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writes:A couple of months ago I got with a guy who I didn't really know that well but all my friends do, as a fun end of exams fling. He's really hot and a genuine nice guy. Anyway, not being gross but he went down on me, and it was good, yeah, but now I see him "around" quite often, we even go to his house sometimes, and I think I may fancy him even more than I did before. However I have barely talked to him as I don't really know what to say after what happened. How should I act around him? Especially, how can I react relaxed around him yet still give him the impression I like him?Also do you think I should just leave him and make myself get over him, like will he have ever liked me? I'm so confused.. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Adey +, writes (10 November 2008):
Good idea is find out something he has done and ask him about it - take the pressure off you having to say something. He will also like the fact you are interest in him. If all else fails just ask if he wants to go for a coffee sometime. Read a classic book called 'how to win friends...' by Dale Carnegie as it has some simple tips on how to be engaging and interested in others that will win you many hearts and friends. In simple terms = be interested in them, listen and talk in terms that are about them (not yourself). Its not manipulative but you need to balance it with a interesting life of your own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): I think you've already given him the impression that you like him! He obviously liked you!
Be subtle. Say to him "Fancy another furburger?" That should get his attention.
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