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writes:Can you explain this to me? What does this mean, " I do really love you but I don't like you "? Please reply and thank you !!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): It means that you have done something that he doesn't like you.This is often told after a fight.It means he has not stopped loving you.But if you want the relationship to last start making some compromises fast.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 This means "I won't be with you but I need a way to b.s.-it so you won't notice".
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): I already replied to this question, but for some reason my reply hasn't been posted. I think this question deserves a second reply...I think what he is saying is he is attracted to you, he has feelings for you, but he doesn't always care for your behavior. I know because I've used that phrase before and that's what I've meant by it! But you need to confront him with this question and see what his response is...as I said in my first reply...it could be just that he wants to control you and you won't allow that and to that I say...Good for You!
Discuss this with him. Tell him you care enough to want to understand his words and thoughts...
And good luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Well, if or when I would possibly have felt that way, I would probably mean that "I really do love you, but . . .
1. I'm not going to change."
2. You're not going to change."
3. You cheated on me."
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (10 November 2008):
 I would take it as he loves you but not IN love with you... as in he cares for you deeply as a friend but as in relationship wise he doesn't see it... its really weird how he worded it...
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reader, Analdia +, writes (10 November 2008):
 when someone tells you that they are meaning exaclty what they said.i love you means they love you and they would do anything for you but they probably don't like your ways.my mother used to tell me that all the time and that's what she meant so maybe that's what they meant.it could mean they really care about you but they can't stand you at times.really i don't understand just like you lol because it kind of doesn't make any sense but it does at the same time!they love you but they just don't like to be bothered with you sometimes
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): Your friend has it backwards...its supposed to be I like you but I don't love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): When someone says that, what they are saying is I love you, I am attracted to you, however...I don't always like your behavior. I would ask him if that is what he is trying to tell you...and if he means enough to you, you will want to modify your behavior. Maybe it's time to evaluate yourself, him, and your relationship. It could be that he wants to control you more, and you are an independent person who refuses to be controlled. If that's the case then...Good For You!
The bottom line is to communicate with him and let him know you need clarification on his meaning!
Then, take it from there and act accordingly!
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Love = like as a person + like as a sexual partner...
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reader, that_one_female +, writes (10 November 2008):
 LOL! This means that the guy loves you, but at the moment he can't stand you. You two must have gotten into a fight && he means he loves you, but he doesn't like what you're doing.
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