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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Broke up with boyfriend today, he has punished me for telling the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex after he has come back on the ... (151 words)

Contraception for an Epileptic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have previously been on the contraceptive pill. I came off that maybe 2 years ago due to been diagnosed with epilepsy. I stopped taking it as it was making my mood low and it just wasn't agreeing with me. Since then my husband and I have been relying on male condoms as a ... (106 words)

How do I get her out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I'm a first year university student in London, and recently went to visit my friend in Manchester for a week (study week). Whilst I was there I met one of her friends and I know it sounds creepy but I can't stop thinking about her. I've never felt anything like it ... (185 words)

I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother....

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!!! I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother.... he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and that is fine by me. His family adores me and is so excited. What am I going to do? How can I remain a friend of the family when he will always be around ... (53 words)

Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there was another military mate ... (162 words)

What can I say to him to minimize the hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very upset and down in the dumps over my ex. We split up 6 months ago, he ended things because we weren't socially compatible (I like going out and he doesn't!). I was gutted and fought for him to take me back, coming up with solutions, and he said he would not be ... (267 words)

Is there a way to apologize for my stupidity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked a guy friend to ask this girl for her number specifically telling him to tell her that it was for me. I didn't ask her myself because I had recently moved to a different part of the city and his was the only number I had. I called her and she asked me how I had gotten ... (105 words)

Is this amount of sex bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get. He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad. I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always quite horny. I'm 18 and he's 2... (98 words)

Is he just not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy last spring in the mall, he is definitely attracted to me. i had a crush and we flirted a few times. then he stopped flirting with me and i decided to stop going to the mall to see him but decided to leave a "window open" by seeing him one last time and giving ... (217 words)

Pursue or not pursue, that is the question.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is leaving soon and I want to know if I should persue him. I can't decide because he gives me mixed signals. For instance... says he cares about me, talks about hot girls, puts his arm around me in public, won't make a move around his friend, has kissed m... (127 words)

Help! Dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out I am pregnant, for most this news would be exciting and happy as it should be for me. I was indecisive about what i wanted to do and when i decided i knew i had to tell the "sperm donor". The relationship I had with this person was at first only about sex, but i me... (249 words)

He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that, He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together where I do. I'm now not sure wha... (101 words)

What gift should I give a girl on her birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am clueless as to what gift i should give a girl i really like in school[university] on her birthday without letting her think i'm trying to hook up with her. Can you please help me out?... (37 words)

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ... (24 words)

My girlfriend seems so cold towards me at times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm new to the site but I just wanted to fire out this question and I hope Ii can get some responses back soon. I'm currently in a relationship, and am very much in love with the girl i am with, but there are times when i don't know how she feels about me. She se... (221 words)

Is this guy being a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for 7 mths now. He definatley told me that he's not ready for a long term relationship. Last night he told me jokingly "I own you" (which he says this often). And I said "No you dont". What gives? He doesnt want me seeing anyone else. but since he told ... (130 words)

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he treats me like crap and always ... (229 words)

How should I act when I meet his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have been with my boyfriend for over three months now and he has met both of my parents. The thing is he wants me to meet his parents and yes i want to but i dont think they will like me. The last bf i had i met his parents and they did not like me because i did not wear... (79 words)

My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a joke, but his eldest nephew ... (155 words)

How do I stop my boobs from growing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i'm 15 years old, i'm 5'1 and my boobs are way too big already, i just want to know if there's anything i can do to stop growing anymore! I'm already a 32F, no 15 year old at my short height should have boobs that big, and i'm really quite skinny too so i can't lose ... (235 words)

What is female masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering what female masterbation is??... (8 words)

Is there an age limit to find out if you're fertile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering I read a question earlier asking how do you find out if you were fertile and repliers said to go to their doctors. I live in the UK...I want to know the same thing cause I am worried...Is there an age limit for this? What age do I have to be to ask a doctor ... (96 words)

I'm truly in love with a guy I hardly know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem, its not like most problems posted here. I'm in love with a guy I hardly know. I think it is love at first sight. I know cheesy, but its true. I can never stop thinking about him. I miss him everyday I wake up. When I say 'hardly know' I don't me... (196 words)

Should I make a move and tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - basically in the short of things i really, really like this girl, and shes just finished with her boyfriend and shes had a bit of a rough time about it all! now while you may think im trying to make a move when shes upset, thats not my intention 1 bit, you see she has this ... (143 words)

He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he always answers immidiately with a ... (177 words)

My husband won't touch me, what should I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) age - I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend his life with me. He has totally ... (233 words)

Can we make it until the end?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a third year college student studying in singapore. I been in love with this girl back home in india for about 2 years now. We got into the relationship knowing its going to be like this for quite a while (6 years totally, 3 years of education and 3 years of bond). - i ... (616 words)

How can I stand out from the others and get him to pick me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i stand out against the rest? I really like this guy josh who me and him i found just clicked as soon as we met. But the problem is is that me and my friend both like him and it obviously has caused a problem because he likes us too but he also has a few other girls ... (314 words)

