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anonymous
writes:i've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and our relationship is solid and very loving. we both understand and support each other. recently i've noticed that one of his friends in college seems to be very interested in spending time with him when i'm not around. whenever there is a study group she makes sure that they leave together and is constantly texting him about the problems that she is having which has nothing to do with school. Last week he called me at work to let me know that she had stopped by our house to talk about the test they had just taken. she knew that i was working and i found that very disrespectful. i talked to him about it and told him that he needed to speak to her and let her know that she was very inappropriate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your response. it's good to hear someone else's point of view. and by the way, he did talk to her and all of the sudden she doesn't text him anymore about her personal dilemas. thanks again for your support!!!!!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I don't know if it's disrespectful of her to stop by your house but in your frame of mind, I can see why you might lean that way. It only bothers you because you feel she's moving in on your guy based on the entire scenario. He needs to set up boundaries and live by them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Well done, I think you did the right thing. What is wrong with women like that, trying to butt in on other people's relationships. You are handling it well.
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