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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, within about 8 months he changed A LOT! sometimes he treats me as a mate more than a girlfriend, he will come to see me but just sit downstairs have a cuppa tea and then leave, I'm not saying that's wrong but it's kinda boring every day! He always moans and threatens we shouldn't be together because we don't go out and do different things, when he doesn't take action and do something and make plans he always leaves it to me when he's the one that does the moaning? I don't know whether he's keeping me locked away because he's scared i'll find someone else, or what? I can't see how he can moan all the time but never arrange for us to do something together :S and happily come round my house everyday to sit downstairs.He's always out with his mates, he can sometimes act very harsh on msn or text messages as though iv said something wrong and he bites my head off, when I never do anything! He never used to be like this at all he used to treat me like a princess, I don't understand why he's changed so much! It's gettting nearer to christmas and he said he isn't going to get me anything? Now I know this could be a joke but he seemed very serious saying it's just for kids, when every other celebration e.g my birthday he brought me the nicest things and wrote the sweetest things in my card.I don't understand why he's changed? can any one help me please, I am so confused and I don't know if I should stay in this relationship for the rest of my life because I'm only young but love him so much!
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 surprise him!just get dressed,go over to his house or call him and tell him to meet you somewhere,and just go out and have fun,don't wait for him to take the next step..have a great evening,if he doesn't show up,or just gives you an excuse,well that just leaves you one thing to do:dump him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Try havin sex with him and see if he changes if he does you know all he wants is sex!!
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