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writes:So me and my gf have been going out for around five months. It started in the summer where it was all doing fine. Then school started and we go to different ones so we couldnt see each other that much which made it kind of hard but we still talked all the time keeping the communication good. But a few months after that she started acting weird and when i hung out with her she would try to get away from me so i was confused. I asked her about the problem and she said that everything is too overwhelming so she couldnt give the relationship 100%. So we talked for a while and she said there was nothing to do to fix it so that night we broke up. Later on that week we were talking and i told her that we should try to give the relationship another chance and she said yes and sounded really happy. She said she was being stupid and she would try her hardest to change but now its really not the same and she acts like she doesnt really care about our relationship and acts the same way that made us break up the first time when we hang out. SO i really dont know what to do if i should try to talk to her about it or if i should pretend the problem doesnt exist and see if it works out or break up with her.
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reader, steve9173 +, writes (11 November 2008):
steve9173 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am most positive that she hasnt found anyone else because i was her first relationship and her first everything so i dont want to break up with her i just want to find out how to fix the problems..
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (10 November 2008):
If you want to really continue the relationship, tell her you met someone else (never stray from this even years later). I hate to say it but she already has, she may deny but the signs are there. Tell her you enjoyed spending time with her but you feel she has lost the connection and you will continue seeing some one else. She'll call back and never look desperate or it will happen again. Always act like it's no big deal or she will dump u again. At this point she wants you when it's convenient and does not want anyone else to have you but she wants to play the field a little. Don't let her know this bothers you because she will continue to keep doing it. Be strong and act like you don't care never beg or plead or look weak if you do you lose.
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