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writes:My girlfreind split up with me like 2 weeks ago now, she says she still loves me and finds me attractive. We have stayed friends and talked to each other quite often after the split until we decided to have no contact about a couple of days ago. She says she doesn't want me to hang on because she is 99% certain this is what she wants. She says she doesn't want to be in a relationship and that she just wants to be on her own because now she says she only got herself to worry about. She's also is in university which makes things hard. What is going through her mind? Will we ever get back together? I find it so hard not to contact her, I love her so much! Thanks for any advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your replys, but in reply to your answers i would like to say we have been together for 4 years, and she is a month into her second year of university, and we saw alot of each other. i think maybe if i give her a few months then she will realise how much she misses me! thanks for the replys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): If she says she's 99% certain, you can bet that what she really means is 100%. The 1% discrepancy and her declaration of love etc. is her trying to let you down as gently as she can.
Maybe she's come to realise that her future depends on how well she gets on with her studies now, and she doesn't need any distractions at the moment which will interfere with that.
The best you can do is wish her well and tell her you accept her decision with good grace. Maybe when she's finally got her degree or whatever she'll get in touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): In my opinion, she may still have feelings for you. Cause no girl can get over a guy that fast.
But if she does want this relationship to stop, you have to respect that.
Maybe she thinks you're not the one or she's afraid to hurt you.
SOrry but chances getting back together is slim =/
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