I love my friend of 17 years

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age - Hi Everyone i have been friendly with this lady for years, we go out for the rugby matches. But recently she has split with here husband, due to his drinking and Gambling, and the divorce proceedings are near the end, but i have fallen for here big time, i have been a shou... (184 words)

He's backed off and become distant. Should I wait this out?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 6 months has backed off and gotten distant. Our kids are not getting along-he says he loves me but when we have our kids he wants to keep them apart for a little while. When I tried to tell him about my feelings and how I wasnt feeling important to him ... (195 words)

How can I cheer up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up :( xxxx... (55 words)

My bestfriend became my lover and now he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for years and over the summer we became great friends, then we became more than great friends and he became ever so lovy dovy and often said that he loved me. But recently he has become distant, he never says that he loves me anymore and always seems to be ... (193 words)

I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now. We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ years we have left at this school, but... (302 words)

I love him but I'm tired of feeling unsatisfied....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. Before we got married, the sex was great, but now I'm lucky if we make love once or twice a month. I've tried talking to him about this, but he always wants it to be all on his terms. Sometimes I wonder if he's taking ... (87 words)

Is it fair to be with someone if you're not over your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it is fair to be with someone if you are not over your ex, I realise that you havam in this situation and I have realised that I have to move on. Afterall, my ex had his chance! I have heard that you it is better to be with the one that loves you the most than be ... (133 words)

I want him back but he won't answer my calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - we married after a relationship lasted for years.we made a wonderful marriage,everything was perfect until...after 10 months of marriage we started fighting not on major issues(problems not related to us)but in an agressive way.now after couple years of marriage he left me and ... (83 words)

It ended before it even started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - For a while I liked a guy in the pub. We ended up getting together a couple of weeks ago. Both said we like each other but are worried of getting involved because we both have children to think about. And he said he likes being single and wishes he hadn't met me really because ... (393 words)

What can I do to make him happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend got mad at me because I hugged my dad when he got me an ipod today for my birthday. My boyfriend said he doesn't want me hugging other guys. What can I do to make him happy? ... (39 words)

He's in to me and doesn't want any one else - but he said the thought of us being bf/gf scares him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess you can say I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now. I go to his house couple times a week. We always enjoy each others company. We kiss, hold hands (even in public..so its not an indoor thing), hug, cuddle, we are intimate. He has already told me that he is ... (133 words)

I'm worried because I don't know what to get my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I am 12 and my boyfriend is turning 15. I was wondering what I should get him for his birthday. It is coming up very soon and then right after that is Christmas. So I also would like to know what I should get him for Christmas as well. I have already gotten him some col... (123 words)

He's come on so strong and said he loves me. Is this normal? is he desperate? Or just too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months but only seeing him for the past month. Things have been amazing and I really see this going somewhere. The thing is he has come on very strong from the start. Things like he hasn't felt like this in 8 years, wanting to see me ... (229 words)

I'm secretly bi and in love with a guy - will I ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres the story, Im Bi and not out,but a friend of mine i have always been attracted to him but i think im in love with him i cant stop thinking of him and really want to kiss his lips romanticly. I dont know whether to tell him because. 1. it could ruin my friendship with... (144 words)

On a scale of 1-10 how important is sexual compatibility?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How important on a scale of 1 to 10 is sexual compatibility in a relationship? How devastating can sexual differences be to a relationship? Are there ways to overcome these differences and make things work? Or is it a case by case thing. I'm looking for some general feedback... (121 words)

I'm having a hard time understanding his intentions....should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im having a hard time understanding his intentions This guy I had a past with but found out to be a player, is back in my life. Over the summer, he liked 2 girls but ended up dating one of them and then cheating on her after she moved away for school in less than a week. At ... (218 words)

Why do you catch so much hell as a mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HELLO Ladies and Gents, I have a question when you are the mistress why do you catch so much hell. I have been involved with my friend for about two years now and i love him very much and will do anything for him. But this is my problem in the beging he called every hou... (137 words)

Why did he choose a woman similar to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi all,i got a problem that needs solving,i have a best friend who is a guy,he is also the best friend of my guy,thing is we were friends before my guy and i got together. i will call my best friend R. R and i are so close that i tell him everything and so would my guy...yet we ... (736 words)

How do you break off a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you end a long distance relationship. We have been going out for over a year and she moved 3 month ago. She visits frequently (once a month), but do I end it now like over the internet or in person when she comes to visit. One is impersonal, one requires me faki... (85 words)

If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! Anyway, when we kiss goodnight h... (98 words)

Can sexual attraction be so intense between two people that they are actually uncomfortable in each other's presence?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I was just wondering (and please don't read too much into this!) whether sometimes the sexual attraction between two people can be so intense that they actually avoid each other (i.e. never actually consummate the attraction), net result being that people actually pursue ... (74 words)

I've fallen for my ex girlfriends sister.....Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So like many of you I have a real complicated love situation I am in. For a few months now I have fallen for my ex girlfriends sister. I know it is wrong but I cant help how I feel. She lives right next door to me so it makes it impossible to avoid her. My ex... (296 words)