such a sweet guy. He's good to me and I doubt I'll ever find another better than him (personality, senstiveness, sense of humor, conversation). He's my first love, first everything but ... (428 words)

My husband and I are only good friends, and I like this client at work. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a dilemma. I am a 40 year old woman and I have been married for 5 years. I met my husband at a low point in both our lives, and I'm afraid we married for the wrong reasons. There really is not much love there, and we barely are intimate, though we are good friends. ... (402 words)

So please tell me what "good luv'n" means to u?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I guess another reason I'm slightly confused is b/c I asked him even in the beginning what it is that he wants out of this and he told me 2 get 2 know me 4 me, so I stressed 2 him if this is about sex only then make it clear. (I can prepare my self) so I asked him that ... (114 words)

When he goes to college we'll have an "open relationship" and I'm not crazy about it.

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and he says that once he goes off to college (in about nine months), he wants an open relationship. I am definitely not for that but he told me that he wants to make sure I am the one for him or not. He wants to meet other ... (329 words)

How do I get over this if he's my best friend?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my Best Guy friend last night That I've had feelings for him. Even though I know he didnt feel the same. He played me along the past year because he wanted me to be his best friend with benefits.. we stopped doing that.. but he was the first boy, so it made my emotions ... (156 words)

Co-worker crush - does he like me, or am I just being too anxious??

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - CoWorker Crush - Does he like me? Need some advice if my co-worker likes me or not... We work in different departments, but we work on some projects together. When I met him, immediately I thought he was cute and developed a little crush. Since we work on some projects to... (323 words)

IsIs having an urge to sleep around grounds for breaking a 4+ year relationship?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - can i trust him? and is there any hope for recovery? background: i was with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. the first 2 years i was a bit iffy about the relationship (i've always had a hard time committing - i've never cheated, but i always wonder if this is the right person... (1101 words)

I want to believe my bf loves me, but I feel like he has a weird relationship with this guy!

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. He has a friend that he has known since early adolescence. I have had the distinct pleasure of spending time with the two of them together at numerous social occasions. I think his friend might be gay--he has exhibited ... (217 words)

I just don't get why he would say it if he didn't mean it!

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the other day my crush and I were talkin and I said that love is a very strong wrong. he then agreed and said that he loved me and my friend (we were all talking). they way he said it was awkward because he started scratching his neck and looking the other way while ... (85 words)

I'm a player, but for the first time I really like a guy and he has a pregnant GF.

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a one night stand with this guy at a party i just had way to much to drink at. i don't remember it at all and neither does he. i was humiliated the next morning seeing as i couldn't remember his name. he took me for coffee and we talked. i didn't want his number or ... (980 words)

Should I take an antibiotic to treat or help my unknown infection?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have went to the doctor and i was diagnosed with a urinary tract infection. I had to take two pills a day for three days. I had to take six pills in total.But after I was through with the pills my stomach started hurting. During the time I was taking my pills I had a brown ... (184 words)

Should I discuss/consider asking her for a divorce?

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - First, Thank you in advance for your time an advice. I will try to provide as much background and relevant info as possible. - I was divorced from first wife after being together about 18 yrs (13 yrs married with two kids, now 15 and 11) - met current wife after she contac... (525 words)

I could have sex every day while he only wants it once a week at the max!

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16 November 2008 (M)

- I am having HUGE relationship problems with my boyfriend of four years. I could have sex every day while he only wants it once a week at the max. I have tried everything I and others can think of to make him more interested but it seems it is impossible. He only wants it that ... (222 words)

I had to shave my legs before we... you know. Is this a turn off to guys?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - So ive gone out tonight for a drink, expecting it to just be a drink in the local pub as usual I normally go to. Didn't shave my legs! Ended up going home with a guy, have known him a while, we both like being single. But we had a good giggle. But have a mutual attraction. It ... (157 words)

Is there anyone else who has a thing for tights?

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have this thing for things that are skin tight like rubber gloves and tights, about a month ago i bought a pair of tights and whenever my parents are out i wear them, is there anyone else like me?... (40 words)

I'm only 13 and nervous about having sex - I don't want babies!

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im ready to have sex, but i dnt kno yet because babys cuz along wit it, but my boyfriend is waiting on me. so wat should i do im only 13?... (33 words)

I can't ask her to be my gf because she's skinny and I'm fat.

