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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I've been marriage to this wonderful lady for 2 years. Her prior marriage, her husband ended up being gay. From that marriage, she had 3 handsome boys. Now the father has had multiple boyfriends including a relationship that lasted 2 years. He is also in the boys lives. I thought that would be ok being around with the kids. I leave for a month to go on a business trip for a month. I come back and my wife told me she has feeling for him and falling back in love with him. He has cause her so much pain in the past. He left her while she was pregnant with the 3rd Child to be with another man. He was very controlling, dressing her and doing her hair etc... I thought my marriage with her is strong. But all this stuff started to happen when I was on the business trip. I asked her do she love me and she said yes. And she also has feeling for her ex-gay husband. I really dont know what to do. Please help... what can I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he is still going after her. He is using the kids to get her to come to him. She told me tonight that she was still emotional attached to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Tell her love you and don't want to lose her but really the rest if up to her. It sounds a bit crazy though as if he's gay there isn't much hope! Has he reciprocated her feelings or is it just her falling back in love?
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