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writes:Why does it bother me to know that my boyfriend has had sex in public places and done kinky stuff before, more than knowing he's had sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Adey  +, writes (10 November 2008):
there is a lesson - all relationships start at 'year zero'. All that happened before has gone. The only thing that matters is the now. You have to recognise that ex-relationships are just that = ex. Don't judge or worry about other peoples past. He is with you and you need to focus on the now.
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reader, torngirl +, writes (10 November 2008):
This is just a guess but perhaps you haven't, and so feel a bit worried that not having experience in this you might not match up to his previous partner(s)?
I can understand that you might feel a bit insecure but try and look on it that you have an adventurous bf who you can have fun with - and it's you he wants to have it with (I assume!) :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): I think it bothers you because you know that he's been with other women doing all kinds of freaky things and it places a strain on intimacy. I think that in the back of your mind when you and he are trying to be intimate...you think of his past and that puts the strain on the intimacy.
Trust me...I've been in your shoes.
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