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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hmm, i need help.Im torn between two guys. let me explain both guys to you .Guy 1,He's sweet, kind, funny, nice, cool, outgoing, and generally an amazing guy. He's really nice to me, and always tells me about how much he cares about me, and how he could not live without me. He constently tells me he loves me, and can not move on.Guy 2,He's nice most of the time, can be nasty to me though, we argue and sometimes have little fights but never last longer than like a day because if its his fault he apolagises and makes it up to me somehow. He sometimes tells me he loves me but not always, he dosnt ever really tell me about how much he cares about me, but we always hug and stuff and are always chatting at school.Guy 1, He's my ex-bofriend, he dumped me! then asked for me back but i said no. He always tells me he loves me and etc from wot i have already said, but when he was with me he did some things, and made me cry a few times. but every relationships have bad times right?, When i was with him i found out he was thinking bout dumping me for his ex, but i understand that, that was just because, we didnt really see each other, because we were both always busy and he got a bit parinoyed and annoyed, but he decided he didnt care wether he didnt see me much he wanted to stay with me because he loved me. then he dumped me a month or so later because he didnt think it was working which i aggred even though i still loved him, then later that day he told me he had made a mistake and cudnt stop thinking about me and asked for me back but i wudnt take him back at first because i didnt want him to hurt me by dumping me again so i said i needed time to think and so he said ok. i didnt take him back he still likes me now and still tells me every day he loves me and wants me back and how much he cares for me.Guy 2, he is my new boyfriend, like i said he hardly ever tells me he loves me and is really nasty to me sometimes, but he has never made me cry, and once i stoped talking to him for a whole day because he made me so upset. and he has sent a rumor around the school that i am pregnant with my ex-boyfriends baby. i was really embarressed because every one heard about it. Oh and by the way i am NOT pregnant i didnt even sleep with him. oh i do wanna metion he is really nice to me sometimes though i dont just wanna say the bad things.So, i no i still have feelings for my ex but am afraid i will get hurt from him.i want to be with him most of the time i want to talk to him i like to be around him.some times i dont feel like being with my current boyfriend any more because he is so mean to me sometimes,but i do like to be around him 2. i dont no who i would be better off with. i feel for them both but can not sort my mind out who i want to be with. and i cant dump my current boyfriend because i cant bring myself to do it. and i dont no if i even want to. im just so very confused. I need help on what your views are on what i should do? what guy sounds better for me to be with.arhhh im torn between two guys what should i do???
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reader, melanie.amanda +, writes (10 November 2008):
speak to ur x, talk him why he wants u back, and how things would be different, most of all does he love u, u need to do this face to face. if u feel he means everythin he says i would really think about giving him another go, cos sounds like u were and could be again.tell him u still love him. guy 2 needs to realize what hes got. i mean does he realize how much of a catch u r? cos it dosent sound like it. he needs to realize someone else wants u too then he might change his tune, but i would defo think bout ur x an him an see who can make u happy if ur stil together 1yr from now? also what ur heart says,x
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