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Should I wait for her or just give up now?

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Question - (10 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this girl that I like a lot and we were flirting all the time until I finally asked her out. And everything was fine for the first few DAYS. She had broken up with her last bf a few days before that because she was planning on asking me out.

Then she started acting very strange and one day we were hanging out and she asked if she could talk to me seriously and she told me that she liked me a lot but she needed time because she had just broken up with her bf and she wanted to be single for a bit just to feel what it felt like. That same night that we broke up when we were alone, she started kissing me and hanging on to me more than she ever had and that confused me.

So now every time that I talk to her she still flirts with me and tells me she likes me, but other times when I talk to her she is a major bitch and tells me that I am not interesting and stuff like that. So I am really confused about what I should do if I should wait for her or give up on it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

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everything was improving but today she stoped talking to me, she payed attention to all of our friends but she ignored me, i dont know why since we didnt argue or anything like that.

but my friend told me that she was talking to my gf and my gf told her that she has a massive crush on me but shes not sure about dating me bc of for some reason we breakup she wont be able to hang out with me and our friends anymore and she doesnt want that

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008):

I have to agree with the above post. Move on, and if in the future she gets her act together and wants to be with you seriously, then it may work out...

She definitely won't think you are uninteresting if she happens to see you with someone else! Just don't let her mess you about m8.

cheers x

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A male reader, ez4u2say United States +, writes (10 November 2008):

You need to move on and move fast. She is a player whether she knows it or not. Don't be another toy waiting around to finally get some attention.This behavior will never end, you are being used. Don't let this truth hurt you it happens to the best of us. There is nothing wrong with you, you just happen to be the wrong person at the right time.

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