I have fallen in love with a good friend's girlfriend, what do I do now?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I fell in love with a good friend's girlfriend and I don't know what to do. We had crushes on each other in high school but barely knew each other, and she ended up dating a friend of mine late in the summer this year. When I moved back 12 hours away to college I kept in contact with her. We fell in love and I kissed her when i came to visit a couple weeks ago, we would have gone further but we were under time constraints. We've sent each other a lot of dirty texts since I visited. Now I'm visiting again soon for thanksgiving and really want to bang her but at the same time I would feel like a huge asshole. I love her but at the same time I can't because she's dating a friend of mine. What should I do? Does this make me the biggest asshole in the world?

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