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writes:Alright so I'm looking for a bit of advice here.I'm 18, and the other night I got a fake ID and went to a bar, where I met a girl there who was 23. She asked me how old I was, so I said 19 because I didn't want to look like the one underaged jackass in the bar.Anyways, we ended up getting a hotel room and spending the night together, and she had a pretty great personality, we got along real well. But she lives a few hours out of town.She gave me her number, but doesn't drive, and neither do I. We both agreed though we should hook up again sometime though, but considering the distance and lack of transportation and what not I can't really see it happening. So should I even bother calling? If so, do you think I should tell her the truth about my age? She was right on so I doubt she'd care too much when I explain myself, but at the same time she kept going on about how young I was (while thinking I was 19), so I'm not too sure how she'd respond to it. Reply to this Question
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reader, agtorange +, writes (12 November 2008):
agtorange is verified as being by the original poster of the question Told her last night, went over better than I thought. If anyone asks while I'm visiting I just up my age by a couple years and that's that.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Yes, and tell her why.
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reader, agtorange +, writes (11 November 2008):
agtorange is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is pretty good, never thought of it that way.
She got a hold of me on MSN though and told me to call her last night so I did, arranged something so I'm going to be spending a weekend with her. But she still brought up my age a few times, so maybe she does know I was lying. She also went about how it drives her nut when people are dishonest, well moreso mentioned it, but I thought that was pretty random.
Think I should just tell her?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 November 2008):
Women can see through you. You're here, thinking that you got away with telling her you were one year older, and chances are she's still smiling about how you added one -yep, one whole, 365-day long- year to your age, you sweet tender little thing. If you need further proof of it, just ask yourself why she would keep talking about your age.
(Danielepew thinks to himself: she already knew she would sleep with the guy, and was only checking how old he was because she was not for "statutory rape").
She slept with you, gave you her phone number, and made it clear she is so willing to see you that transportation difficulties might not matter at all. Oh, I wish I had that luck all the time. I would call her in one week. Yeah, people will say that a week is too long, bla, bla, bla, but this time I have a good reason why it would work. Because it would show that, one week later, you're still thinking about seeing her. That is, you're interested.
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