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if I can ask her to be my girlfriend. I can't tell my mom and dad, because they would just say "my baby is in love." I try to ask her out on Fridays, but I'm just too nervous. I mean she's skinny and I'm fat, so I don't think it ... (65 words)

18 years of abuse... is this mental cruelty?

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife had an affair. she will not admit to this. she told me that she will not explain things that have happened. she tells my children i am ill mentally. my son and her stole my dna test results, she got me to the doctors and had me put on pills. all she says to me is u need ... (165 words)

Tell me if I have something with the teacher who isn't allowed to talk to me anymore...

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and I'm a junior in high school. In freshman year, my history teacher was pregnant so from March to June, we had a substitute teacher. When i first saw him, i didn't think much of him, but i knew there was something different about him. However, i learned he ... (298 words)

How do you know if you are really in love?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u know if u are really in love??... (10 words)

I can't talk to girls...

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey really dumb question but I need help, I can't talk to girls, I work in a bar for wedding party's and I'm only 16 but I always see a girl that looks really wow, I go to talk to her but I just don't know what to do and forget it, any help with what I can/should do or say? ... (61 words)

Confused and wondering what is next!

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old guy who has been in a steady relationship for 3 years with a woman who has a young daughter. I have grown close to her and especially the daughter.. The father is not involved in her life at all and never has been so she sees me as her dad. We have had ... (471 words)

Why won't they let me just live my own life?

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16 November 2008 (F)

- I'm 20 and a Muslim and come from a traditional family. I don't talk to my dad even though we live in the same house and don't have a good relationship with my mum. In our culture, the family name comes first so you shouldn't do anything that brings shame. I've had a tro... (349 words)

Dealing with the aftermath of liars!

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am feeling pretty raw right now, so my question may be a bit jumbled. I am 36 my now ex partner is 33, tonight I found her cheating with a so called friend (44) - I was desperately in love with the girl, Felt more for her then I did for the woman I was married to. ... (258 words)

Is my ex messing with my heart or does he really love me?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age - My ex and I lived together for 7 years and loved each other for the last 15 years. We have 2 children together and I was his first and only love. He is 38 years old. We split due to differences and his insecurities over my ex husband. We tried again last year, but we still had ... (1452 words)

Do guys like a girl thats into cars and video games?

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16 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Do guys like a girl thats into video games, and fixing up cars? I'm curious cuz I'm into cars and video games. I've been helping my dad fix the 68Galaxiy. Also doing co-op with him on new games. Answers from anyone would be nice.... (44 words)

Why is it that most of my boy friends like me?

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16 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Why is it, that most of my boy friends like me? I'm not sure what it is about me. Even though some have a girlfriend, they still tell me that they like me. I'm not a flirty girl, I don't try to impress anyone. I'm told I have a sexy voice though, and then they think I'm really ... (71 words)

What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?... (11 words)

Is it normal to enjoy giving BJ?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it weird to enjoy giving head? my boyfriend says its strange for a girl to enjoy giving a blowjob, but i really do, although i hate the taste when he cums, i love actually doin it.. is it normal? ... (40 words)

Caught my daughter masterbating

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?... (29 words)

Does a player/cheater like some girls more than others?

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a cheater/player like one girl more than another? This player I know had a brief 'relationship' another girl. He recently sent her some presents, texted all the time, planned to spend time at christmas with her and fly to see her on his spring break. That sounds like... (165 words)

Why do men cheat? I am so disgusted with my boyfriend!

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do men cheat? my boyfriend of 5 years has cheated on me... I have tried to forgive him and move forward but its hard... instead of talking about my feelings to him I just bottle them up... it is so difficult... I kiss him and I think of her we have sex I think of her... ... (134 words)

He's loving when we are alone and ignores me when we are with his family

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I'm in love, what about him? He don't talk to me when his family is around. Walks away when I come near him. Hardly txt's me. Cut our convo short. Don't tell when he is in trouble. don't talk to me about his life but when its just the two of us He looks at me right in t... (169 words)

A survey on family household stuff...for school, and I need your answers.

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16 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I'm doing a survey in school + need as many people as possible to take part, it's okay if it's not allowed to be asked on here.. but if it is, could you please answer these questions with who you think should do these things? m = man, w = woman, b = both wash up..... (100 words)

After we broke up she hooked up. She told me it never happened, but it did. How do I look her in the eye?

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16 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry for bringing this up again on here but.. Broke up with my girlfriend of over a year two months ago because she 'fell in love with somone else' and was cheating on me. Earlier this week I find out that after we broke up, she began hooking up with somone else, not the or... (444 words)