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writes:I'm in love with a married man. I'm in an 8 year relationship with the father of my 2 kids. We get along okay but I just don't have that passion for him any more. My son is 5 and any time me and his dad argue, my son says stop yelling, I thought we were a family. That makes me feel bad about wanting to leave. My married lover has 3 kids with wifey (age 5,11,14) he reads me all the letters wifey leaves around the house. One day she's lovey dovey the next day she's bitchin! He is tired of her inconsistancy (I call it bipolar) and we both know how happy we could be if we didn't have to sneak around but at the same time there are 5 children involed and neither one of us wants to cause pain to our spouse. WHAT DO I DO?
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reader, Cheater32 +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Wow I understand what you are going through. I have been involved with a man sexually for 2 years and while we are not thinking of leaving our spouses having this affair is wrong and I know it. I am in the process of ending this now. It hurts because we are friends and the sexual connection is great. But I am married and took a vow 14 years ago to love my husband for better or worse. I find it funny because you said that you think his wife is bi-polar I am bi-polar and im not insulted in the least but his wife may be bi-polar and she needs her husband.
So i guess I am telling you to really think about what you are doing. I try and think of my sons. They worship me as there mom if they found out they would be so hurt. I love them to much and my husband to much to keep this up. This man that I am dealing with right now is not my future he is not my life. I hope that helps some. Please feel free to email me personally when ever you want!
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reader, the married woman +, writes (10 November 2008):
You eat an apple every morning for months at a time and every morning it tastes absolutely great. One morning, your girlfriend offers you a muffin full of goodies and it just blew your mind. From there on out the apple is no longer good enough for you and every morning you are craving that muffin. BUT you can't get the muffin any more because your girlfriend isn't around anymore and you don't know where she bought the donut. So you feel you're settling for this apple but you really aren't. You just want what you shouldn't have or don't need in the first place.
I say that to say this. Be happy and greatful for what you have. If the apple is good to and for you, then appreciate the apple; For, some if not most have rotten apples.
good luck
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