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reader, shna  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 it could also be that your wife just has low confidence and self esteem levels she might have add problems with the way she felt about her brests a long time ago and you havent exactly helped the situation by flirting with colluges etc this probably jusy made your wife more insecure just let her know you love her and that you know she is perfect the way she is cause every woman is thats all the advice i can really give you
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 It's pretty obvious she looks at them and thinks she's not good enough. Maybe her boob job is to grab your attention which is quite sad really, pay more attention to your wife and make her feel sexy and appreciated as a woman.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Do you tell her that you find her attractive?
Hmm I'm not trying to be mean, but imagine how she's feeling. If YOU caught her flirting with male co-workers, how would YOU feel?
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Hi Hunny
She probably sees you looking at all these women and maybe the majority of them appear to have bigger breasts so she may think its what you prefer...She may just need a confidence boost..You could give her this by talking her out and treating her to a special weekend and showing her you love the way she looks...Why do you think all these models and actresses have boob jobs ( not all b4 I get hate mail) Its today's society, Women know it can make them feel more confident and other men will look, It gives women a boost these days...My 34 bs are staying that way, At least men have no option but to look at my face :) TAKE CARE HUNNY LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Shona--x +, writes (11 November 2008):
To be honest, It's probably nothing to do with what you think it's about. If she has a small chest then she probably doesn't feel comfortable with her body.
You should talk to her and make sure she knows you think she's beautiful! If she still wants it she probably just wants a good confident booster!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Does she have low self-confidence? I am often of the view that cosmetic surgery has its places but it's often for those who don't have real health worries to focus on. There are many people not fit to work, or have to go in for operations... I would say breast implants are warranted if she's really flat chested, and I can see how she would feel self-conscious about that. Otherwise it would to feel more sexy. As others say more sexy for who??
Fiona.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Maybe she wants this done so she will get more attention from OTHER men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Mainly because you look at other woman, and also she may not be happy with her own appearance and may compare herself to other women.
Maybe try cut down on flirting with other women and flirt with her more, let her know you love her.
I hope this small amount of advise is enough!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Because you flirt with other women and look at other women... duh. Try being a bit more faithful and attentive. Flirting isn't innocent you know.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Well, because you look at other boobs and flirt with other women :-).
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