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anonymous
writes:I had a very intense yet short relationship with a women I know from work. We stopped seeing each other when her ex came crawling back claiming he had changed. (OK, I'm a little bitter about that part). Nevertheless, we both still have feelings towards each other. We communicate numerous time per day while at work and then on our off-time. We are on the same bowling team and hang out together outside of work. I tried to avoid her, but that didn't work because of our jobs and activities. She actually got upset with me when she thought I was avoiding her. We've had conversations about 'us' before, but I still hold back my emotions. I'm wondering if I should finally come clean about my feelings with her? I can't shake her from my mind and I miss being with her more than I ever thought was possible? She was/is my soulmate and I'm a wreck without her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): YES! Honesty is always the best way to go...in a case like yours. Tell her how you feel. Be truthful and don't hold back. Tell her about your ex and how you now feel about her! It sounds as though she really cares for you and wants more than just friendship!
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