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Is there anything I can do to calm down?

Tagged as: Cheating, Friends, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My ex boyfriend and I are best friends and in two weeks he's coming to see me but we both have g/b friends and he and I both want to cheat. I feel horrible but I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me.

We plan on keeping it a secret between just he and I and my neighbour and my best friend.

I want to know is there anything I can do to calm down or something like that? Anything but not doing it all together.

Judge all you want I know what I want so I won't listen to negative people.

thanks X

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A female reader, wayblonde6 United States +, writes (18 November 2008):

Like they both said . If you bestfriend knows. Well let's say u make her mad in a week.. Well there goes your secret. And cheating isn't okay. Just end the relationahip with your boyfriendd and then u can have that other guy. If u don't break up with him everytime u look in his eyes u will feel guilty.. And you will have a guilty conceince and it will suck. Do the right thing. Imagine if the situation was flipped around and your boyfriend cheated on you?

Best of luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

Well, it sounds like you have already made your mind up that you are going to "do it" so there's only one thing I can say...Good Luck With That!

Secrets usually don't get kept secret! Somehow, things get out and everything backfires!

Have you thought about how you will feel after he leaves again? Think about that!

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