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writes: Okay I am a part of this youth choir and it's a lot of fun besides the politics which is like everywhere n all. There is this guy I really like and he's like 3 years older than me and this girl who is like 2 years younger than me so 5 years younger to him hits on him like crazy. I mean I like him but it's below me to get a guy's attention by doing stupid things and by conspicuous behaviour. It's more like she always has to butt in our conversation and do stupid shit to grab his attention. I feel like he's eager on knowing me too but then again how can I be too sure and that girl pisses the shit out of me.what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Just get together out of choir practice: get to know him better. I imagine he finds this other girl just as annoying as you do, if she keeps interrupting conversations: he wont mind meeting away from her at all I'm sure. Just, dont resort to crazy shit: why bring yourself down to her level? Just the odd comment after an interruption: "God, she's stupid..." then resume conversation.And if all goes well, imagine the look on her face when she see's you both together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): I thought the only creatures that are capable of pissing shit were the birds and the fishes.
However, you like him, she likes him. Great, so far. She hits on him like crazy and does stupid shit, like, and I presume you don't.
If you want his attention you're going to have to attract it somehow. Maybe you need to get your shit together and piss the shit out of her for starters. He's not a mind reader, so why not cut the crap, get to the point and tell him what you're thinking.
He probably finds her shit irritating anyway if she's only aged like 16 when he's like in his 20's.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 when choir practice is over you could casually mention you guys should hang out sometime and he'll probably say yeah and you could exchange #'s that way when you're talking/texting, that girl won't be able to butt in because she won't be there :) I had the same problem but it was at work. after we exchanged numbers we got to talk without some stupid person butting in. It worked for me.hope i helpedand also if you act like the girl doesn't bother you at all and you actually enjoy her company, she might tone it down a little, she probably likes him and knows you like him too and feels like you're competition. so if you befriend her she might not feel as threatened, therefore she might not feel the need to butt in as much.(this also worked for me)
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