A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Just a quick query about female masturbation.Ladies/girls is it just me or do you think it's a bit sexist to presume that girls don't masturbate and that wanking is a guy's thing? If you are a girl and you masturbate, do you feel really annoyed because guys can just talk openly about it, whereas some of your girlfriends would NEVER dream of talking about it? Well, I'm female and I masturbate. shock! Horror!, but recently I'm finding it really hard to orgasm, it's not just a simple matter of fingering, that won't get me off at all anymore, i need to full on hump something for several minutes. This is really frustrating, has anyone got any better techniques?
View related questions:
fingering, orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, MissUnique  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Yeah I know. For some guys, masturbating is like second nature but when it comes to a woman doing it...OH MY GOD!!!! What's with that? I thought society had gotten over the whole 'women are dainty little figures and should not be doing or thinking of naughty things' thing? Men masturbate. Women masturbate. You can think whatever you want, but we're not gonna stop just cos you say no :P haha. Masturbation is like exploring yourself and discovering what you like, what you don't like. It shouldn't be something to be ashamed of. Fair enough, I don't exactly like discussing it to a lot of people - only people I trust - but it is a subject that shouldn't be hidden. There must be a thousand posts on here about guys doing it, so we shouldn't be ashamed to say we masturbate. Heck, I masturbate, and I like it. :) Thankyou very much. ;) As for your problem or whatever, is your mind on something else? 'Cos like Felina said, when you're worried about something or your minds faraway, you find it harder to orgasm. Or maybe you just aren't satisfied enough with the normal fingering stuff. Try other things.
A
female
reader, Felina  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Hi there!So,is the masturbation only for man?Hell no!Masturbation is the better way to learn about your body and about your mind as weel.
I have a boyfriend whith whom I have sex every day,but I also love to basturbate whith him,and alone as well.Sometimes,when my mind is stuck on problems concerning my job,or my family,I find it hard to get horny and come.I thing its normal...However,after a while touching myself,I am able to fly my mind away from evrything,and I enter my secret world of fantasy,and I am able to give myself a realy good time.
I think fingering is enough,but the better technique is on your brain,and not in your body.Explore your secret fantasies,the most dirty ones.Imagine your doing it.For me its enough to drive me crazy...
...............................
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 November 2008):
To be honest, if guys want to be open and chat about satisfying themselves then that's fine for them.
I'm the type of girl that wants to be seen as a lady and so I'm quite happy to keep my private moments private. I love the fact that it's naughty and secret!
As for techniques I must say I am not an expert, it took me AGES to get the hang of it so all I can recommend is perseverance.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
|
