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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. All of a sudden one day I didn't feel the same for him. I thought when it happened that it would go away after a week because I have felt like this before and it has gone away. Now I have been keeping it the back of my head, telling myself its not true and that I'm going to feel the same for him again, but its just not there. I have told him 4 times and I don't want to keep hurting him. I don't want to feel this way and I just wish things were the same. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 I am going thru the sams situation. But it's not that I just woke up and felt that way. It's just the non-stop problems. We are ok for awhile but then he does something that gets me upset and we end up arguing. His main problem is getting used to being in a relationship and putting the single life behind him.
But anyways..you need to follow your heart and if your feelings have changed then take a break. Maybe that will help you think clearly and realize if you miss each other or not. Also, if there is any problems that you both need to work on to make this relationship stronger.
I drove out to my boyfriend's house on Sunday determined to end this relationship. But walked away and said nothing. It's hard, I know!
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