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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey there, My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures on his email. I talked to him about how it makes me feel but he is still looking at these and tells me "he's just a guy" how do I make him stop?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 November 2008):
 What are you saying, Is this friend sending porn of unknown women to your husband or does your husband actually know the women in the pictures? Huge difference. Is the friend a man or woman?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): You probably can't. If he's only looking at least he isn't having an affair. It's harmless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just don't know how to get it accross his mind - that his behavior make me feel like I'm not good enough or hiw ( and I already said that to him in this words) he just always responses that he's just a guy. It kills me that he enjoys looking at someone else:-( we still have great relationship but it really takes away from what it was before. He was a perfect guy and now I cannot think of him in the same way like I did before.
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Oh, "he's a guy"? So this is Manly behavior? Since when is hurting your wife manly? Why the hell do you need more than me, hubby? do you realise that your behavior is making me feel invalid? Its disrespectful! And you're really not helping by pushing my feelings aside. Treating me like I'm disposable. So muich for "forsaking all others and honouring me"
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 November 2008):
Tell him to knock this crap off immediately, whether it's a man or a woman sending these pictures it's way out of line. If he refuses tell him to pack his bags.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Tell your husband to tell this man to stop.
If he doesn't then I think it's fair to say that your husband has no interest in stopping these pictures from arriving.
If that is the case then really let your husband know how much this has hurt you.
Either by chopping the plug off the computer, sticking up naked pictures of men all over the house or simply moving out for a few days.
Once he knows you are serious about making him suffer till he stops it from happening, he might get on and stop it.
Good Luck!! xx
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