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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am female and attracted to a female coworker. I am straight, and I believe she is too (she recently broke up with a boyfriend), and she has a son from her ex-husband. We seem to have a mutual attraction, but not enough for me to figure this out. I haven't been attracted to another female like this before, but I can't stop thinking about her. I am completely clueless as to how females flirt with each other. Is it the same as how I act when flirting with a man? So confused...any answers or opinions would be great.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (18 February 2009):
You may just feel the need for closeness to another female or experimentation, you may be a bi sexual if you have been atracted to men before. First of all just think about what you are trying to gain by flirting with her, would you want a relationship, sex?? Think it through carefully. If you have decided that you still want to proceed then just tell her how you feel, that you feel you have an unusual bond of intimacy with her! If you are flirting with her she may see you as just being friendly. If you don't want to dive in then make sure your flirting is recognised. Make sure there is lots of body contact, touch her hand, stroke her hair...things like that. X
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