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female
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anonymous
writes:Sex with a fat burd?Ok I exaggerated there. I am not fat fat, I weigh about just under 9 stone but I feel huge. It has been just recently I have put a lot of weight on and it lowers my self-confidence. I am paranoid that when my time comes to break my virginity that the guy with be disgusted at my body. I know I am not the fattest but I just feel so big. Do guys mind? Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fingle +, writes (28 January 2009):
If you are only 9 stone you are NOT fat. Guy's who are bothered by a little extra weight are not worth bothering about. It will difinately not put any guy off sleeping with you.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): curves are sexy!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Every woman thinks she is fat!
Unless you are 4 feet tall, if you're only 9 stone, there is no way you are fat!
Wait for the right person who finds you beautiful physically and personally and you'll have no problems!
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female
reader, anon642 +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Honey please.
My circle of friends involves me and 4 other people, and we all range from 7 and a half stone, to 10 and a half stone.
And i personally think that all of my friends look amazing. I honestly do.
9 Stone is such a healthy weight it really is.
I know its hard to look at yourself and be happy, but i cannot stress enough how 9 stone is actually an ideal weight.
I know you said you've put weight on recently and its knocked your self confidence but don't let it!! How much weight do you think you've put on?
I'm sure you really look absolutely fine.
And the whole 'sex' issue. Don't worry about it, look around this site and many people will tell you that when you start getting naked, the male just wants to make love, not inspect every inch of your body.
Love yourself for who you are and you'll meet a boy that will love every single part of you, no matter what :)
All the best!
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female
reader, lovelylinda  +, writes (10 November 2008):
If you unhappy about your weight you should do something about it, change your eating habits and gym. you will only enjoy sex if you truly comfortable so embrace your body or get fitter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Guys have the same kinds of insecurities about their bodies as we do. Try not to worry about it. In the end, its not who's got the best body, but the chemistry between you that counts.
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