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writes:Hello, I was just wondering if I could ask what people's opinions are on online dating websites?I recently joined one, and I'm just wondering if anyone has any success/failure stories? I'm trying to work out if its actually worth my time! I've heard many stories of weirdos etc. That's obviously something I want to avoid!Anything to share out there? Much appreciated :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Noty  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Hi. I met my husband online 3 years ago so yes, there are success stories out there. We lived in different countries them. I fell in love with him the first time I heard his voice on the phone even though I must admit that now it sounds weird when I admit that fact. We met in person after 5 months of online dating and clicked right away. Before I met him I had physically met with one other guy I met online and we did not connect at all so that was the last time we communicated.
I didn't have any scarry stories at all. I have a friend who has also been using online dating. She hasn't met anyone she fancies but has made good friend with the guys she has met.
I say go for it as long as you follow the basic logical rules like always meeting in public places when you meet for the first time, etc. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): I have been on some of those websites and from my experience it's been very good. There are some fantastic women on those sites. Haven't come across any weirdos at all. But again this is a man's perspective. I have heard from one of my dates, how she dated a guy who lied about his height and physical appearance. My advice is to ask questions via email and when you are comfortable he's not a freak, meet for coffee somewhere where a lot of people are around. Meeting in person is always the best way to get to know someone.The one thing I take against those sites is that some of the women will not respond when I send them emails to introduce myself and showing an interest in what they do. To all women out there, please reply back when a man sends you an email. If you have no interest, just say that and why. It gives us the chance to clarify any questions and if there still is no interest, move on. Finally, chemistry is not judged online or over the phone. You need to meet to find out, but always be cautious when you meet someone for the first time and after you've exchanged some emails. Go somewhere safe and let your friends know where you are. Relax and enjoy it.Hope this helps.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 While I know nothing about the British versions, in Texas I have been quite successful meeting women - and perhaps one out of 20 who have "approached" me were excellent dating successes. Of course, in my older age group (50 to 60+), most prospects are overweight (I'm not) or quite aged versions. Most simply haven't got a chance with me, even though I'm not the youthful stud anymore. Alas, my heyday is long over (yet I'm even more experienced). In your approximate age group, many twenty or thirty somethings are naturally more attractive and reasonably fit. This does not offer you much to go on but it may be encouraging to some other readers.
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