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writes:my ex has put me through sheer hell, yet as soon as he clicks his fingers I run to him. Even tho he has a gf, I slept with him at the weekend. He was nasty to me and even admitted cheating on her with someone else. He asked me not to tell her and deny it if she found out about us, but I dont want to. Anyway, tonight I found out that she does know. She hasnt contacted me and neither has he I heard it through a friend. I phoned him but he wont answer, hes ignoring me. I know he's gonna deny it, but hes been such an evil bastard to me why should he get away with it? I didnt even wanna sleep with him but he gave me the usual sweetness, then nasty afterwards. I even had to have an abortion cos of him, something that I didnt wanna do but he didnt want a child, he has no respect for me even tho I had to go through that, he doesnt care about anything. Now I wanna email her and tell her all about it and how he cheated on her with someone else too. But I cant I dont wanna seem like a bitch. I wanna do it to hurt him, not her. He has completely ruined my life. I fell for him and would of done anything for him but he always threw it back in my face. Its like he;s determined to hurt me all the time. I know hes not like this with everyone hes been out with cos I know other girls hes been with and hes treated them good, its just me. Some of the things he says and does has me in tears but he just laughs.
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reader, Arrow  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I think you should stay away and learn from this. Stop being fooled. He's just manipulating you for his own sexual pleasures and obviously cares nothing about you. It's not right. If you say anything you will be hurting her, you cant avoid that. Don't do it out of spite, do it for the right reasons. If she knows & stays then it is her choice and problem. It's not an easy situation. I would prefer to know if my bf was cheating on me and then make that decision. He obviously is a serial cheat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): You don't need a guy who treats you like this. And his girlfriend has enough problems being with him without you saying anything. I think you best plan is to cut off from him.
If he has treated other people better then maybe you need to think about how you let people treat you, maybe check this out with people you trust or have some counselling. That way you can maybe get the next person to treat you better. You have to have respect for yourself before other people will. This guy is not good enough for you.
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reader, Anonny +, writes (10 November 2008):
Some men get a kick out of being pure evil and using women!- I don't know why men are like this - I guess because us women let them get away with it!
However, I don't think you say anything to his gf just yet as it will cause even more pain! If he is really that bad she will find out for herself soon enough! - Like they say if you give em enough rope they will end up hanging themselves!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): get rid of this weak pathetic excuse for a man
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